I used to like a colleague of mine. I used to look at him frequently. However, he insulted me badly some days back and rejected me with very harsh words, saying that he isn't interested in me. I am very much broken. I never wished to get humiliated as a result of my naive liking for him. I was pure in my feelings. Somehow I daily see his face and feel hurt. I cannot quit my job. What must I do?
Most Helpful Guy
If you like your job don't date anyone, or get the hots for anyone at work. If you don't care or can get another easily, then carry on. Just know that when it all blows up, and it will, one or both will likely have to seek work elsewhere.
There's even a term for it: "Don't shit where you eat."
The other thing I see here is some kind of self-importance, like just because you had some kind of feeling makes it somehow a requirement that everyone around you accepts or respects it. It's fine to like someone, whether they respond in kind or not does not change what they are as a person.
You're looking for some kind of if-then logic where there isn't any.
Gee, now you know how the guys feel when they're constantly rejected.0
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Most Helpful Girl
eh it happens. if you ask out a lot of people youd see some are courteous others are not. he at least showed you his true colors so you won't be pining for him. there's nothing naive about having interest in a person. you dont know him well so you ask him out. hats the point. you found out quickly he's an asshole. now you move on.
this really is best. you know he's not worthy of you and you won't feel anything for him.1