Why Do Some People Jump From One Relationship To Another So Quickly?
I did it. Three times 😅 First was because I was in a shitty LDR and someone new appeared near me. The second time I did it because I needed someone to appreciate me and spend time with me. And the third time was just for sex. I must say I never started a new one while I was in a relationship. That's cheating. And the jumping was like two months or so after the break up. And it's not about caring or feeling lonely. I needed something that I didn't have and couldn't get from the person I was with at the time.. I had a bunch of emotionally incapable "lovers" . And it doesn't help with getting over a bad break-up. If you cared enough, invested energy, time and feelings it still hurts like hell even if you're living a pink dream with someone else. It helps with self esteem tho. You're worthy of love
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They cannot be alone.
Some people just cannot be single for any length of time for multiple reasons. Some base their worth off of whether or not they are in a relationship (and honestly, the stigma surrounding being single is incredibly stupid and being in a relationship does not necessarily mean you're wanted, loved, or desirable compared to a single person; there is no shortage of very unhappy relationships where two people are trying to force a square peg into a round hole), some are completely lovesick and desperate and just cannot take their time and wait for the right person, and some see it as more of a game than looking for something serious.
In my opinion:
- They didn't/don't take entering a relationship seriously. It was/is just for a short-term happiness like out of loneliness, for sex, or some other convenience.
- They didn't seek compatibility in their partner, or they worked off the heat of the moment instead of thinking long-term.
- They sought an unequal relationship and their partner wasn't having it, or their partner sought an unequal relationship and they wised up.
- They didn't/don't know relationships are a responsibility, and so run away when they realize there are certain expectations of them in a relationship.
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Because they can they have a strong social circle that can support trading.. in or swapping out to a different model. When it suits em. When supply is abundant we Don't value what we have.. especially when some thing there to jump in. So there's no sense of loss. They don't have to care it's a none issue. When there options plenty of choices... why not try em all. It's in our nature to consume and expoit all resources in. Our environment. We are taught to use every thing thing at our desposal to get what we want.
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Because they think they always need to be ina realtionship
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Not sure, even if I'm guilty of having done that.
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As one of the many serial monogamists in the world, I can tell you.. at least for me..
It comes from a chaotic upbringing.
When the parent you were more attached to constantly went back and forth from idolizing you to abusing you, and then blaming the switch on you instead of their addictions..
A part of you always craves intimacy.
And feels the same worthless feeling without it.
Healing from childhood hurts and accepting responsibility for what you can change is crucial in breaking the cycle.
However, I'm happy here so I think I'll just realize it for what it is and leave it at that lol.
With that being said though it's more than likely different for everyone.
I've tried to remain single,
But there's always a flood of guys who I feel like an asshole for not responding to.
I end up attaching myself quickly, and being addicted to the idea of being special to someone doesn't make resisting any easier. -
Many reasons really. For some they think going from one to another will allow them to find the "right one" faster, for others they want to fill the gap of loss, these people are generally chemically addicted to the feeling of love, still others may use it to reenforce their decissions made in the previous relationship. The psychological implications of this type of action can have a variety of reasons, but ultimately it ussually has a fear of loneliness linked to it in some way.
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There are many Psychological reasons.
For me, I was always just in "for now relationships" and looking while in one. So as soon as I found another I ended one and started the next. Had to be in a relationship for guranteed sex. I knew I had the propensity to be a Sex Addict andcas long as I was getting it daily I could keepnit at bey, but tgey suddenly that ended and the Sex Addiction took complete Power Over me. - 1.3K opinions shared on Relationships topic.
Cause their rebounding and think getting involved with someone else is the fastest way to get over someone when in fact, it's not. I think a lot of people do this to avoid focusing on the break up and being lonely instead acknowledging their feelings and letting them release. Also some people do it out of spite and jealousy and just want to get a rise out of their ex. These type of relationships usually never last long.
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They had the replacement lined up and ready before the breakup and don't want to have a downtime. Which is why you may see your ex with another guy/girl within a week of the breakup.
They had options available and lined up because they were waiting for the breakup to happen - 3.4K opinions shared on Relationships topic.
I think I do this. My reasons are:
1. When I leave a relationship I'm totally over them and have been for a couple months and I know they're not willing to fix things.
2. B dating others I am not thinking much of my ex.
3. I enjoy having a special someone in my life. -
That picture describes a person cheating, not moving on. But yeah, that could be fun cause of moving on in some cases. It depends on people, some get into it too quickly, and then realize they don't really want something like that. But if you're doing that, it'll become a cycle. I'd suggest spending some time as friends before in order to avoid this.
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I've only been in two relationships so I don't have much to say about this. But I broke up with my ex-boyfriend because someone new had joined my friend group who I found I enjoyed being around more. So I left my ex, and am now in a happy relationship with the second guy that has lasted longer than the last one
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I believe it's a fear of being alone.
Some say that the best way to get over your ex is to find someone new but I feel that having a break from commitment should help you grow as a person because you should learn from from your past relationship. I don't feel people learn if they are just jump into a new relationship immediately. -
Many people are afraid to be alone.
Many people don't want to look in the mirror and do some personal development & own their issues.
Many people need a new place to stay so they don't end up homeless.
Some people need a new host to latch onto because they are toxic parasites.
But more than anything the jumping from one relation to another so quickly is due to be emotionally immature, & avoiding healing the past. -
Fear of being alone. Insecurity. Incompleteness. Using input from others to feed ones own emptiness and ignore ones problems.
Kinda like a drug addiction really. -
Most people do this for one or more of the following reasons: seeking validation, boredom, emotional indifference, sexual congress/conquest, temporary emotional security, temporary financial security. They could just be the type of person who chooses not to work on relationships, or they never see themselves as part of the problem.
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There is number of reasons but one of them is now a days relationship is based on our need , expectations, requirement and based on our mood which is not permanent
But in real relationship must have trust, understanding , love , feelings , some what compromising which comes from heart... -
“Best way to get over someone is to get under someone else”. Simple it’s a rebound. Lots of people jump from one relationship to another one extremely fast, even from long serious relationship as they have their rebound
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They are either bored, ruin every chance they get with constant demands so it ends, or they fall in love too quickly (what starts quick ends quick), they give too much detail out about themselves in the beginning to where the other person is no longer interested so they move on to the next person (nothing interesting left), indecisive, or player.
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Scared to be alone. Thay feel Insecure without a relationship. I see it all the time. Some have affairs just to have a relationship ready because they know there current one is failing. I think its normal but maybe not super healthy. Wish you well.
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fear of being alone and jumping to the next one help reduce the feelings of rejection from the last. I always think its healthiest to take time between relationships to reestablish what it is you are looking for in a mate.
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Some people just can’t stand being alone. They always have to be in a relationship and honestly it’s annoying. You’ll be on social media and go “omg, another one?” And just roll your eyes. Not sure why it is but I have some friends like that. Ugh I could never 😬
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