My boyfriend wants to have sex with another girl on his birthday?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend who I've been with for half a year asked me if I would be cool if he had sex with another girl on his birthday since I have a competition so I can't be there with him. He said he doesn't want to cheat and be a bad boyfriend. But I'm really upset he asked me if I was cool with this. I'm pretty sure he has her number too because his friend asked her for it and I think his friend gave it to him.
My boyfriend even said that I don't need to get him a present. If you had a boyfriend would you let him do it?

Let him do it. It's normal

Don't let him do it

Break up with him

[Curious625]

If he needs another woman simply because you aren't available that is a red flag. I'm sure you could do something before or after his birthday. Sex isn't essential for a good time and he should be able to go without if you aren't there tbh. We all have needs but we tame them and share ourselves only with the person we're in a monogamous relationship with I think this is a red flag to a deeper issue. Best to have an open conversation with him and understand why he would be okay with sharing himself with another woman when he has you. I'm sure he wouldn't be okay with you doing the same. Don't lower your standards to keep him though, you deserve a man to only be with you if that's what you want:).

[AthleticMom]

LIAR " said he doesn't want to cheat and be a bad boyfriend"
TRUTH = he doesn't want any consequences for doing what he wants = making his little head happy with no regards for you other than just another portal to make little head happy

Results:
just by asking he has overplayed his hand of trying to fool you that "his love" for you was not a key to getting sex from you
even IF you are OK with sharing & open relationships
your body has one less defense against STDs
and fewer, fewer as he adds more portals later

I wonder why you would even need to ask this Q
do you in any way have low self esteem?

[Darkfairie17]

Any guy who is going to propose this to you doesn't love you. Unless of course you two have already arranged an open relationship.

This guy sounds like a real jerk. I personally would break up with him. Sex isn't the only thing in the world and I'm sure he can wait until he sees you again. Is he going to ask to have sex with a woman when you aren't around for other things too?

[Kgbmafia]

if he was devoted to just you then the idea and thought of another woman should never cross his mind. If he liked you as much as he said he did then you'd be on his mind 24/7. The fact he is asking if he can sleep with another girl just shows he isn't serious. Save yourself more heartbreak and leave him before he sleeps with her behind your back.

[dogbert444]

A guy that wants his cake and eat it? Drop him like a hot brick! This relationship is not worth your time and trouble. Go find a decent, faithful, and loyal guy.

[dogbert444]

Thanks for MHG!

[Just_another_Indian]

What the fuck.
Break up is my solution.

And do ask him... if it's okay for you to have sex with another guy after competition.

[JohnDoe3000]

Ask him if you can fuck another guy on your birthday... That should shut him up quickly. But it seems very fishy that he already had a friend ask this girl, so maybe it's time to break up with him.

[ShortCircuit]

I am dumbfounded by the fact that you haven't already broken up with him.

If I were in the same situation, I would've kicked her ass to the curb before she got a chance to finish her sentence.

[Kolya]

Leave that guy and let him have sex with all the bitch... women he wants, dont waste time on such people

[Máiiréad]

Dump his ass
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[enis_Penvy]

Time to break up with him. He values you and your feelings so little that he's openly cheating on you.

[sunshinechyk]

Break up with him. If I guy was really into you he wouldn't want sex with another chick. The fact that he thinks it is ok to ask you for permission blows my mind. Not a boyfriend I would ever want to have. He is probably going to do it anyway.

[gobsmacked3]

When i read something as absurd as this my first thought is you must be a 'troll'

For if you are not, what sane person would put up with this type of rubbish?

[TadCurious]

Wtf? What kind of boyfriend would ask such a thing? No, it's not normal. He's asking for your permission to cheat on you. Think about that.

[xHoneyxBeex]

That would be a deal breaker for me and grounds for a break-up. If he wants to have sex with other people then clearly he doesn't care about you very much. You deserve better.

[Anonymous]

On my birthday I'd want deep, romantic and loving sex with the girl I call my girlfriend. That's really low and I don't care if it's his dying wish to have sex with another girl. Break up with him for not showing that he can be committed to his girl.

[Mesonfielde]

He obviously wants to get a seal of approval from you to legally cheat on you with you knowing so that he doesn't feel bad about it

[HarrisonWells]

Sounds like he has designs on someone else. Let him know how you feel and if he still bugs you about it, it could be time to move on

[TacosRAwesome]

I'd let him do it. Convince her he has an STD and dump him.

[misty96]

no leave ur boyfriend he is not good... not loyal too

[Princesslee16]

Break up with him because he's not serious about the relationship.

[GoodLuckCharlie]

Break up with him. People like him aren't serious about relationships.

[AliaPancake]

Your young obviously I'm assuming, bet this isn't the first douche bag this guy he has done? Don't waist your time with scum, go and live gurl.

[Laulaurita]

If he loves you it's supposed that only wants to you and have sex only with you

[jman46241]

Time to find a new dude..

[Izzex3]

I'd be like, "Sure!"
And break up with him.