Can you date someone you’re not physically attracted to? (Page 2)
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I'm going with yes simply because I did. My ex was legit physically unattractive yet we had some type of spark and I enjoyed his company for a while till his true colors come out.
No in my personal opinion it just doesn't work for anything longer than a couple of months. Tried it out of curiosity FROM wondering if I were being too fussy, it didn't work. If there's no chemistry there to begin with it's just not happening.
Well, you can, but you prob won't be happy about it
I think inxan settle for less in the looks department if she has a really good personality. But can't settle the other way around. But I think idnhave to be at least somewhat attracted to them.
The key word for me saying yes here was "date" dating doesn't always mean an intimate relationship. Especially when you just start dating.
Lol what would be the point? At best you guys would just be "friends" because you wouldn't be having sex with each other
Someone of the gender I'm attracted to, yeah. I'm not picky if they're likable as a person. Romance is mainly emotional.
If "not physically attracted to" them meant they were a guy, then not really.
If they were obese, though, I'd probably not. That would probably result in nearly complete absence of physical attraction, which would be like dating a guy.
No, I can date someone that I'm nominally attracted to, but if I find the unattractive I couldn't
Tried it once and just didn't work (even though I liked her personality). Physical attraction is a requirement for me to be with someone.
She must have been beautiful
@Daynada yeah, I tried it to. I ended up breaking up with him. It was mainly because I couldn't stop myself from looking at other men as potential. I wouldn't want to end up cheating, which I knew I would if I found someone I liked inside and out. It wasn't fair to him.
I'm not that picky, but no, I can't date people I don't at least see as somewhat attractive. Gross obesity, for example, is a show-stopper.
Absolutely not. I’m a male which means i’m Visual, so I can only date women I find attractive.
No. Physical attraction is one of the only things that seperates a friendship from a relationship
Exactly
100% True.
I can go on a date but I really do not think im capable of dating someone im not attracted to.
It would be really hard for me because I'm very visual, I like my women fit.
I could but id be miserable. Even if she's ugly but good at sex, as soon as the sex is over id be miserable
Anyone saying yes here is lying straight up lol
yes as long as he loves God, is super kind, and isn't obese.
Depends.
If you already know them well, then no.
But if you are still getting to know them, then they might surprise you.
I don't date and I don't get into relationships based on false pretenses.
Depends on how not physically attracted to them I am.