If you like your job don't date anyone, or get the hots for anyone at work. If you don't care or can get another easily, then carry on. Just know that when it all blows up, and it will, one or both will likely have to seek work elsewhere.
There's even a term for it: "Don't shit where you eat."
The other thing I see here is some kind of self-importance, like just because you had some kind of feeling makes it somehow a requirement that everyone around you accepts or respects it. It's fine to like someone, whether they respond in kind or not does not change what they are as a person.
You're looking for some kind of if-then logic where there isn't any.
Gee, now you know how the guys feel when they're constantly rejected.
Quit your job there is a millon other Jobs... Ignore him if has feelings at all he will come to u.. if not move on... your a chick you can get a lot of dudes
You always want what you can't have remember that. just like u r feeling now..
eh it happens. if you ask out a lot of people youd see some are courteous others are not. he at least showed you his true colors so you won't be pining for him. there's nothing naive about having interest in a person. you dont know him well so you ask him out. hats the point. you found out quickly he's an asshole. now you move on.
this really is best. you know he's not worthy of you and you won't feel anything for him.
I think i remember you posted about this before. I have a crush at work too but i dont talk to him, i would glance but not stare. I see why you felt hurt and humiliated, i see his pov too, he is definitely aware of your interest in him, he didn't feel the same and he was having a bad day when you approach him. Just move on. I've been on both sides of the fence.
I am sorry for you... you clearly didn't deserve that. Just ignore him. He wouldn't be good for you with that attitude of his anyway. Move on and when you're at work, focus on your tasks and talk to other colleagues. Good luck!
screw him he missed out. if any guy rejects you like that then you just go and be you and do you forget him just remember if he is going to act like that then he is not worth you time
There are a few different ways you can communicate with a guy after he has rejected you:
Keep in mind that rejection is not always a bad thing. It can actually be a good thing, because it allows you to focus on finding someone who is actually interested in you. So, don’t take it too personally if a guy rejects you. Just move on and find someone who will appreciate you for who you are.
There's no easy way to deal with rejection, especially when it comes from someone you're interested in.
But there are some things you can do to make the situation a little bit easier to handle:
If you've been rejected by a guy, you might be wondering if you should text him.
The answer is: it depends.
If you're trying to decide whether or not to text a guy who rejected you, there are a few things you should keep in mind:
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This is why it's dumb to even attempt to date coworkers or if you simply like them telling them so. Congrats, now you are going to dread going to work for the next 40 years unless you find another job at some point or he does. In the mean time ignore him and look elsewhere for mates besides your workplace or even your apartment complex (in case he turns out to be psycho you don't want him knowing where you live). Birds are smart, they generally don't shit in their own nest.
Yeah people don't have to be a jerk when rejecting someone. Just try your best to ignore him and focus on your job, that's all you really can do.
being rejected harshly is actually kind of a good thing. cause this way you can get over it better. imagine if he had been all nice about it. you might think you still have chances or so.
walk past him in a lingerie with a lolipop. if he tries to flirt tell him he's broken.
Fuck some people can be horrible, show him what he's missing out on! Make him feel bad for being horrible to you. If thats not your thing then best you try and ignore him and just focus on your job !
Ignore him and laugh with colleagues. Meet a wonderful man who respects you.
I'm kinda in the same position (somewhat but not really😅) that must suck. but right now your only option is try to move on. It hurts now but you still alive😊
Harshly? I would just move on
Behaviours like that belong to the trash of the society
Move on. Why put yourself in a position of rejection in the first place?
i suppose he has another affair and get it over with u... move on.. life has to go on..
Have dinner and relax. There's nothing you can do about it. Lesson learned, I guess.
Are you very pretty? If so he might just be down low. Nothing to do with if that's the case. Or maybe you just remind him of his sister. You never know.
ignore him forever girl. I know it's hard to do but try
forget him and move on.
What did he say exactly?
pretend that he doesn't exist
try to ignore him then he will attract towards u
ignore him
Keep asking him out
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