This guy @ church had given me hints he likes me.. complimenting, staring when I'm not looking, keeps staring when I look @ him, can't look me in the eyes @ times when talking to me. He said we could gaze into each others eyes when singing a duet. Gave him my number in a card on Christmas. No call. Gave an excuse he zoned out & looked embarrassed/kept apologizing. One Sun. night in Feb., he was behind me & had his mouth open staring when I turned around. During the convo he asked if I was busy. I said no not really I just crochet. Kept asking about it but didn't say why he asked if I was busy. He came on Sunday to church in a pink shirt (my fav. color-he knows this). I complimented him after the first Easter service when he walked by me.. when I was standing by my Sunday School room. I didn't have any kids that day so I went to my class. His roommate/choir director was sitting by him but there was a chair across from him.. so I sat there. He was fidgety-angled his body towards me, kept crossing & uncrossing his legs, touched his hair,& @ one point leaned forward. He didn't look @ me much. After Sunday School we had another church service. We were standing in the hall waiting to warm up for choir. When no one was standing in that part of the hall, he came out of the kitchen, turned to face me,& was staring at me.. giving me this come hither look w/his chin down & his eyes looking up at me. The way the light was hitting his eyes.. like they sparkled. He had the same expression before Christmas.. but I looked @ him, looked away twice, looked back & then he looked away. I know he was definitely staring @ me both times.
I told him I noticed him noticing me in fb chat. I know its been awhile since Dec. I have a feeling you want 2 talk 2 me. You can talk to me sometime alone if you want to. Sometime when there isn't other people around..2 make you more comfortable. Told him what time I get in my Sunday School room & said it could be another time if he wanted. Im not pressuring you. however I can tell you that you won't get a bad reaction or be rejected if thats what your afraid of.
Im nervous. Thats why I looked away. I wasn't sure if you were daydreaming again or not. The other night when I saw him he pulled me away from my table and said he wanted to talk to me. He said he was sorry if he sent mixed messages. He has no romantic interest in me. He wasn't looking me in the eyes when he said it. Did he lie? The other night at choir he was staring at times from behind the piano. One time I glanced he was slightly blushing. I only looked @ him 3 times and stared @ the floor.