I don't feel emotionally connected to anyone... :(? What can I do?

[IHateMeganFox]

I don't really know what happened. But I don't feel anything for guys anymore. I don't have "crushes" on them, I don't want to date them, I don't want to marry them, I don't love them, I don't really know why?

Am I a lesbian or some sh*t? I mean when I think of women yes, they're sexy and hot. But I don't know about a relationship with one. I don't even know. What is wrong with me? Why do I no longer feel anything for guys anymore?

[RedThread]

Are you depressed? I get like this when I'm depressed. Sometimes I feel like I can't connect with anyone and everything feels like a hassle which makes me more depressed lol. When I'm depressed I don't have any sex drive either so that could explain my lack of interest or attraction. This doesn't mean you aren't attracted to men though you just have to find what makes you happy and passionate.

[IHateMeganFox]

Nothing to do with sex. And I have bipolar disorder.

[aDzNichilista]

I have came across this phase many a times and it vanishes after sometime. Only that, I don't get excited about men. Perhaps, this is just a phase that'll vanish, for you too. As far as the reason for this feel of yours, I need a deeper look at your personality and your past & present to give a reasonable analysis.

[IHateMeganFox]

Can you give me a private analysis?

[aDzNichilista]

Yeah, I can give my best.

[TheMechanic]

What have your past relationships been like? How meaningful were they to you? I hate to get all psychological but my first guess would be that you've been longing for emotional connection with someone and didn't get it, so now you've convinced yourself that you don't need it? I've always been sexually attracted to girls but there was a period where I convinced myself that I wanted nothing to do with them on a deeper level and was only interested in sex. Maybe what you're experiencing is similar.

[IHateMeganFox]

I've only been in one relationship. It lasted 5 months, we just broke up a few weeks ago.

[Kate545]

Its normal to feel emotionally cold/distant after you break up. I felt that way for 7 months!

[TheMechanic]

yes it is normal to feel cold and distant after a breakup. you stop trusting people for a little while but you eventually get over it and start putting yourself out there again. To the asker, my best advice to you would be to just focus the some time on living your life the way you would if guys didn't even matter. whatever it is that you like to do, go do it. I think you'd be surprised how much taking some time to focus solely on yourself could improve your outlook on life and relationships.

[brundawger]

Are you attracted to women? Maybe you should explore that and see how that goes. Were you in bad relationships so you turned off by them. Is it a loss of libido or is it non-sexual. Because loss of libido can affect other things.

[IHateMeganFox]

No, nothing to do with sex life. Just talking about feelings. And I don't want to be a lesbian.

[TheAtomicMonster454]

Im happy that you do not want to be a lesbian; you would have to get a crew cut, start working out, and vote Democrat. Its not worth the hassle.

[IHateMeganFox]

That doesn't answer my question, nor does it speak the truth. But thanks anyways.

[mattl338]

What a piece of shit you are. Your comment answers nothing, Atomic.