Why did he stop giving me ATTENTION?

[Anonymous]

Me & this guy I am dating fell out because he doens't like my hygiene and weight he continued to talk to me and then said he will come see me.
Why does a guy stop giving a woman he is dating attention on social media like he used to?

[jamieabraham]

it's hurts i know
but try to get over him
instead of thinking about why he is not giving you attention.
maintain some self-respect.

[Flotri66]

what is it about your hygiene and weight did he say?

[Asker]

He said he doesn't think i wash properly and that I need to lose weight as I used to look hot.

[Flotri66]

like properly down there? I guess take that into account but don't let him Know you did. As for the weight issue, if your hot skinny then your hot fat. it's how you see yourself. girls have that double standard. even when they are packing the pounds guys still go gaga for them.

[Asker]

well he's skinny and thinks i need to lose weight. i don't know where he's talking about, properly down there or not.. not sure but why did this make him stop giving me attention apart from talking every few weeks?

[Flotri66]

first of all, unless your at risk of a heart attack, no one should tell you weather to lose or gain weight. second Forget about him. I bet your hot and squeaky clean. some people are never content with what they have.