I've created an awkward situation - I could die. I've been at my new gym for about a month and there's a guy I see there almost every night. Started with glances then smiles across the room. He'll come and stand right next to me to workout too. If I move to another part of the gym, I catch him looking for me. I crush on him so hard. On Friday night I went to gym and it was really quiet there. Like 10 mins into my workout he arrived (he has never come on a Friday before) and my heart skipped a beat. He was also alone there for the first time so I thought this is my chance. I'm working out and I was thinking OK I NEED to speak to this dude. I wanna know his name and what he's about. I see him rapping under his breath and I love hip hop too, I bet we'd have such good convos (and sex but nvm lol). I got overwhelmed and I really couldn't help myself so went to my bag, wrote my name and number on a piece of paper and went up to him and said 'LOOKS LIKE YOU DROPPED SOMETHING' in the weirdest voice and handed it to him and carried on with my workout. I felt like I was going to faint though - was so nervous. As I left, he waved and smiled. I was feeling good. I waited and waited for his text but it's Monday morning now and he hasn't text me. I feel like I was way too forward and blew it but I thought he was showing signs of interest and I know gyms are hard places to talk so I thought I'd make the move. I feel kinda rejected? And now I gotta go back to gym tonight knowing what's transpired and I bet he's told his friends and they're judging me or think I'm a slut who always does this or I DUNNO!! by the way, I'm 26 and definitely above average in looks (I'm 5'2 with a big butt and tiny waist, green eyes, big lips and long dark hair - kinda look like Mandy Moore) but am normally pretty shy with guys. He looks roughly my age. I'm moving to a new town at the end of the month so just wanted to connect with him before I go. So awkward now. Help please.
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"I bet his friends are judging me or thinking I'm a slut" Nope, no they're not. You gave a guy who was smiling at you his number, do you honestly think he's going to go "OH MAN, WHAT A LOSERRRR!" He might not have responded because he might be messing around with other girls. You did the right thing and you;re moving anyways, so who cares?2