I already rejected him why is still flirting with me? I don’t wanna hurt his feelings he’s nice but I feel grossed out when he makes flirty comments?

[Anonymous]

I rejected this guy a while back and we cut contact but now he’s back and he’s still flirting with me. I shut him down again telling him clearly I stopped liking him. We talk all the time because he texts me all the time and I engage (never flirt with) him because I’d feel like a dick to just ignore him since he’s very very nice, fun to talk to, and I’m meeting up with him tomorrow. My one issue his he still slips in flirty comments and it literally makes me feel sick. This guy in a romantic sense makes me wonder if I’m asexual. How do I shoo him off without him feeling hurt?

[NZGirl07]

The first you should think about is that you don't owe anyone anything. If he was truly your friend, he would stop pursuing you when you said no. Any further pushing is non-consensual and not okay. If a man does not respect your boundaries it is not good. I would recommend distancing yourself. Your safety and comfort is priority.

[20yearsolder]

So that's what you say, dude I've already rejected you. You gross me out when you make these comments. I didn't want to hurt your feelings but I can't stand this anymore. Please stop

[DOGU8585]

I think this is called a real love, ı mean ım not sure maybe he is longing for only some naughty moments, you know the guys, :):)

[Asker]

I don’t what his real love though why can’t he give it to a another girl who’s like him back. I don’t think he’d have any trouble😭

[Asker]

want*

[DOGU8585]

yeah, its kinda hard situation, ı hope he stops bothering you, ı learned long time ago where to stop when girl doesn't want a relationship, because no matter how hard you push it, at the end , you have nothing, its obvious that you really fed up with this guy

[Mafia24]

Don't be stupid...
You can't shut off someone without hurting feeling... block him who stopping you?

[Asker]

He’s a mutual friend and he lives like 10 minutes away from me. Isn’t that awkward?

[Snedger____]

Flirt how? He's trying his maximum to get a chance

[Asker]

He insists on being alone with me, or makes comments like he complimented me on my shirt saying something aluding to the fact it was low cut, he's picked up video calls without a shirt on, he stopped but he used to ask me whether I liked him at some point etc etc

[Asker]

I’ve already told him he has no chance though. Twice.

[Snedger____]

Probably he wants to have fun with you. Why don't you block if it's that annoying

[Asker]

We have a lot to mutual friends and he lives like 10 minutes away from me. Is that not awkward? Do I just need to talk to him and ask him to stop?

[Snedger____]

Just block. No problem

[Wise4myage]

Its time to hurt his feelings.

[Asker]

Might have to when we meet up tomorrow. I just hope he doesn’t get mad and start saying he never liked me in the first place etc etc💀

[Wise4myage]

Its on him, if he gets mad.

[Vegasrunner]

Because he doesn't have any options.