And I think my problem is is that I'm too nice.
I asked him out and he said I was a great girl, but he was interested in someone else (who lives an hour and a half away and hardly sees) and that we should just remain friends. So fine. I was okay with that, because I realized it probably wouldn't have been a good idea anyways. So, a few months have passed and I've basically gotten over him. I'm just super nice to everyone and I just treat him like a friend now. Maybe I'm too friendly, I don't know. But I feel like things are starting to creep back to the way they were before, with him flirting with me all the time. Except this time, I'm not reciprocating. Or at least, I'm not intentionally.
I just don't understand it. I've moved on. But he sits close to me and he gives me more hugs than usual. And it's a really weird.
I could be wrong and we're just moving towards a new phase in our friendship? We're pretty good friends. I'm just all confused. But I feel like he's just leading me on and I don't want to be in that place that I was before when I thought he liked me (because he definitely showed the signs then). I try to back off... Maybe I have to some more?
I try to separate myself from him as much as I can, but we have the same group of friends.
Boys, you drive me crazy! LOL
I asked him out and he said I was a great girl, but he was interested in someone else (who lives an hour and a half away and hardly sees) and that we should just remain friends. So fine. I was okay with that, because I realized it probably wouldn't have been a good idea anyways. So, a few months have passed and I've basically gotten over him. I'm just super nice to everyone and I just treat him like a friend now. Maybe I'm too friendly, I don't know. But I feel like things are starting to creep back to the way they were before, with him flirting with me all the time. Except this time, I'm not reciprocating. Or at least, I'm not intentionally.
I just don't understand it. I've moved on. But he sits close to me and he gives me more hugs than usual. And it's a really weird.
I could be wrong and we're just moving towards a new phase in our friendship? We're pretty good friends. I'm just all confused. But I feel like he's just leading me on and I don't want to be in that place that I was before when I thought he liked me (because he definitely showed the signs then). I try to back off... Maybe I have to some more?
I try to separate myself from him as much as I can, but we have the same group of friends.
Boys, you drive me crazy! LOL
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And he randomly texted me this morning. Nothing important. Just 9am, random text... >.< He uses all the smiley faces and everything. I don't get it! Do I try to just ignore him and hopefully it dies down? I don't want a relationship with him... he turned me down and I don't want to be his rebound because the other girl isn't working out for him.
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