I seen people on this post saying get a new boyfriend and break up it with him. If you know he don't have a job then that's part of the issue too, plus you said you was going through issues. That's a big deal and he should not be there. Also, it seems like you didn't sat down and actually talk to him about what he should contribute to the house. Now if it was a roommate you'll probably want more but since his label is a boyfriend it's like he can do anything he want. it seems like he's not looking for a job either and that you're doing all the work. You should put your foot down and tell him he needs to do things around the house. You have to be truly ready to take that step for someone to live with you. It's sad that you have to pay for all the dates and dinners especially if his grandma gives him money and an SSI check isn't anything he should stop least give you $300 out of that. That's pretty selfish of him to eat all the food up, for all that y'all may as well get your own groceries. Overall, I feel like you should have a serious talk with him and if he don't agree to anything and don't change , he has to move out.. or go somewhere because it seems like you can't take it anymore.
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Next time he goes out change the locks. Sell his x-box as "back payments" and leave the rest of his shit in bags on the lawn. You can always find a roommate to share expenses.
by the way you should never tell anyone boyfriend or not when they move in that they don't have to help pay rent, utilities, etc. If people learn to expect something for nothing they are never going to change.
since u are living together he should be helping u with the rent and he is ur boyfriend probably the worst one, he should understand situation , just leave him god this triggered me so much I would punch him so hard and also didn't you tell him about the things u r running out of in the house? if u did he must be an assholes to ignore that he is using u
You have to talk to him like you would any other roommate. Explain to him that you thought you would have a job sooner but since you don't you need him to contribute more.
Break up with him immediately. The longer you wait the more stuck with him you'll be, and the worse it'll get.
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If you don't wanna kick him out, tell him to buck up, then if he still ain't contributing, looking for work and paying for dates, just move on
Just break up ! If you already decided it then do it ! Leave him !
Shit on his carpet that should do it
Than leave him. Who stoping you?
U should search a new boyfriend
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