So my boyfriend always assumes I talk to other guys. He sees my messages and yeah I do get messages from random guys who I don't know on Facebook or Instagram , but I DONT reply to any one of them. Maybe to tell them I have a boyfriend but other than that I don't. He always assumes I'm doing something bad when I take forever to reply and sometimes it's because I'm working or taking a nap.. I take naps like everyday and usually like two hour ones lol. But sometimes he thinks I'm out with guys. But to be honest. My boyfriend is the only man I want.. and that's no lie. I've noticed it's trust issues but how do I make him actually believe me?
Most Helpful Guy
easy... you either exchange your social media passwords with him (means his passwords too) or close all social media from your and his side
trust is earned, not given blindly
specially if he was cheated in the past he is justified and has all reasons to distrust1THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
Most Helpful Girl
Well you need to sit down and have a talk with him. Just be honest and be sensitive because it sounds like he was hurt in the past. Simply say that you would never do anything to hurt him and that he needs to learn to trust you. Say you just need some space to yourself sometimes and that he needs to learn to accept that.0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE