I'd message her as soon as I figured out what I wanna say. Sometimes I can't think of anything good to text them so I kinda just keep it to the side of my mind until I just send something a few hours later.
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Bro-Code #1376: Thou shall not message right away. Regardless of rating.
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I wouldn't message, i am cool, if she wants she will talk then. Making them wait, will keep the things mysterious. And also, i am not the one making the first step ;)
Honestly i assume she's a bot or did what i did and consistently swipe right to see whos into you lol
It doesn't matter because she'll never message me back
I wouldn't message her tbh nerves would get to me xD
I'd message her but normally I get no response. They are usually already taken or never respond.
Wouldn't message at all. I would assume she was some kind of bot
First of all, I'm not matching with no straight fire 10/10's but if I did, I'd message her straight away. There is a way to message someone without sounding too keen. When you message someone has little to do about it.
I would check her profile to see if it looks weird, and then probably report her as a Russian scam.
You never want to come off as desperate but if I feel like there's a potential connection right away I'd go for it life's too short not to take chances.
I'd think "hmm cool" and not message her like I do with everyone else, lol.
I would assume she is lying and move on to the next one that's hopefully a real person.
Immediately. Why not? That's what you're there for, right?
massage her right away. and pray she's still available
I'd message right away. Chances are if I she's a 10 other guys may also have matched.
I would message her if i matched because i liked her.
It really depands on how high am I at the moment, how bored, and as of late I'm not writing first to anyone.. I'm tired of all y'all always waiting for us to write first, and frankly I think I can do better..
If she's that hot waiting might not do much probably has 10 other guys messaging her
What's the point in "making her wait"? Have you found this strategy to benefit you when matching with other 10/10's? I would send a dick pic to break the ice.
Message her away she may find someone else in mean time
No reason not to message straight away, just don't seem desperate
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