Would you rather date an arrogant guy or a shy guy?

[Sola666]

Curiousity!

[Mil00]

Shy guys, because I too am shy.
We can be awkwardly shy, then naturally connect. I dont know.

I wouldn't be able to handle arrogance. Then again, I guess it depends on the level (for both)

[melanieeeB]

Arrogant, I just couldn't handle someone shy, it just doesn't fit to my personality, introvert for sure, shy nope

[RedSkii]

I'd say shy. Arrogant pricks annoy me. Besides, a shy guy can be cute and something of a project.

[Juxtapose]

I'd only date traps if I was gonna date a guy and an arrogant trap?

.. sign me up!

[PrincessPie]

Probably arrogant to be honest. But neither sound appealing.

[Viv2021]

Shy guys definetly. They are the most cute and adorable type of guys.
they have such a good personality on the inside ready to burst out. You will just need to get to know them. :)

[paulyy_07]

Arrogance is not attractive so I'd rather a shy guy

[blubblubblub]

arrogance is a turn off (but quite often it can be mistaken as confidence, which is not a turn off), but i'd go shy guys. some are really just really adorable

[MaiNameIsSunshine]

Shy guys are sometimes more trash than arrogant guys. They think too highly of themselves and think women owe them something because of that. Arrogant for the win.

[mickeyshell99]

Hmmm it would really depend on the level of arrogance or shyness but I’m thinking arrogance. A shy man would be would take too much energy.

[amel23]

Arrogant guys turn me off shy guys can't take crazy me i just guess none

[Sola666]

You gotta decide not them..

[amel23]

Decide what

[Sola666]

If you'd rather date a shy or arrogant guy..

Me e. G. Would love to date a special girl, which is not stereotypical

[amel23]

Well I said arrogant turn me off so not dating shy guys can't handle me so not dating can't be more clear than that

[widdershins_]

Depends on how shy he is. Arrogance get's annoying.

[potatoisme]

Shy guy
You can't even deal with an arrogant guy so I can't imagine dating him

[RuthAnn1781]

I'd rather date a shy guy but honestly, I'd probably end up with an arrogant guy because I'm really quiet so I don't do well with other quiet people

[RachelleDraws]

Can I choose shy girl? I don't wanna date a guy.

[Blondie80]

Neither. I don't like either type.

[_caaaaaaam]

Arrogant I hate shy guys

[Armourdillo]

Would you rather go out with a guy who beats you or a shy guy who opens up when you get to know him and he gets to know you?

[_caaaaaaam]

Let’s get this straight. Arrogant guys does not equate to being abusive.

But if I had to choose between an abusive or a shy guy... I’d probably choose the shy guy.

If it’s between and arrogant guy and a shy guy I will almost always choose the arrogant guy

[Armourdillo]

It was just a followup question. Would you teach your son to be arrogant? And do you think that shy guys can open up to you when you get to know them?

[_caaaaaaam]

Uhh. Yeah I’d teach my son to be arrogant (vs shy). Like I said, I would much rather him “try” to act confidence and be loud af than be some weird antisocial freak

[Armourdillo]

Does shy really equal antisocial freak? To me shy just meant quiet around new people.

[Armourdillo]

Would you rather your son sexually harass girls or be a virgin?

[SammyL]

Shy guys every time.

[Longlegs1979]

Neither I am not into guys I’m attracted to women.

[Tania_bilkis]

Shy.
Because arrogance is a deal breaker for me

[Anonymous]

Girls are saying arrogant is annoying but these guys have girlfriends for a reason.

[SammyL]

Often because they approach enough women that they'll eventually find one who likes them. The shy guy doesn't. It's just numbers. A broken clock is still right twice a day.
Personally, I don't date arrogant men. I go for the shy guys.

[Opinion Owner]

@SammyL I'm shy, unfortunately its part of my personality, usually I get rejected, or I get forgotten about

[SammyL]

The arrogant guys get rejected too, it's just because they approach girls so much more often, they'll find someone who will give them a chance. Maybe only 1 in 20 girls would say yes to each of you, maybe you approach 20 girls in 2 years, and the arrogant guy does that in 2 weeks. That's the difference.
There are girls like me out there, that prefer the shy guys. You don't usually find us at bars or clubs- we're usually in bookstores, taking classes, or involved with the arts. Those are good places to be to find girls like us.

[Opinion Owner]

@SammyL isn't it inappropriate to ask out girls in stores?

[SammyL]

Depends. If they work there, yes. If they're there shopping, no. I met a guy I dated that way, actually. He smiled and said hi to me when I was browsing the sci-fi section, and asked me if I could recommend him a good book. We started talking about authors we liked and things like that, and after a little while he asked me to go for a coffee with him.
Quite a few girls do appreciate being asked for our opinion on something. From what I understand, the biggest challenge is knowing whether they are open to being approached. Eye contact is usually a good hint. If she won't look at you, even as you walk by, she probably won't talk to you.

[Reincarnated_sóul]

I think they're into the shy type

[Kranjec]

You sure about that? Girls started comming to me when I became a jerk.

[Reincarnated_sóul]

Then you're right

[Sola666]

I'm also quite sure about that, girls tend to like me, but not more.

I'm a shy guy ^^

[Reincarnated_sóul]

I'm arrogant and they don't like me actually!

[Reincarnated_sóul]

Maybe mine is too intense

[NewToThis83]

Shy for sure.

[ScottSummers]

probably the arrogant one

[ScottSummers]

i meant women would chose the arrogant one over the shy one

[CT_CD]

Arrogant. Women hate shy guys

[Kimmy88]

Arrogant but neither is appealing

[Armourdillo]

Would you choose an abusive guy or a shy guy who warms up to you? Are shy guys incapable of having friends? Shallow bitch.

[Kimmy88]

@Armourdillo I chose arrogant because i could actually talk to him whereas the shy guy would be quiet and conversation may lack.

[Armourdillo]

Most shy people in general are more comfortable talking one on one rather than in a large group of people. But it's funny you think shy people are ALL mutes. You're the type of girl to get beat and go back to suck his dick. Begone thot

[Kimmy88]

@Armourdillo ok than shy person. Whatever

[Armourdillo]

You don't think, you assume and judge people without even knowing them, just shut the fuck up you entitled cunt

[Giacomanzo]

@Armourdillo who said that arrogance and abusiveness are in co-existence? The mechanical next to my store is one of the biggest arrogance assholes I've ever met, he's wife is very happily married with him. And what the hell does "shallow" as to do with it?
By your words, it seems like you are one of those jerks who classify themselves as "nice guy" when they are actually only gentle to women they like.

[Kimmy88]

@Armourdillo lol whatever. This question asked me to pick one and I did. I don’t normally judge.

[Armourdillo]

@Giacomanzo I never said they correlated. I asked a separate question. I'm not a nice guy, just stay calm and take your downs medication. This girl won't suck you for being a white Knight, she'll let you buy her dinner and go home with another guy.

[Armourdillo]

It wasn't that you picked one, it's that you're reason showed 0 signs of even thinking. Just admit you suck alpha males off on the daily

[Armourdillo]

According to you you'd fuck me over a shy guy any day of the week

[Giacomanzo]

@Armourdillo I was perfectly aware of the White Knight bullshit you where about to pull up, but, guess what? I attack both women an men when they start selling bullshit. Read my opinions or my replies in my profile, you'll see I'm correct. And now you were not asking a separated question. You were just hutthurt because a certain woman said to prefer a quality you don't have over one that you have.

[Armourdillo]

@Giacomanzo so I'm not arrogant? LOL

[Giacomanzo]

@Armourdillo you surely are a douchebag, anything else Indo not know.

[Armourdillo]

@Giacomanzo so what you're saying is arrogance is a good quality

[Armourdillo]

I'm a douchebag but not arrogant, correct?

[Cosytoasty]

The opposite of shy is confident not arrogant...

[Sola666]

A shy guy can be confident aswell... So NO!

[Cosytoasty]

How can a shy guy be confident? An introvert can be, but shy means you are afraid of doing something, ergo no confident.

[Sola666]

They can be, trust me.

I also tend to be over confident, when it comes to certain topics..

[Sola666]

* in certain circumstances

[pinkzoesbb]

Shy.

[patrysid90]

Shy guy

[Prima_Dana]

Shy guy

[Aguamarina]

Shy guy.

[Cosytoasty]

Really? From your questions on here I’d have thought the complete opposite lol.

[Anonymous]

Shyyyyy

[cupidkisses]

Shy guy

[Insanyx12]

Shy.