I've noticed plenty of people I know get into a relationship pretty fast. Even the ones that have just gone through a break up and I'm one that has always struggled when it comes to dating. I'm not judging anyone but this is something that I've always wondered.
Most Helpful Guy
It has become a standard now-a-days, people get into relationships at a very early age, teenage pregnancy is high and so on. Different people do it for different reasons, here's what I've noticed so far that seem to be the reoccurring ones.
-They can't cope well alone, they need to be with someone else in order to validate themselves that they are still desirable.
- Falling in love gives them the high feeling, the butterfly feeling that you get at the honeymoon phase of every relationship. Once that is over, the same feeling arises again and onto the next adventure.
- Society & Group of friends, if you are with a number of friends who seems to be dating on and off, the chances of you doing that behaviour is highly likely too, being single for too long is considered as a "loser" to them.
All in all, these kind of things all lead to the path of destruction, you are hurting yourself emotionally and spiritually by being with this many partners. My Ex-Girlfriend left me after 2 years and has swapped 3 boyfriends (1 year each) during that time period, there would be a time where she would come to ask "what am I doing, was all that really worth it?" or she would continue the same thing over and over again and expect different results, which of course is the definition of insanity.
Have some time alone after a breakup, no need to rush in relationships, make sure that you've learned something from your previous relationship, always have the high moral ground in these situations.0
Most Helpful Girl
The simplest answer is this. All a person has to do is go up to you, tell you all the good stuff they figure you want to hear, and simply ask you to be their girlfriend/boyfriend. If you say yes, then you a relationship. As to the background and why they do, that depends on the situation and who is getting into a relationship. Usually 9/10x it's due to lust. But 1/10x is because each of them already KNEW that they wanted a relationship with them from the start and saw a future with them that they were readily willing to commit their lives to.0