I am a really hot and nice guy but why do only ugly girls like me?

[Anonymous]

I am a really nice guy and I am also very hot facially and bodywise. But for some reason only ugly and average girls approach me. How do I make hot girls approach me?

[Arbalest]

It’s pretty rare that hot girls will approach. But if you make strong eye contact with girls, hot ones will initiate with you. But you have to show them you aren’t a little bitch first by catching their eyes, and holding eye contact.

Even so, it’s still your job to approach girls. If hot ones approach you, it’s gonna be rarely. Hot girls don’t approach guys. Hot girls are on anti weak dude duty 100% of the time. They stand on duty, scaring away weak men hoping a strong man can break her defense. So yea it’s rare she will approach you, but like I said eye contact can change that fact lol.

Happens to me all the time. Hot girls approach me. Talk to me. I used to be way more socially awkward and girls would approach, and leave immediately cuz I was weird. Looks don’t matter if you’re a weirdo. Nowadays I’m much better so it’s all good!

[dizmuhjam]

Because you're dumb and dont know how to word things in a diplomatic way?

After reading your answers to the girls opinions, you claimed that EVERY guy classifies girls and its only normal "There are women that are oBjEcTiVeLy hot and women that are oBjEcTiVeLy ugly." This proves how dumb you are. A smart guy wouldve asked.. -he wouldn't because the question in general is stupid but IF he did he wouldve worded it like "How can I make the women that is beautiful to me, approach me?" and dont even mention the girls that dont "FIT YOUR TASTE" in the question. YES ITS >DONT FIT MYTASTE< AND NOT >UGLY< GOT IT? This way you won't lose the sympathy you could have gotten from the women that answered here.

[dizmuhjam]

Also here a little insight on how women get attracted and stay attracted:
1. He's authentic and not some fake package.
2. He KNOWS how to talk.
3. His looks.

If a woman sees a guy with a nice body.. lets say a sixpack. Why do you think she's attracted? Because it looks good right? True but there is more than six bumps in your belly.
The woman sees hard work and discipline and that you stay focused on your goals.
These are features that she sees in a sixpack or good body with strong arms, features that are important in other things in live too. Then she maybe gets to know him and finds out he's not focused, nor disciplined and doesn't work hard either.. he only does for his body but for nothing else. He's not even confident. Then attraction aspect number 1 failed. She sees its just a fake package and leaves him. Women want everything in a man. Not just looks. Looks are a nice bonus to have, but they won't get you for.

[juliafeldman]

Why can’t you just approach them? Also maybe to you a girl seems ugly, but to others she’s not. Personally, a guy can be very good-looking but if they have a shitty personality, then I would never like them.

[Asker]

It's not like I am picky, you are pretty hot for example. But girls like you don't approach me...

[juliafeldman]

I don't know man. I usually approach guys I think are attractive. It could be that they’re scared of getting rejected.

[Ana_Moonsong]

You should approach them, and show them you aren’t a complete asshole. It’s very unlikely that I would ever approach a guy lol

[abbabygirl]

Maybe try approaching them. Since you are super hot they might be intimidated or feel like you wouldn't be into them.

[Asker]

I wish girls like you were into me...

[abbabygirl]

The thing is I think u r hot you just come off really strong kinda like a completely cocky dick. Like I'm sure your nice and all but first impressions count and you seem like an attention seeker. And u should grow a pair and approach her. Sorry that was rude but the truth

[witherwing]

How many times do you need to ask the same question?

[Asker]

Until I get the answer to my question. How do I get a hot girl (like you) to approach me?

[witherwing]

I've read the opinions on your previous questions and there have been plenty of good answers.

[Asker]

The ones that were mocking me and my looks? I don't think so.

[Asker]

Would you approach me if we were in the same room?

[witherwing]

No. I have a boyfriend.

[Asker]

And if you didn't?

[witherwing]

No. I don't ever approach people. And you seem like the type of person who is loud and loves to be on the spotlight, which is a major turn off for me.

[Asker]

No, I am pretty silent and don't talk much. Why don't attractive girls ever approach guys?

[witherwing]

I'm pretty sure the people who are also attractive on the inside ( = have a nice personality) actually approach other people, because they are social.

[Asker]

So you aren't attractive on the inside since you don't approach guys?

[witherwing]

I'm not attractive on the inside, because I don't like most people and most people don't like me.

[Asker]

But I guess you have no trouble getting guys because you are hot. Why do guys have to be both hot on the inside and outside but you only the outside?

[witherwing]

I don't sleep around, so I have no idea how easy or hard "getting guys" is. Finding a perfect partner for a relationship is always hard.

[OlderAndWiser]

Why are you waiting for girls to approach you? Do you think you are THAT hot? That's not the way it works. Time to change your game.

[WindowsUser]

1. nice guys don't say they are nice stop saying your nice even if you are.
2. i don't have a lot info to make conclusion but if you want a hot girlfiend than stat fucking talkign to hot girls if you don't talk with hot girls you don't get one and if the "ugly" girls see what there concurentions is they will stop comming tehy will say i have no chaneg vs that girl that he is talking to and the hot ones will start comming.

[Felicia5567]

If you were a nice guy you wouldn't call people ugly and rank girls based on appearance. lol.

[Arbalest]

That’s not fair. All guys do that shit lol. We just hide it from y’all.

[Felicia5567]

@Arbalest Then none of y'all are nice hahaha

[Arbalest]

Not by your definition lol. Why do you think people let it slide when trump said grab them by the pussy? Cuz every man is saying grab them by the pussy in private company lol. I’ve heard females talk amongst themselves. Y’all say some nasty shit trust and believe I know lol. It’s 1000 times more graphic and nasty than any male conversation I’ve heard lol. But we don’t see it as bad. It’s more like “hell yea girls are nasty too.”

[Felicia5567]

@Arbalest People don't led it slide what Trump said. A lot of people continuously call for his impeachment because he harassed women, and there is a growing recognition in society that harassment has lasting consequences on mental well-being.
I can guarantee you that not every man is saying stuff like that behind women's backs. A lot of young guys are, maybe because they somehow think that misogyny increases their masculinity. But I've met many good men, who realize that being nice to people and respectful is just better for everyone. I wouldn't call a guy ugly. I would say I'm not attracted to someone, but that's about it. #notallmen hahahaha

[Arbalest]

Trust me, we are all perverts. We all like to talk about how good a woman looks with our friends behind closed doors. We don’t talk shit to women’s faces that’s insane. We are still good people.

[MCheetah]

You're not a nice and decent guy, you're a "Nice Guy™". Decent men don't call women who are interested in them ugly just because they consider themselves an Adonis. I think this is a troll post, though.

[ruthy115]

I think it might be because of your attitude. Rude/arrogant/proud. It's good to like yourself but not so much as you seem to think any girl who approaches you is ugly.

[OpenWine]

I don't even look that di caprio and get at least some of the girls to approach me. the key is to not care about it, yeah you just have to stop asking all these questions and see sexual stuff as low tier life goals. focus on other things

[Asker]

I don't want some, I want hot girls to approach me.

[OpenWine]

I think that they were hot (for my taste and I have good taste).
so actually what is your problem dood? why do you care that much, you can't twist reality. trust me

[Anonymous]

Because you seem too stuck up and arrogant. I don't personally know you, but based on your question and how you describe these girls as ugly, I can sense that you are the problem. And usually girls don't approach guys. If you're a real man then YOU should approach a girl. And by the way, yes sometimes looks matter, but it's not the most important thing.

[Mitch6192]

All the fit girls go for ugly weirdo's like me ;p haha

[Jaye234]

Try approaching them. Strike up a conversation. See where that goes.

[Lutherthesaint]

Because girls assume you are a player or a jerk so they try to avoid hearbreak girls judge people by appearance a lot

[kaskas19]

Because we aren't desperate. Typically hot guys are assholes.

[Asker]

I am not, I am a nice guy even though I am a bit arrogant. But why won't a hot girl approach me? Would you approach me if we were in the same room?

[kaskas19]

And the reason ugly girls approach you because for some odd reason, a good amount of ugly people have a good bit of confidence. At least you're getting attention though:)

[kaskas19]

And no. I'm introverted and don't have enough confidence to do that. And I'm not hot, it would just be another ugly girl approaching you 😂

[Asker]

I don't think that hot girls have low confidence, I can't understand why won't they approach me.

[kaskas19]

Some hot girls don't have low confidence. Some do.

OH OH! Okay, I got it. Most girls don't tend to go up to guys, because they wait for the guys to go up to them.

[kaskas19]

They may want to, but just choose not to for several reasons.

Maybe try going up to them?

[Asker]

But why do average and ugly girls do so?

[Asker]

If they don't approach me, then they think I am unattractive.

[kaskas19]

Ugly/ average girls typically have a lot of confidence, or are just low maintenance, etc. If people want something, they tend to just go get it.

Or some hot girls just don't find you attractive, or what they are looking for. Or they have a boyfriend.

[Asker]

This is really painful. I feel like there's no point in my existence if hot girls don't like me.

[Asker]

Tell me please, what feature of my face do I need to fix? What surgery do I need?

[kaskas19]

Nothing. You're fine.

But some girls can naturally sense the type of guy someone is. Most hot guys are dicks. You probably won't believe me when I say this, but looks are NOT everything. I have rejected extremely attractive guys because their personalities are just shit.

[Anonymous]

Maybe you're not as attractive and nice as you think you are.

[TheChatWanderer]

Dude they probably think you like cock, Stop with this pathetic reposting change your shirt. YOU SHALLOW, TRANSPARENT PIECE OF HUMAN FECES!

[Anonymous]

I am sorry but a nice guy doesn't classify girls by ugly, average, and hot.

[Sucram]

Why not? For everyone there are people that look better than others. Nice guys can classify these things too.

[Asker]

I am nice in the sense that I won't cheat on my girl and I will treat her decently. But I still want a hot girl.

[Opinion Owner]

@Sucram very true, but the word ugly has quite the negative connotation. Why some may not look as good as the next, everyone is beautiful in their own way. Plus wouldn't it be sad if you only wanted your girl friend for how hot she was?

[Asker]

No, not everyone is beautiful. Some people are objectively ugly, some of them are objectively hot. I am of the latter one and I want a girl who is similarly hot.

[Opinion Owner]

Whatever. I am guessing that since I am on the average side, I will only date average people because I am not good enough for hot people and to good for ugly.

[Asker]

Yeah, this is right.

[Opinion Owner]

WHat is right?

[Asker]

It's right that you decided to date average people like yourself.

[xxxpari]

To be honest actually , having some standards are fine i guess. But as i can see , your standards are a bit too specific , just my opinion.

[RuthAnn1781]

You could stop being a douchebag maybe

[flowers234]

I smell an attention seeker who's a catfish!

[BriarsandRoses]

I sense an attention seeker

[Asker]

Yeah, I kinda am, but I need help. What am I doing wrong? Why don't hot girls approach me?
For example would you approach me?

[disgustingweebtrash]

I wish I was as hot as you

[Asker]

It's pointless because hot girls don't approach me, only average and ugly do so. I lied in my previous questions that hot girls like me, in reality they don't notice I exist. :(

[disgustingweebtrash]

The reality is that they think you're too hot for them, girls are shit scared of rejection and if the guy is extremely hot they won't bother

[Asker]

What about those average/below average girls who approach me?

[disgustingweebtrash]

Average/ugly girls get called beauitful all the time which distorts their view of themselves. If a hot girl asks for ratings she gets called attention seeking whore. Hot girls have self esteem issues because of them being so attractive that others call them ugly for it.

[gobsmacked3]

Ahhh attention seeking trolls...

[HamAndCheese]

I see you took my advice. Well done.

[cupidkisses]

As you said they like u because you are attractive

[maestrodematimaticas]

You have no game.

[gobsmacked3]

This ^

[Asker]

I have lots of games installed on my PC.

[maestrodematimaticas]

You just proved my point with your response. Self awareness is a valuable tool. Try developing it.