Okay so she's going to college next year which is great I'm super happy for her and she made a group chat and met a bunch of new people but ever since then she started snapchatting a couple different guys which I don't really understand because she has me. It's been constant for the past couple weeks and I brought it up once a little bit ago and she thinks that I don't trust her but that's not what its about. I feel like she would feel the same way if I was doing that but she doesn't know what jealously feels like because I dont snap any other girls out of respect for her. I know if I brought it up again she would probably say something like "do you not want me to make friends?" or something like that. And again thats not what its about, i think occasional snaps are perfectly fine but when its constant especially when she has a boyfriend I just personally dont think its right. What should I do?
Most Helpful Girl
An important thing in relationships that A LOT of people don't understand are sacrifices that you make to make your partner happy. Not only that, but respect. She needs to respect the fact that it bothers you that she frequently snaps other guys. If you're not snapping with other girls for her sake, she REALLY needs to appreciate that and do the same for you.6
Most Helpful Guy
From a relationship coaching lens, here are my thoughts.
I agree with you that there's a difference between meeting new friends and Snapchatting the same couple of guys over and over. BUT, if she doesn't see anything wrong with it then you two might just have different irreconcilable views. What's more, you must deal with the fact that she's going to college and will see a whole, new experience. This will likely create more strain with more Snapchat and more new friends. All to say, this 'problem' is bigger than the current Snapchat deal.1