Girls, has a persistent guy ever been successful with you?

Question

Everyone says that a girl isn't worth your time if she keeps turns you down; however, quite a few girls are so introverted they're going to be making excuses quite a bit... so giving up and moving on seems premature until she explicitly states no not interested or ever will be.

Girl_Interuppted · Accepted Answer

YES!!

I subconsciously push men away to test if they're really interested.

All of the guys I have ever loved have shown consistent interest and decency, even when I was on the fence at the start.

However (and this is a big but) if the woman could not find you attractive then it's not a red light to keep trying.

If you get nos from lots of women and you don't feel that you are generally attractive to them, then work on yourself first (because no amount of persistence will help you if she doesn't fundamentally find you attractive).

If it's just this specific girl that seems a bit reticent, then obviously don't bombard her with interest... but let word get out that you do really like her then try again at a later date.

vzogo · Accepted Answer

I'll be honest with you, when I tell a guy no... I usually mean it. I have a high school friend who to this day tries to convince me that we're made for each other. I always turn him down, it's been 8 years and still nothing. You first need to know why she doesn't want to be in a relationship with you. If she does like you but has other reasons, maybe religion for example, then yeah just keep on persisting. Now if she really just don't like you/have no feelings for you/doesn't find you attractive, my advice is move on...
Hope I helped!

Girly1710 · Accepted Answer

Never had someone ask me out let alone be persistent about it so I don’t know if it would’ve worked but now I’ll never know because my current relationship started pretty much right when we met. No one had to be persistent about it being a thing because we both knew right away that we could never say goodbye to each other.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Move on. If she can't say she likes someone who likes her, you'd be constantly dealing with it through the relationship. And most likely: she doesn't like you.

Reincarnated_sóul · Accepted Answer

Girls are really cunning creatures! We can't underestimate them..

ChronicThinker · Answer

My fiance was, but he wasn't persistent in the refusing to take no for an answer and being pushy.

Annony1 · Answer

I mean if we have absolutely no interest in you and you’re persistent it’s a huuuuuge turn off. The chance that you maybe would have had has went to 0%. If she says she’s not interested once the chances are that she’s actually really just not interested.

NewToThis83 · Answer

So once I had a guy persistent and I didn’t end up with him. Another guy was persistent also and we dated but I wasn’t that into him. A friend of mine had this one man chasing after her too, he was persistent and now they’re married with two children. It can happen but all situations are different.

pierrot11 · Answer

Hmm. With introverted girls, aggressive persistence will scare them off. It won't work. So, be gently persistent in texting them and saying hi and talking about stuff, building a solid friendship but don't be persistent in asking them out.

Cuteusernamehere · Answer

My guy was very persistent. We meet in a bar but I shot him down (pretty harshly). We ended up together a few months later.

nevermoregirl7 · Answer

Just because a girl is introverted does not mean she can't let you know when she is not interested. If she is brushing you off on any attempts. Move on.

SarahsSummer · Answer

Some girls won’t be so confrontational. You’ll need to use your best judgement. if she hasn’t given you ANY signs that she appreciates your persistence, it’s time to move on. Call it her loss but move on.

deraz24 · Answer

Well usually I mean it when I say I'm not interested, this guy grew up with me knew him for years and he like me at a couple points but he's still a bro/cuz to me. But some girls might be different

PinkMichae · Answer

My so was persistent on meeting me. We probably wouldn't be together if he hadn't been.

Anonymous · Answer

Usually the more persistent someone is the more I'm trying to keep them away. Not true for my present partner tho - he stuck for about a year and here he is now. I guess it depends on the way you're being persistent.

CutandDry · Answer

Yes, I’m HS he turned out to be an arrogant asshole🙄

Anonymous · Answer

Yeah guy I really liked but wasn't sure about was persistent, I was testing him and a year later I gave in.

happilytogether · Answer

Yes after 20 years I gave in and found out he was the only one for me

Anonymous · Answer

Yes i married one. All the other girls dropped their panties just because he's cute but not me.

lotalli · Answer

Its fine to be persistent just make sure you're not coming on too strong

LegateLanius · Answer

Persistence can also get you in trouble

MadCringey · Answer

Depends on how persistent

Richareens · Answer

Yeah, my boyfriend.

Anonymous · Answer

No. Because l don't change my mind.

Anonymous · Answer

never... ever

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