We almost had sex and now he is acting like nothing happened?

Anonymous

Me and my coworker have grown close for the past 7 months. We talked for hours on the phone, we went out... we were buying each other stuff. And even acted like a couple for the past few weeks.

He has always made hints that he wants to be more than a friend. And something has happened 10 days ago, which changed everything. I was teasing him playfully... he just got up and grabbed my boobs.. squeezed them. I went silent. I liked it but I was just shocked and couldn't react. The following 2 days he used every possibility to touch me and squeeze me. And I asked him to join me on my way to the dentist after work. He did. On our way back we started to confess to each other. I told him that im afraid that he will use me just for sex.

He replied that he wouldn't have come with me if I was just for the hook up. And then he started kissing me but I went silent again. He said "what's wrong?"... it was my fear. Anyway... the next day he acted weird and distant. I thought that he regretted the previous night and it upset me. Later he invited me to lunch. Again started to reach to touch me. I won't get into much detail but the following few days everything was on and off. The big event which happened was last Wednesday, a day before my trip to Turkey. He became very passionate even at work. I didn't push him away... he bit my neck, my ears... and said "I'm going to mark you before you go". He later invited me to go somewhere in private and we started making out. A lot of touching, french kissing... etc. almots had sex. But I stopped him with the excuse that I'm tired and I have to go to sleep before my trip. He kissed me goodbye and said he will call. He didn't. We texted for an hour during those 4 days I was away. And that was it. Yesterday was my first day at work. He acted nice but distant again. Touched me twice, but not with the same effort. I asked him "what's wrong?" He said "I got u up now im putting you down... otherwise it won't be fun"

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I'm kind of depressed... I thought we are developing something and now I'm not sure where it is all going.
We almost had sex and now he is acting like nothing happened?
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