After my feelings got hurt a year ago, I can't develop feelings for anyone anymore. I really try to do otherwise, but it just doesn't work. Since then I met a guy and he was so adorable and he really liked me but I had to "break up" (without hurting his feelings because he also didn't develop feelings for me) with him because I wasn't able to feel something for him, thankfully he understood and we stayed friends. Now I've met a guy who wants to be around me on a daily basis and always tries to come near me, but I just can't handle that, I need physical distance, but he can't understand that and I don't want to be rude. Tbh it somehow really pisses me off. He's always asking "Why are you like that?" And the only response I can ever give is "Because that's the arsehole I became." He already knows the story why I'm the person I am now, but he thinks he's different and that I shouldn't be this way around him. What should I do?
Most Helpful Guy
I think you are in love with "the person you became" .. because its so charming and badass.. you don't want to give it up for this nice guy.. or any other guy who takes an interest in you. Sometimes shit happens to us that makes us into something stronger.. but don't confuse that with you are now this charming BAD HARD ASS... in the end you will never be happy.1
Most Helpful Girl
I am sorry to say that he might not be the 'right' guy you are looking for or at least at this current stage in your life. It may be due to the fact that you have not fully recover from the hurt to love or rely on another guy. Perhaps you need time to be by yourself, love yourself, to heal properly. I believe that by doing so will you be able to truly accept and love wholeheartedly the next guy who steps into your life.1