We had sex and now he's being distant?

[Anonymous]

I know this happens all the time. It just sucks. I feel like he just used me for sex. Don't get me wrong, I enjoyed myself too but I didn't expect him to disappear after sleeping with me.

[Malikai96]

When a guy gets distant after sex, at least from my experience, it means that he's essentially got what he wanted from you and that was it. It sucks, especially if you had feelings for him, but he only wanted sex from you or he would have stayed at least for a bit after.

[Asker]

Yeah I think you're right. The next morning I thought I'd get a cute text from him but I got nothing all day. And when I tried to contact him, he was so just distant and short.

[Malikai96]

He's trying to cut you off with the short replies... I hate when they do that.

[Asker]

Yeah it's just rude. But it's okay. I'll just move on. I saw him today. He said hi but I just said hi back without even looking at him lol

[Malikai96]

Haha yeah he'll get the message from that. Best of luck :)

[Asker]

Thanks so much!