I want to go swimming on the second date, is it a good idea or bad idea?

[Anonymous]

We hit if off apparently, he kissed me passionately on the first date, now planning for a second. Since I won't be in town for some days so it will be delayed, but I hope we will get there soon. What do you think to go swimming on a second date, is it too much?

Thank you guys and girls!

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+1 y

Go swimming, walk around in the Christmas market, cooking at home, go pool, which is a better one?

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+1 y

The reason why I want to go swimming is because I like water and swimming. I don't want to end up in sex with him, it's too early. Is it still good to go swimming?

[TadCurious]

I think it's a fine idea especially if the girl was comfortable and accepting of her body. Probably a lot of girls wouldn't feel comfortable revealing their body in a swimsuit (of whatever kind) that early in a relationship. But for girls who are that comfortable, it could be a really fun date.

[Tuomaaash]

Ofc not. It´s actually one of the best ways to build sexual attraction if you are both comfortable with your bodies. I´ve been to one swimming date before and let me tell you, no hot water needed. It got hot pretty quickly. Go get him girl!

[Asker]

but I don't want to end up in sex with him after swimming, it's too early.. is that possible?

[Tuomaaash]

Yes don´t worry. He´ll just see what´s coming later if he sticks with you. You don´t need to worry. Just relax and enjoy your date. It´ll be fun I promise!

[Paris13]

Great idea!
Being the "First date" was a Winner, And you both got Past with a Wet One, hun, Going swimming, Anything of this Nature, Will show you Enjoy doing things Together as a potential Two birds of a Feather.
Good Luck and Welcome! xx

[Paris13]

Thanks, dear!! xxoo

[Kakaile]

Christmas market i think would be best for a 2nd date

[Chaz269]

A walk around the market will be better for getting better acquainted, which is important early on. Unless you've long been friends, then it's time to share fun activities, like swimming! I consider cooking together at home more like 3rd date or later stuff, because that can become very intimate. I've never had a cookover that didn't result in a sleepover.

[scooogy]

Well, I planned on going swimming with me best female friend, because back then I found her sexy and finally wanted to see her in a sexy bathing suit. I think this is what every guy might see in going swimming.

[Asker]

ok, so in short it is too much

[scooogy]

yeah, it might send the wrong signals.

[Asker]

I like them, we already kissed.. but yeah, I don't want to have sex with him too soon, without committing anything..

[genericname85]

sure why not xD if you don´t mind him judging your almost naked body on the second date already :D

[Asker]

Probably that's a no..

[genericname85]

it´s a yes. it´s just that usually girls wouldn´t do that cause they are insecure.

[Asker]

But I don't want to end up in sex.. is that possible?

[genericname85]

I mean just cause you went swimming doesn't mean you have sex xD it's not like Netflix and chill.

[Bailss]

If you've already kissed passionately on the first date... i don't see how swimming could be considered "too much for the second". Unless you plan on skinny dipping, you don't have much to worry about there...

[mac2017]

Yeah you'll get an idea of the size of his man hood, see if he's a keeper

[htoumatic]

Swimming is the best dateplace. Al my friends go their relationships from the swimming pool. Seriously

[knockout2708]

Probably yes its a good idea having a second date in a swimming pool and just be with the guy you both will enjoy it

[Cannuk22]

Never done that but I’d love it. Get to see the girl in a bikini. What’s not to like

[DinaM]

Swimming sounds like a great idea to me!

[sidvt]

Depends on how desparate u both 4

[Asker]

what do you mean? lol

[sidvt]

U know what I mean thts why u did lol

[Asker]

Swimming in the pool = having sex in the pool, is that what you mean

[Asker]

dude, just a kind suggestion, don't assume everybody the same dirty as you

[Paris13]

Nah, that is called "Skinny dipping," dude. x

[sidvt]

Who said sex here I said curiosity to know m swim together I am not dirty u r dirty in judging me

[sidvt]

Paris13 thanks for en lighting me

[moonpie89]

Sounds like a fine idea

[innerthighlicker]

Skinny dipping

[baby181036]

Ask him, whichever he prefers

[SarahsSummer]

Swimming where?

[Anonymous]

How much makeup do you wear.

[Rick912]

Why would it be?

[Asker]

be what, good or bad lol

Is it good or bad?

[Rick912]

There is nothing wrong to go swimming on a second date. It is good. Go for it.

[amyjacks]

Good idea

[casherida]

Good idea

[innerthighlicker]

Yes for sure

[innerthighlicker]

Good wear something sexy

[Anonymous]

no, sorry

[Opinion Owner]

no, its not, sorry