GUYS- what does it mean if you're out with a girl (may or may not be a date) and you check your phone periodically - answer phone calls - check your text messages. Do you not care about the girl you're with? Does this mean it's definitely not a date? Wouldn't you be ignoring calls/texts if you were out with a girl you're interested in? Would you answer some calls and not others (i.e. answer a call from your mom or dad? etc.)? Would you text friends when you're out on a date?
The guy I like and I hung out for the first time one-on-one. he didn't make any calls, his Mom called and he talked to her for a couple minutes, and he did check his text messages. (I don't believe he wrote and sent any texts, just checked). Does this mean he wasn't interested in being with me too much?
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It could mean he has his priorities in order and assumes you are mature enough to see him as a responsible person. Depending on his relationship with his mom, her normal bedtime, etc., he could have taken her call out of courtesy. I would look at the fact he didn't talk to her for half and hour, or return the text messages as a blessing, since you were more important than anything else, except his mother, yet you are important enough for him to keep that short.
How would you like it if you were out with a guy who didn't check his phone at all, even though it buzzed, only to find out later that his mother was in the hospital, or a friend totaled their car, and he didn't care enough about anyone to even see who, or what his phone buzzed for?2