Do guys like mean girls or nice girls?

[Jasmine992]

as much as I try to be mean to guys and ignore them, I find them attracted more to me like wtf!! maybe they just like what they can't have.. is that true?

[rjroy3]

I only know a few reasons a guy chases a mean girl:

1. She's mean to others, but not around him. To him she's the sweetest most nice girl he's ever met.

2. Ego. Either he can't take the rejection and wants to win her over. Or he feels a need to win her no matter what.

3. He's emotionally damaged and subconsciously goes towards women that are in line with his fucked-upness.

4. He realizes she might just be having a bad day and doesn't know him yet. So he decides it's worth pushing past the bullshit (he could be wrong, but oh well).

Outside of those. I don't know any man that actually "wants" a mean woman for a partner. He might want a strong woman. But a mean one? Lol no.

[rjroy3]

Almost forgot.

5: putting up with the bullshit in order to hate fuck her lol

[Jasmine992]

great answer! thnx

[rjroy3]

No problem girly 🖒👍

[depthcharge]

Men are often attracted to women who have some level of confidence because it usually indicates that the woman will be a healthy mate and not constantly depend on them for emotional support. Additionally, when seeking a lifetime partner, certain men are often wary of women who are too promiscuous, seeing them as more likely to be be loose and/or diseased. And thirdly, some men (usually dominant ones) just enjoy the thrill of the chase.

[ebbyeb]

Well, for some guys it's really attractive if you're mean. I honestly don't understand this lmao but that's just how it is. I think they kinda enjoy the abuse and find it arousing. Sometime guys will be the mean ones too. There's this guy that likes me who is always rude to me but in an odd "I like you" kind of way. You really can't give them any attention of any kind. You just have to ignore them and block them out. However, be warned, this sometimes makes them want to chase you harder, because guys are just weird like that.

[Flow_like_the_wind]

I think it might have to do with wanting something you can't have. Mean people in general give off that impression. Also I can speak for a lot of guys when I say this, some guys believe that mean girls are massive freaks in bed lmao so I guess that's another thing.

[ebbyeb]

@Flow_like_the_wind That's also very true! It's part of the lure of it all. Haha yeah that's also true. They kinda seem like the naughty type.

[Flow_like_the_wind]

I mean, I don't know why, I think that's how we grew up or maybe it's natural. I mean, for you as a woman, have you ever thought that a cocky jerk would be a stud in bed? Lol

[ebbyeb]

@Flow_like_the_wind Yeah it's probably a evolutionary thing I guess lol! And hmm... Now that you're bringing it up I guess there is one guy that kinda fits that description... But then again he really is a stud lol

[Flow_like_the_wind]

I believe so. I believe in the early days of humanity something that was more difficult to obtain was rare and therefore worth more. Like a rock compared to a gem lol. Is he a stud as in he had sex with a lot of girls or a stud as in like the way he looks? Lol.

[ebbyeb]

@Flow_like_the_wind True! We humans have had that mindset for a long time! That's why we value things like gold and diamonds etc. Hmm... I honestly don't think that he's had too much sexual experience, but he's kinda a player so I guess in how he acts around girls and looks lol

[Flow_like_the_wind]

Yep. I believe blondes were also more desirable back then because it wasn't as common. I'm not too sure about that but I think so lol. Oh ok I know the kind of guy you're talking about. He's a smooth talker lol.

[ebbyeb]

@Flow_like_the_wind yeah I think so also! Because genetically, brown hair is more dominant in genes etc. And yeah haha kinda! He's just a big flirt, I don't think that he tired to be but he is lmao

[Flow_like_the_wind]

You're right about brown hair. I think brown is the most common color right? Even more than black? He's probably a natural flirt lol some people just can't help themselves haha

[ebbyeb]

@Flow_like_the_wind Yeah brown is the most genetically common hair color
I believe! That and black. Haha yeah he really is! It's so weird though haha! Actually okay so he flirts with me in a really weird way. I'll just ask, why do some guys flirt "violently"? Like, he teases me in a mean way, calls me his "mortal enemy" and throws stuff lol but I can tell that he likes me? I don't know he's weird lol Jw what you know about guys being mean to the girls they like. What's your views on this?

[Luci92]

A combination of both is best I think, you don't wanna be a total bitch, but you don't wanna be a complete pushover either.

[Anonymous]

They like crazy bitches because they are more interesting and wild.

[Jasmine992]

lol maybe

[AhGojira]

If they want to fuck you, then you being a bitch just leaves a clear conscience for doing your dirty and tossing you out when their done. If your actually a good person that they could get feelings for then it's a lot harder on someone's conscience to be a complete asshole. It's not balanced.

[Jasmine992]

and u seriously believe that? how many girls in this site.. let's not go far but in this site is asking about some fucking ass guy who played or cheated or did whatever to her cuz she's nice or was nice to him? hope that helped!

[AhGojira]

You think they're innocent because they come on here all bitter... *smh*

[Jasmine992]

but if u compare their questions with the guys' questions that are always about boobs or ass or slept with I don't know whom and their husband or boyfriend doesn't know etc.. u can tell something is wrong!!

[AhGojira]

There are guys and girls that date and it doesn't work out. That doesn't mean the girl was played and used for sex. It means that it didn't last because as time progressed they saw different sides of one another and could not live with it... Generally guys that are looking to just fuck/FWB look for "bad girls" that are down to fuck, like to party, are bitches, slutty, etc. because they know what they are and you can discard them whenever. You know there is no future with them from the get go. When they run into a good girl they typically say I'm no good for you or I don't want to hurt you or I'm not looking for anything serious... Some girls are stupid and are like you won't hurt me, I can change you, it's ok it will take it as it goes and hope that she's the one to tame him, but that is their fault. They were told straight up and they ignore reality.

[Jasmine992]

uhh man I don't feel like reading all that 😪

[AhGojira]

Well when it happens to you don't say I didn't warn you...

[ThunderButt83]

guys love sweethearts aka nice girls, guys hate bitches aka mean girls. and what your noticing is alpha male player behavior, your attracting them by suggesting you dont want a relationship, and thats a magnet to alpha male players who just want sex.

[ShortCircuit]

Um... How is that even a question? Why the actual fuck would anyone *want* somebody who is straight up mean?

Needless to say, I'd rather have a nice girl.

[cchris999]

I ain't attracted to that, leave your mean crazy ass at home

[Jasmine992]

bitch ur hunting me omg hahahah

[cchris999]

Why are you responding to and me and no one else, leave me the hell alone!

[Jasmine992]

cuz I feel like u deserve it 😂

[cchris999]

You put in what you get out, that's why girls like you will end in an abusive relationship with a dude chris browning your ass.

[Jasmine992]

omg another idiot that won't leave me alone 😑

[cchris999]

Are you kidding me! Your the one that won't leave me alone.

Like I'm done talking to you!

[Jasmine992]

bye bitch 👋

[heavenlyhannah]

I'm a nice girl but if you cross me or say something against me irl, I will come at your whole life. I do have some attitude.

[Jasmine992]

u go girl 👏

[heavenlyhannah]

Lol, thanks

[Jacksfull7]

Yes in a way it's challenging for a guy. But personally i prefer nice girls they're just more genuine and natural.

[Jasmine992]

good for u

[Anonymous]

literally hate those kinda mean bitches! that's quite a stupid question to ask TBH! if you're being one please don't, you'll end up being hooked up!

[Jasmine992]

no other way to keep u fuckers understand that I'm not interested...

[Opinion Owner]

HAHAHA wait! your not like MEGAN FOX or an ANGELINA JOLIE! your just a mean girl! with overly make-uped face! you call your self attractive and be mean! your the kinda bitches who end up on a worthless pussy! 😂

[Jasmine992]

hahahahahaha shittt man that did hurt ur feelings.. what a sensitive bitch u r

[Opinion Owner]

HAHAHAHAHAH i'm not the one who's feeling got hurt here 😂 the world is calling you a worthless pussy bitch! and i spose all to be very accurate cos your still like"hahah"
okay bye babe i don't waste much time on whores 😂
and wait , get your self a dick 😂

[Jasmine992]

omg go get drunk already lol feels like I broke up with u now that ur so pissed hahaha

[Opinion Owner]

okay

[Jasmine992]

good boy 👏

[capturemyheartnow]

Mean girls don't mean anything to me. I like nice girls.

[mja091]

Nice girls. Don't give mean girls the time of day. They're classified as mean for a reason

[Maxemeister]

Nice girls. Whoever tells u to be a mean girl is probably bs'ing u

[Jasmine992]

I'm mean cuz I'm not interested not cuz I want attention

[Maxemeister]

Oh. In that case, go in between. Don't act like you're not interested but also don't be desperate

[Jasmine992]

they think I'm playing hard to get which pisses me off!!

[Maxemeister]

Lol don't do that either

[Jasmine992]

what is the one magic word that a girl can tell u to make u fuck off?

[Maxemeister]

Oh that would be "fuck off"

Just tell him to go away. If he can tell you're irritated then he won't really see a point in trying to continue the conversation

[Jasmine992]

yeah the convo stops but the staring won't.. sometimes I feel like u guys can star and see under my clothes lol omg scarey

[Maxemeister]

you can't really stop people from staring.

[Cowboy6666]

I like girls mean or nice that's not a big issue to me. 😏💋

[Jasmine992]

wow get a hold of urself 😂

[Cowboy6666]

I am 😏

[Jasmine992]

good 4 u lol

[Cowboy6666]

You seem attractive.. 💕
I should control my urges. Lol

[Jasmine992]

go away jerk 😂😂

[Cowboy6666]

😂😀😂

[scooogy]

I'd like her to be nice towards me, yet an apparent bit of being mean is kinda sexy

[BigCoolBoi]

I prefer nice girls over mean ones because they are more approachable and "niceness" itself is very attractive.

[masterkamasutra]

horse and girls are same, the more hard to control more fun to get ride.

[Jasmine992]

where did this freak come from! go away..

[masterkamasutra]

you hate freaks?

[Jasmine992]

go wear something please.. 😷😷

[masterkamasutra]

I am not feeling shy, do you?

[Jasmine992]

then it's a problem man!

[masterkamasutra]

I dont think Qatar chicks are that much conservative?

[Jasmine992]

I've been there 4 five years and I love it.. payment is soooo good, go jealous stupid!! should I buy u clothes though?

[masterkamasutra]

you can babe, buy some sexy clothes for me.

[Jasmine992]

r u homeless?

[masterkamasutra]

if you love homeless, yes i am, if you love jobless, yes i am job less! LOL

[Jasmine992]

dude ur a disaster!!

[masterkamasutra]

so you hate disasters?

[Jasmine992]

leave me alone!!

[evelator_253]

i like mean girls. ITS SO FETCH XD

[tyber1]

Maybe you're just hot?

[Theodorable]

Nice girls. I break up with mean girls.

[LivingLife94]

Guys love cool badass girls

[Anonymous]

I have no tolerance for mean girls.

[_HimigNgKalayaan_]

Nope mean girls sucks

[BertMacklinFBI]

crazy girls

[GunnerV7]

true.

[NeutralMale]

Nice girls.