Okay so this may sound pathetic but I'm 23 years old, have never had a girlfriend, never been on a date, never had my first kiss, and never had sex. Some of the time I have wanted or preferred the single life, but for the most part I have not. I feel as though I have tried almost everything.
I've added around 20 girls on Facebook who I found attractive, 0 of them accepted the friend request. Most of them marked me as spam so I can never add them again (not that I was planning to). I've messaged over 40 girls on OkCupid, and only 2 of them replied back. But even they randomly stopped replying after a few short messages. I've had Tinder for over a year and have only matched with like 10 girls but they either don't message first, or they don't reply when I message them. I've also tried Kik, Happn, and a few online dating sites and have gotten ignored on them as well.
Above is the same photo I use for Facebook and all the other apps. They say girls don't care much about a guy's looks, and I see heaps of ugly guys with girlfriends. So what is it about me that's so unappealing that girls won't even have a conversation with me to see if they like my personality? It might be worth mentioning that I study Maths at uni so you could say I have higher than average intelligence. So what is it?
Also, I prefer to meet and talk with a girl online first rather than in person as it's much less nerve-racking and I can have more time to think of what to say. So any advice?
Thanks for your reply.
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Take note of the advice from the pink ''Go to a coffee shop and pay for her drink''
Notice how she is quick to mention paying. She is saying that you need to pay a girl to receive attention... terrible advice...
In the picture you posted, your expression is of a low vibration but it is a viscous cycle since that's probably how you feel.
Your best bet is to ignore all dating advice from girls in general because they do not know what they are talking about. Go and talk to some of the guys that are good with women to get advice. Otherwise you will end up buying strangers drinks and wasting time and money.
The better you feel about yourself and your life, the more likely you are to attract others to you, and your life. That is the key. Spamming dating sites won't matter if you don't feel good.2