My girlfriend and I are going through a tough time. We are taking a break and she says she feels numb about everything, towards me, to herself, to everything. I am in love with her and she is confused, she says feeling anything is painful and she just wants to be dead inside for a while. She said she is done feeling for the time being? What is she even talking about? She sounds like someone who is in love but got hurt. But I never hurt her and I love her. What could she mean? Any ideas? She said being dead for a while will give her strength to make a decision later? I am so lost and hurt and worried for her...
Most Helpful Girl
Okay, you're going through a tough time but you never hurt her? I sincerely doubt that, no offence.
Chances are she is either having interpersonal issues, you had done something you didn't realize, etc. I say just try to talk to her and ask her what is triggering all of this and what she wants to do to fix it.0
Most Helpful Guy
She's going through her own shit there's nothing you can do, wait it out and if it doesn't get better it'll prolly be over I'm afraid.0