How do I find a serious boyfriend as a overweight single mom?

[Anonymous]

One who wants more kids and marriage eventually. I'm in medical school.

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Wow you guys are rude

[TripleAce]

More than half the battle for finding a suitable partner comes in the right pick

If you consistently choose men that will minimize your chances... well it probably just won't happen. Go with what's realistic. It's obvious there is a market value attached to individuals in the dating world, usually based on looks and social status

In your case your weight and being a single mom will put you in a different category all together... unless you get lucky, but who banks on luck huh

[Chico_brah]

You're an overweight single mom. Your dating value is pretty much sub zero right now lol. Lose the weight and you'll have some more options.

[jemjem2017]

oh well don't look for love let love look for you, for sure their is someone that is destined for you, so just have fun in your medical school. maybe the person that is meant for you is just around the corner

[SarahsSummer]

You don't find a serious boyfriend, you find a guy you like and try to get serious with him. Plus if you're self conscious about your weight being a deterrent, Lose weight.

[ElissaDido]

Loose weight, be open to date men who are in a similar situation.

[meatballs21]

You have two things counting against you - you can't do anything about being a single parent, but you can do something about the weight which will increase your desirability to more men.

[Jager66]

Be open to dating divorced men and men with children
Get into the best shape of your life
Pray

[FýrdracaDócincel]

Just from your description, were I a single guy in your age group, I would think you're a trap.

[blondfrog]

You audition as a model trucker girl for trucker models. You will lure lots of guys in who like girls like you.

[BronzedAdonis]

getting in shape is a start. you'll likely have most success with a single father.

[redxiii74]

yes, not gonna happen till you lose some weight, and your kid starts school

[redxiii74]

can't say its RUDE, if some points are cold hard facts. what would be an example of what were you wanting to hear?

[Anonymous]

Put ur kids up for adoption and go to the gyn for 365 days straight

[Anonymous]

Find a guy in your league