I've been talking to a guy for 3 1/2 months now. He's a very busy guy, and very introverted, and so it has gone really slowly. Come October he will be traveling all month; he's a starving artist.. Literally broke, and working all the time to pay for his trade. We originally met on tinder in June, but then his phone died and he said he deleted the app.. I had found him on fb since I already knew about him through mutual friends. He has not gotten a new phone because he is that broke. I've seen him comment to others on fb about it too, so I know it's the truth.
Yesterday, I was on a fake tinder account (I deleted tinder months ago) for my friend to see if her boyfriend was on it... And I was completely shocked when I came across this guy I've been talking to. His profile is the EXACT same as when we met in June. Older pics ordered the same order, the few words he has are the exact same. I swiped right, and haven't matched with him yet with this fake girl... But I was just kinda sad.
I know since we are not actually together that I can't be angered or call him out on this, it's not that... It's just that if he was truly into me and wanting to be with me, he wouldn't be searching for others using tinder... We've had plans and have been progressing lately. So it makes me sad. Could it be that since he just deleted the app and not the actual account that he still shows up and his profile is still up?
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Deleting the app and deleting the account is not the same thing. If he only deleted the app, his profile will still be there, just inactive.1