I'm confident, assertive. I know what I need and want, rational setting myself goals and ambitions. And of course looking after myself, cleanliness and fashion.
Nothing wrong with genuine confidence & assertiveness , those are attractive qualities , but arrogance & a superior attitude are a huge turn off !!
Many years back I walked out on a date , as she proved to be arrogant , superior & deep down , quite anti male... therefore I ejected quickly , but I did tell her exactly why !!
Find them funny, may spice up things and help creating a more dynamic relationship. Can be fun seeing both personalities collide, but enjoying the challenge of annoying each one, while trying to dominate the other.
What i mean is, im not against them, and its not a turn off.
I am one. You can never be submissive after you actually "feel" your true power as a woman. It comes from within. Nothing to do with physical strength whatsoever. I am 5 ft and have 6 ft + guys bend over backwards for me, but that is not to say I have to treat them like shit to enforce my dominance, a woman can be both dominant and elegant. I hate this new "bad bitch" trend. Be dominant, be nice, be bossy, *not* bitchy. Being both kind and dominant is sexier.
women dont have any real power, guys just want to fuck you and that is it, if you ever let them fuck you they will stop caring about you eventually. And when you approach 30+ that advantage you got will disappear. So you cannot enforce your dominance even in your prime because most guys won't allow you too.
The most dominant women are usually the most submissive once you lock them down. My girlfriend is one of them.
Here is the thing, there is a strong contradiction when you say elegant. Why? The only value that you've displayed here is that you are young and pretty lol. If a guy you like tells you that he's not attracted to you then you curl into the fetal position. It's because all of your confidence is only based on looks, therefore inflatable. Your confidence is dependent upon others.
You don't mention anything of leadership, accomplishments, success, and status. You just mention that pathetic guys bend over backwards for you. The fact that you failed to mention any of that and just mentioned that you can bitchy (or bossy) to guys who bend over backwards actually has some significance behind it. Just calling shit as I see it boyo
Consider this... Consider some evolutionary logic... Women the more selective sex and they get to pick and choose from a list much longer than your average guy. In other words, and average woman will have many more options than an average guy. For this reason, men are generally more willing to put themselves out there.
This dynamic switches as men and women approach their late twenties. Their value goes down while men's value goes up. Your whole foundation is built upon something inflatable. Your "alphaness" will deflate as you get older.
Now you should also consider this as well.. If the only men in whom you are coming in contact with are willing to bend over backwards as you put it, then they are not of quality in the least. They are of low value hence why they act in such ways. In other words, you attract low value men. High value people attract other high value people. Catch my drift?
Having pussies bend over backwards for you isn't admirable alone. I have little sluts who do the same thing. My girlfriend gets even more attention to me. My girlfriend wouldn't be answering this question in real life by saying she a has a bunch of pussies who bend over backwards for her. She's educated, successful, and is a natural leader. That's why I like her and that's why I'm attracted to her. If her only quality was attracting pussies then she would of been a hook up only.
Also wanted end on the fact that you are anonymous which is also an indication of something here. If you don't have the ability to voice your opinions on a message board filled with people who will never come in contact with you throughout the entirety of your life, then why should we believe that you'd be open to voice yourself in a real life scenario?
@jjesica346 sorry but you're wrong, after 30 only low value guys would actively pursue you, and a high value guy might want to fuck you but he won't put much if any effort into it in most cases, and he definitely won't commit to you when he can have a younger better looking girl who is more likely to have sex casually since she is still young and not worried about settling down yet.
@justkidding93 First of all beta boy, I dont get approached by low value d***! Plus Im married and he is very happy where he's at. You seem to have a very fucked approach to women anyhow! You said the only power a women has is via sex. Is your mom a hooker, if not why are you so clouded?
@jjesica346 im no beta boy, but you are a beta bitch. And im sure you get approached by low value dudes, most women do, even those who are goodlooking, and since you are so old chances are you are talking shit. I dont have a fucked up approach, im a mgtow, i simply sleep with women and avoid commitment. If they want me to work to hard for it, i move on to the next. And dont talk about my mother, i had a good upbringing but my mother was traditional and not like these modern stupid and delusional feminist cunts.
@jjesica346 you dont know shit, by the way bad aprils fools joke, nobody offered to buy you a car. you should feel bad for such an awful attempt at being funny.
Are alpha females the confident ones with loads of friends that other girls seem to want to be like and follow around?
If so, then I usually find they have fragile egos and lash out at guys who aren't interested in them. In other words it's all a facade they have the same insecurities as every other girl. They just deal with it differently.
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So called alpha females would appeal to submissive men but not to normal masculine men, the kind normal women are attracted to.
I have zero interest in an alpha female, not because alpha females are intimidating, as those women like to tell themselves, but because they are off putting and unattractive to most men (and women).
I don't care, as long as they're accepting of me. Beta females can be just as bad, if not worse, since they're expecting you to buy them everything.
Alpha females are capable of using their own money, so I'm okay with that.
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I would have to say I consider myself an alpha female. But my interpretation is that I know what I want, not afraid to ask for it. I will tell you exactly what is on my mind and I prefer to make the decisions though I take input into account. I don't like submissive men though. I want a man that knows what he wants in the bedroom but that doesn't make me any less of an alpha female in my mind
Let me be a bit more forward with this. A lot of girls will snap at the idea of dominant guys under the claim that they "can't handle a strong woman making the decisions."
I wanted to see how you would reply if someone said the reverse to you.
@F媒rdracaD贸cincel I mean to be honest if I could find a guy that was more dominant than me it would be a sheer relief because for once I wouldn't have to be in charge of everything
@F媒rdracaD贸cincel so I personally hate decision making. If for once I didn't have to and he decided things like what we were going to do or where we were gonna go or whatever than that would be a sigh of relief from me
Some girls use it as an excuse to be a bitch... And in that case it's just like "honey, you ain't alpha. You just a bitch." But generally they're pretty hot.
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Not my cup of tea. They can be real commanding bitches who are tough to deal with. No freedom for me because she will be a control freak.
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Powerful, assertive, know what they want in life, confident, independent women are the best in my opinion.
Yeah that type I go for. Confident, assertive, attractive.
How would you describe yourself? In that sense
I'm confident, assertive. I know what I need and want, rational setting myself goals and ambitions. And of course looking after myself, cleanliness and fashion.
Nothing wrong with genuine confidence & assertiveness , those are attractive qualities , but arrogance & a superior attitude are a huge turn off !!
Many years back I walked out on a date , as she proved to be arrogant , superior & deep down , quite anti male... therefore I ejected quickly , but I did tell her exactly why !!
Find them funny, may spice up things and help creating a more dynamic relationship. Can be fun seeing both personalities collide, but enjoying the challenge of annoying each one, while trying to dominate the other.
What i mean is, im not against them, and its not a turn off.
As someone who doesn't know what an alpha male or alpha female is, I couldn't care less. If someone's a d*ck, they get treated like one.
If your happy and confident, all the power to you, whoever you are.
Just don't be a d*ck
That last lady has a nice dress though.
I am one. You can never be submissive after you actually "feel" your true power as a woman. It comes from within. Nothing to do with physical strength whatsoever. I am 5 ft and have 6 ft + guys bend over backwards for me, but that is not to say I have to treat them like shit to enforce my dominance, a woman can be both dominant and elegant. I hate this new "bad bitch" trend. Be dominant, be nice, be bossy, *not* bitchy. Being both kind and dominant is sexier.
women dont have any real power, guys just want to fuck you and that is it, if you ever let them fuck you they will stop caring about you eventually. And when you approach 30+ that advantage you got will disappear. So you cannot enforce your dominance even in your prime because most guys won't allow you too.
The most dominant women are usually the most submissive once you lock them down. My girlfriend is one of them.
Here is the thing, there is a strong contradiction when you say elegant. Why? The only value that you've displayed here is that you are young and pretty lol. If a guy you like tells you that he's not attracted to you then you curl into the fetal position. It's because all of your confidence is only based on looks, therefore inflatable. Your confidence is dependent upon others.
You don't mention anything of leadership, accomplishments, success, and status. You just mention that pathetic guys bend over backwards for you. The fact that you failed to mention any of that and just mentioned that you can bitchy (or bossy) to guys who bend over backwards actually has some significance behind it. Just calling shit as I see it boyo
Consider this... Consider some evolutionary logic... Women the more selective sex and they get to pick and choose from a list much longer than your average guy. In other words, and average woman will have many more options than an average guy. For this reason, men are generally more willing to put themselves out there.
This dynamic switches as men and women approach their late twenties. Their value goes down while men's value goes up. Your whole foundation is built upon something inflatable. Your "alphaness" will deflate as you get older.
Now you should also consider this as well.. If the only men in whom you are coming in contact with are willing to bend over backwards as you put it, then they are not of quality in the least. They are of low value hence why they act in such ways. In other words, you attract low value men. High value people attract other high value people. Catch my drift?
Having pussies bend over backwards for you isn't admirable alone. I have little sluts who do the same thing. My girlfriend gets even more attention to me. My girlfriend wouldn't be answering this question in real life by saying she a has a bunch of pussies who bend over backwards for her. She's educated, successful, and is a natural leader. That's why I like her and that's why I'm attracted to her. If her only quality was attracting pussies then she would of been a hook up only.
Also wanted end on the fact that you are anonymous which is also an indication of something here. If you don't have the ability to voice your opinions on a message board filled with people who will never come in contact with you throughout the entirety of your life, then why should we believe that you'd be open to voice yourself in a real life scenario?
@justkidding93 Bullshit, guys still fein for ass over 30, lmao.
@jjesica346 sorry but you're wrong, after 30 only low value guys would actively pursue you, and a high value guy might want to fuck you but he won't put much if any effort into it in most cases, and he definitely won't commit to you when he can have a younger better looking girl who is more likely to have sex casually since she is still young and not worried about settling down yet.
@justkidding93 First of all beta boy, I dont get approached by low value d***! Plus Im married and he is very happy where he's at. You seem to have a very fucked approach to women anyhow! You said the only power a women has is via sex.
Is your mom a hooker, if not why are you so clouded?
@jjesica346 im no beta boy, but you are a beta bitch. And im sure you get approached by low value dudes, most women do, even those who are goodlooking, and since you are so old chances are you are talking shit. I dont have a fucked up approach, im a mgtow, i simply sleep with women and avoid commitment. If they want me to work to hard for it, i move on to the next.
And dont talk about my mother, i had a good upbringing but my mother was traditional and not like these modern stupid and delusional feminist cunts.
@justkidding93 keep on keep'n nigha! Ik whats up though, lol! I
Good luck underdooooooggggg
Men have bought me cars that I said FUCK NO to!!!
@jjesica346 you dont know shit, by the way bad aprils fools joke, nobody offered to buy you a car. you should feel bad for such an awful attempt at being funny.
@justkidding93 go play w yourself some more... beta boy
@jjesica346 i dont need to, i have another tinder date this evening, but you can go enjoy the company of your cat and imaginary husband, beta bitch.
@justkidding93 lmao
Are alpha females the confident ones with loads of friends that other girls seem to want to be like and follow around?
If so, then I usually find they have fragile egos and lash out at guys who aren't interested in them. In other words it's all a facade they have the same insecurities as every other girl. They just deal with it differently.
So called alpha females would appeal to submissive men but not to normal masculine men, the kind normal women are attracted to.
I have zero interest in an alpha female, not because alpha females are intimidating, as those women like to tell themselves, but because they are off putting and unattractive to most men (and women).
Not for me. And not because I would be intimidated but because she'd likely be a stuckup bitch who thinks she's the center of the world.
That's a common stereotype about them.
I like women who have a strong personality, who pursue their ambitions and know how to impose themselves onto the world ;)
I don't. They are a waste of my time. Too much drama. Give me a down-to-earth, girl-next-door type any day of the week.
When I see one of these entitled princesses coming my way, I lock eyes, smile and walk on by.
Don't know
Might he intimidating. :D one think I know for sure
I am they alpha in gaming no one will take that from me.
She can be alpha with anything else but she won't take my throne
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No such thing. All females will bend over backwards for an alpha male. What you're thinking of is a bad bitch. Which is similar to an alpha male.
or bend over forward!
@pavlove i see what you did there.
hahahahhaha u mean the alphas bitches?
tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pmwiki.php/Main/AlphaBitch
No, I'd rather call them confident ladies
confidence is an illusion. time will teach you that earlier or later
Not a fan. I like strong women. But being a straight male, I want feminine. Feminine is hot. Acting like a asshole guy is not.
I don't care, as long as they're accepting of me. Beta females can be just as bad, if not worse, since they're expecting you to buy them everything.
Alpha females are capable of using their own money, so I'm okay with that.
I would have to say I consider myself an alpha female. But my interpretation is that I know what I want, not afraid to ask for it. I will tell you exactly what is on my mind and I prefer to make the decisions though I take input into account. I don't like submissive men though. I want a man that knows what he wants in the bedroom but that doesn't make me any less of an alpha female in my mind
You got it down 馃憤
"That just means you can't handle a strong man making the decisions. And how do you know that you're the one ACTUALLY making the decisions anyway?"
That a good enough impression of the rest of you? xD
@F媒rdracaD贸cincel because I'm usually the smarter one in the relationship
Fair enough on THAT note, at least.
Let me be a bit more forward with this. A lot of girls will snap at the idea of dominant guys under the claim that they "can't handle a strong woman making the decisions."
I wanted to see how you would reply if someone said the reverse to you.
@F媒rdracaD贸cincel I mean to be honest if I could find a guy that was more dominant than me it would be a sheer relief because for once I wouldn't have to be in charge of everything
And how would you gauge for that?
@F媒rdracaD贸cincel so I personally hate decision making. If for once I didn't have to and he decided things like what we were going to do or where we were gonna go or whatever than that would be a sigh of relief from me
Got it. Thanks.
Some girls use it as an excuse to be a bitch... And in that case it's just like "honey, you ain't alpha. You just a bitch."
But generally they're pretty hot.
Not my cup of tea. They can be real commanding bitches who are tough to deal with. No freedom for me because she will be a control freak.
Yes!
I would want a shield maiden, not a simpering weakling.