hmmm.. Well if the tables where turned and it was a daddy's girl it would depend. If he was a lonely old dude I'd feel sorry for him and thus be ok with it, if all else was good in the relationship. however.. If she took the piss if be done with it, like cancelling prior commitments for a usual can you come do this or whatever from the parent.
No never. They are not independent. If you are married they would divorce you if their mum wants it. They are just listening their mum is wants not their girlfrends. Of course a man can love their mother but too much indepent is not good they might make life hell.
had a girlfriend who said to me im a mama's boy, but its different she diet a few years ago, I was 23... the connection causes somtimes problems but I wanna be a orginal of myself and no copy of someone else... but I had also positive moments caused from that...
No, I don't think a woman can stay with such a man in the long run. Initially they might be okay with it, but in the long run they will find this quality very unattractive.
I've tried it and it didn't work out. He would literally cancel plans with me if she decided last minute that she wanted to do something with him. There has to be a balance.
@TripleAce hmmm... helping out your spouse's parent is completely different than getting with a momma's boy. that kind of guy is OBSESSED with his mother, always puts her first, always tells her everything about the relationship, goes to her first for support... fuck that. i'm not going to compete with a guy's mom for his attention.
Holy moly lol... But she's his mother... she gave him life and she can take it back too lol
What I really mean is that why does that feel threatening though if he has a very close relationship with his mother? Everyone consults somebody, whether it's a friend or a family member...
@TripleAce because i should be his number 1 priority. i should be his MAIN support at this point. after all, why the fuck is he dating me, if his mom is his go to? how does that make any sense? it's a relationship between two people. not three. how come you can't see how irritating that is? i'm not saying that he can't have a relationship with his own mother- OF COURSE he should. that is awesome. i just don't want to be his second priority.
Allow me to be the first to say it. You're exactly right. My Mom always came first no matter what and my Grandma did too and I'll never care what anyone else thinks or says about that, ever.
Well, for me, being a Mama's boy won't be that big of a deal. Since I love him, I should also thankful to his mom who gave birth to him. Furthermore, I can't be sure of myself that I won't also born a boy one day or not. So, if it did happen, I would also want my son to still love me even after marriage. So I can understand him and his mother :)
Oh My Fuc***g God. Girls avoid those mama's boys. they will taker her word over yours, her advice against yours, her love Above yours. Danger Signs Abound.
I'm a guy and i know for fact my mom married my dad who was a mama's boy , my dad would be eating roast with his mother while we was at home eating chicken.
it'd get annoying after awhile especially cause i came from a family where they all treated me like shit. i want to feel like someones number one at least once in my life. i deserve it.
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hmmm.. Well if the tables where turned and it was a daddy's girl it would depend.
If he was a lonely old dude I'd feel sorry for him and thus be ok with it, if all else was good in the relationship.
however.. If she took the piss if be done with it, like cancelling prior commitments for a usual can you come do this or whatever from the parent.
No never. They are not independent. If you are married they would divorce you if their mum wants it. They are just listening their mum is wants not their girlfrends. Of course a man can love their mother but too much indepent is not good they might make life hell.
had a girlfriend who said to me im a mama's boy, but its different
she diet a few years ago, I was 23... the connection causes somtimes problems but I wanna be a orginal of myself and no copy of someone else... but I had also positive moments caused from that...
Mama's boy?
No, I don't think a woman can stay with such a man in the long run. Initially they might be okay with it, but in the long run they will find this quality very unattractive.
I've tried it and it didn't work out. He would literally cancel plans with me if she decided last minute that she wanted to do something with him. There has to be a balance.
ugh. never. vastly, VASTLY unattractive. never. never. never. never. NEVER. NEVER. NEVER. NEVERRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR
Tell us how you really feel lol
Lmfao :p
Wow lol
But the question begs to ask why aren't you, his wife or girlfriend, supportive of his mother for what she needs... she is probably old right?
@TripleAce hmmm... helping out your spouse's parent is completely different than getting with a momma's boy. that kind of guy is OBSESSED with his mother, always puts her first, always tells her everything about the relationship, goes to her first for support... fuck that. i'm not going to compete with a guy's mom for his attention.
Holy moly lol... But she's his mother... she gave him life and she can take it back too lol
What I really mean is that why does that feel threatening though if he has a very close relationship with his mother? Everyone consults somebody, whether it's a friend or a family member...
@TripleAce because i should be his number 1 priority. i should be his MAIN support at this point. after all, why the fuck is he dating me, if his mom is his go to? how does that make any sense? it's a relationship between two people. not three. how come you can't see how irritating that is? i'm not saying that he can't have a relationship with his own mother- OF COURSE he should. that is awesome. i just don't want to be his second priority.
are you a momma's boy? LOL.
Lmao I agree. I wouldn't wish any girl to date one. Shouldn't be a competition of who wins your man's love the most.
Allow me to be the first to say it. You're exactly right. My Mom always came first no matter what and my Grandma did too and I'll never care what anyone else thinks or says about that, ever.
Well, for me, being a Mama's boy won't be that big of a deal. Since I love him, I should also thankful to his mom who gave birth to him. Furthermore, I can't be sure of myself that I won't also born a boy one day or not. So, if it did happen, I would also want my son to still love me even after marriage. So I can understand him and his mother :)
Oh My Fuc***g God.
Girls avoid those mama's boys. they will taker her word over yours, her advice against yours, her love Above yours.
Danger Signs Abound.
no way. i cannot. i dated a mamas boy and oh my god. she was so extra which made him extra and i hate drama so i had to leave him behind
No, could never date a man who is a mommas boy. Because his mother will be making decisions for him about our love life
I'm a guy and i know for fact my mom married my dad who was a mama's boy , my dad would be eating roast with his mother while we was at home eating chicken.
A perfect guy would be keeping balance.. Give enough time both to his mother and wife.. He can be a good son and husband at the same time..
Honestly, to a point, it's kind of cute when a guy respects his mother, but yes, there would be a point where i would need to come first.
it'd get annoying after awhile especially cause i came from a family where they all treated me like shit. i want to feel like someones number one at least once in my life. i deserve it.
How about this... What if a girl is a daddy's girl? Would you guys date her? 🤔
I'd like that.. it shows that she's sweet and caring about her family
when a girl is a daddy's girl she is still taught/pushed to put her husband first. I think
Mediterranean/Latin men get laid left and right so apparently a lot of women put up with in practice, even if they say they won't.
Yes because that's his mother and I would understand that and the key is balance
Wow all girls said no
where's the unique 1 out of million type of girl that supports his family and her husband
Geez lol
supporting her husband and family is totally different than constantly being placed second in a relationship regardless of who it is.
Nope don't want a boy that will run to his mom about everything learn how to workout your own problems