Being happy and confident without him, looking and feeling good! I know this from personal experience. Its happened to me twice in the past few years. My most recent ex-bf came right out and told me that seeing me doing so great made him question why he let me go. And he was jealous because he assumed it was another guy who brought out the best in me. I've been told before but never really believed it when guys said that confidence is the most attractive thing in a woman. Now I'm a believer!
Most Helpful Opinions
Best way is to love yourself more and be the best version of yourself. Let his jaw drop on the floor the next time he sees you.
Go find a new guy and have a good time! Especially where the dumper is!
Live your life without them. Let's be realistic, if you waste any effort trying to get revenge, all you are going to do is get more uptight. If you are secure and happy without them, that is all the revenge you need!
Diet, workout, get a make over so you look amazing, then all you have to do is make sure you bump into him and when he sees you just look back as if to say "yeah I know" and walk off
What Girls & Guys Said
Opinion
28Opinion
Through self-love, confidence and happiness
Be happy. Exes expect you to be sad and wanting them back. Showing to everyone that you are happy being single and confident will surprise your ex.
Be happy and live a good life. As cliche and shitty as it sounds there's really no better revenge than getting by without them just fine.
Be successful. Find someone better and be happy. I know it's kinda messed up to say but no one wants to see their ex doing better then they are, ya know?
Forgive and forget them.. Best revenge ever.. If they meant to hurt you, and the best gift of humanity if they didn't mean to hurt you.. Win win situ...
You're 30-35 and you're asking this? I suggest growing up
Best way is to genuinely forget about them and be happy
The best thing is to move on, they left you and why let them have a hold on you any longer. Move on.
Make them have to watch you having a full, happy, exciti
If it's a girl trying to make a guy jealous.
Get hotter/more fit and get a sexier style of clothing after he leaves.Get with someone hotter.
Upgrade. Show them that them dumping u was the best thing of ur life
"accidentally" sending her the video of you fucking your hot friend she was always jealous of.
Why are you wasting your time with the past? How about impressing your next new lover
They won't regret leaving you, they left for a reason
don't you think all u'd be doing is wasting your own time and effort if you did that?
You trying to intentionally make him feel bad about it says more about you than him, and it's probably the reason he left you in the first place.
The best revenge is happiness.
You ignore them and move on.
By having a good life.
Learn more
We're glad to see you liked this post.
You can also add your opinion below!
Most Helpful Opinions