How to reject a guy without hurting his feelings?

isabelledmarieberger

The title says it all but just recently, a guy I've been working with has been trying to get closer to me and made it obvious he liked me, he's not my style but I didn't even have time to get to know him to judge if I would like him, because we had only exchanged a few words before he made it obvious he was into me that way, as I don't share his feelings not wanting to lead him on I did not answered his texts when they talked about wanting to see me, and I did not avoid him but did not go out of my way to talk to him and greet him. But now I'm doubting my decision, I feel like I've been so harsh trying not to give him the wrong idea plus I think maybe I could have been friendly and he would have still gotten the clue, honestly I don't know how to handle this, from my pov if you entertain a guy that's blatant about liking him he will think he has a shot and then saying no comes as a surprise but I'm honestly lost... I feel like I hurt his feelings even worse being aloof?

How to reject a guy without hurting his feelings?
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