Why do women think sex is a unmutual gift?

[Anonymous]

i rarely date now a days because usually when i do. women give me this your a great guy number. they have sex with me then by the 2nd or 3rd day of knowing me they want me to be a chauffeur for their friends or they want me to buy them expensive gifts. I've even noticed that some girls just assume im just going to fall into some place. its my fault for having sex so quick but i seriously think we should teach women nobody owes them anything in this world, the good part os your going to have someone who wants to give you the world one day. but i digress... when i speak up and tell them im not ready to i. e. put them on my phone plane, buy a car, take her and friends from place to place , or my most requested one... can you pay my phone bill? after a date or a week of knowing me... now ill be the first to admit im perfect i no way shape or form, and im not saying all women are gold diggers leeches etc... i just dont understand why women feel they can approach me so early with all these favors. I've been used so much in my life it just makes me want to erase you from my brain.

[estoydorado1]

You're hooking up with women you've known for less than 4 days and you're wondering why they don't treat you with respect? They don't know you and your lack of self control or accountability show's how impulsive and oblivious you are. Of course selfish chicks will prey on that. FYI, quality girls wouldn't be screwing you within hours of learning your name so don't blame the entire female populace for your own poor judgment.

[Asker]

can you reread my description please i did not blame all women. and yes as stated also i agree that i shouldn't have had sex. I don't know why i thought i would get constructive criticism here. but thank you

[estoydorado1]

This is constructive. You don't get to know these women and the kind of woman who would hook up with any random guy the day they met him isn't the type of girl who will stick with you and support you. If she hooks up with you on the first day then she's probably done it with every other guy who's shown her attention. You're wondering why these women don't treat you with respect and I'm pointing out why.

[estoydorado1]

Your question clearly stated "why don't women think that sex is a mutual gift?" you didn't say "the few women I've hooked up with" or "some women I know" You said "women" I'm a woman so why should I not think your speaking generally. You also were saying that you aren't into dating because you've only encountered this sort of female and I was pointing out that if you spent the first few days talking instead of screwing, you could probably figure out whether these girls were worth your time or not.

[Asker]

yes it did. I'm new to this app and noticed a trend of people going into the details of the situation pertaining to the question, inside the description box. you can only write 200 characters or so for your question. yes i could have worded it differently in that case. my mistake.

[May10th1994]

Just like they can deny sex, you can deny paying for things. They aren't in the wrong for asking, and you aren't in the wrong for denying. They're looking for one thing, you're looking for another. Nothing wrong with that, you'll just have to look extra hard for women on the same page as you.

[Asker]

thank you for your input. i need to create some type of test to see if we are on the same level. also thanks for not bashing me.

[May10th1994]

You're welcome. Took me a long time to find a man whom wanted the same things as me and respected me. So I understand.

[Elarra]

Lol, men like you are the reason why my next boyfriend if I ever get one is going to wait a loooooong time before they get any.

Also, this is your fault. Don't generalize women because you get caught up too quickly. Maybe get some standards first.

[Asker]

reread that please... i clearly said its my fault for having sex so early but at the same time who teaches their daughter to ask strangers they just met to pay their bills? call me what you want... i want a good strong relationship. i really do. and secondly i never said all women. thats in my description as well. but thanks i guess?

[Elarra]

I can read fine because after you say it's your fault you then Proceed to say how we need to teach women that no one owes them anything. Women already know that. But you go for the ones who don't care. Raise your standards or stop whining. It's that easy.

[Asker]

lol thanks. have a good day.

[bekkesmash]

Why must a guy earn sex from you, it's like prostitution.

[hahahmm]

Find women who have real jobs that pay decent amounts (not just fast food cashier for example) and don't dress like $2 whores 24/7. They are less likely to see you as an ATM machine.

[Asker]

you will be suprised. i think im a magnet for disaters.

[hahahmm]

Are you bragging about cash and dangling it in their faces from day 1?

[Asker]

i never once said i was rich.. i make about the average wage in america. they see i own my own vehicle and budget myself some spending money and think its a gold ticket. figuratively speaking.

[hahahmm]

Yeah, it's not about being rich but whether you use money to get women. There are gold diggers at all levels from $50 makes their eyes big to those who would not take you seriously if you have less than 10 million.

[Asker]

damn... im going to tibet. maybe i could be a monk

[genericname85]

i´d just tell those girls: allowing me to stick my dick in you doesn´t entitle you to anything. and then never text them again. what´s wrong with them?

[RJGraveyTrain]

Why do men date shit human beings and blame it on all of us?

The answer boils down to be the same.

[windfall2017]

Never mind what they do. Just say no and move on. You got the sex.

[mattmanyah]

its sex man it causes closeness and that leads to favors. hold out a bit longer and see how the woman really is before sleeping with her

[KuroShy99]

Seems like you fall for the wrong women?
I can't imagine every woman is like that. Seems like really bad luck for you...

[mimo96]

thought that sex a last step in a relation i. e no borders between your... so that normal.. take whole her responsibility

[LoveMurgod]

find a girl with more self respect