I was a shy girl and kept to myself and only talked to a few people and never had a boyfriend or even talked to guys. I was also a cheerleader but I was still very shy when it came to outside of cheer. Next thing you know a popular guy who was was part of the "cool crowd" that many people at my high school knew of started talking to me after two months we started dating and we've been together for a year now. But as soon as his "popular" ex and her clique found out him and I were dating she basically made them give me dirty looks all the time lol when I never did anything to her or to them. I remember his ex's friend said once how In the world are we dating because I don't talk whatsoever so how do we communicate😂 I was like are dumb or something?😂 do actually even know me for you to be running your mouth about me?😂 Like what kind of stupid statement is that lol good thing we already graduated lol. Anyways I believe it's good to date outside you clique it gets you out of your comfort zone and for me it made me explore things I would have never thought of doing.
I never had clique; or anything like that put me in a certain group.
But I would not date someone who is completely different/opposite from me/ for example if he cuts himself/emo I guess, or if he hangs with people or is involved in bad things like "gang." etc
I really don't care about cliques.
As long as he's not Goth or Emo or something along the lines.
I personally had a girls group in HS (we were like 10 or something) and most cliques in my HS weren't style based.
Yes, and i did, and now his clique and my clique became united now we are a huge clique LOL
If people confined themselves to their 'clique', they would run out of potential mates fairly quickly.
Choosing someone of the same race and social strata makes sense, but restricting dating/mating to your small group of social contacts will not end well.
I don't honestly don't care all that much to be honest lo.
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Yeah I married him. I was a Catholic school girl, one that he called "preppy" but I didn't consider myself anything, music was never a big part of my life. He was the type that had a bowl cutt and wore all black (usually band shirts) and listened to hard-core and techno music and went to concerts a lot. I had never been to one and honestly it's not my scene but I go and dance like wild whenever he wants the company.
As an adult, it would be pretty hard to find a relationship unless you wander outside of your group. But at the same time, people date within a certain social circle because that's who they're friends with and who they're around the most.
Some people are close-minded, prejudice and ignorant, so let them narrow their options by dating according to certain criteria, and you get all the options for not being prejudice or snobby :)
I think the reason you see this is people tend to date others with similar interests and backgrounds. Historically that seems to be a good bet.
My clique is all girls haha so yeah I do date people outside my clique. I wasn't "popular" but my ex used to be "popular" when I first got to know him.
You're in your 30's... I'm pretty sure social groups end after high school... then again I'm a social chameleon and can blend in...
yeppers. I've been an equal opportunity dater all my life :)
I haven't dated at all
I have no clique, so that is the only dating I do.
i've tried but no one wants to date me
Yes, and I would again
sure
What do you mean?
I had before
Sure.
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