Are there any women here that used to be again FLR and then changed their mind and now enjoy it?

[SabineTheHague]

I know that I used to be against it. Because I didn't understand it. I think about the old phrase "don't knock it until you try it"

I won't go into detail about how I learned to love and embrace my feminine power but of all the posts concerning female led relationships about 80% of the women are either dead set against it or neutral at best.


I'm here to tell you ladies to at least try it once. Even if you have a good man get yourself a submissive guy friend. You won't regret it!!!

[handyman129]

I too agree that many men are submissive at heart. They were built to provide and serve and protect. It's in a man's make up to be strong so he can make his woman happy. This occurs in most situations. Society and cities have changed this somewhat but men deep down still know that they are better to serve the lady and provide her all the happiness and pleasure she wants

[paulbanyan]

I've had relationships all three ways, me leading, her leading, and just kinda equal power. Flr definetly has its appeals and would definitely go for it again

[SabineTheHague]

^^^ a real man that protecting a fragile ego. :)

[paulbanyan]

What do you mean? I don't understand

[SabineTheHague]

I meant that at least you're man enough to admit (and seem to be comfortable with your own sexuality) what most guys deny. Most guys are constantly beating their chest and claiming to have the biggest penis.

[Anonymous]

I'll be honest the idea has intrigued me, but I don't think I'd want to be the dominant one all the time. I would prefer him to primarily be the dominant one, but every once in a while it'd be fun to switch roles.

[SabineTheHague]

it's a play it by ear relationship.

Besides, most FLRs are only about 60/40 anyway. Most women don't want to raise a man-child.
Nor do most women today want to stay at home and make pies while waiting to bring the husband his newspaper and slippers...

[Opinion Owner]

I would actually be pretty content with the latter situation, but it's probably never going to happen.

[SabineTheHague]

I've seen way too many women (and men, but by far a majority of women) spend 10-20+ years of their lives "depending" on a man only to one day wake up finding that her dear ole husband has been cheating on her.. So either she sticks it out with that guy or decide to go on her own late in life. Personally, I'm not going to do such a thing!

[Opinion Owner]

Wow, really? I don't understand why a husband would cheat in a situation like that.

[dandiecandie]

What is FLR? And girl all guys are submissive. You just need to find their edge and hold on to it until they fall on the floor and thats when tpu put on the chains and bring out the whip wshhhhuuu. Jokes lol

[SARAHPANDA]

I prefer girls but I like being a good submissive from time to time. I'm a switch so it is fun dominating a guy.

[SusanColleen]

I took charge several years into our marriage. My husband wasn’t the best decision maker anyway. I make more income. I make strong decisions. The last straw was his attraction to my bare feet, a sure sign of a submissive man. Sooooo I gave him what he needed and deserved: structure, leadership, discipline!

I decided he needed spankings and paddling, for no particular reason, to show that his wife is in charge. Not a sexy spanking, rather a butt reddening paddling that had him near tears

Since he likes stinky feet I figured he probably likes panties, so I bought him pink panties, and threw away his own underwear

He services me when I want it. He must however service himself, under my supervision, and finish on my feet, then lick it off

I’ve also had “dates” with several other younger men in the last year, came straight home, told Todd every detail of the guys body, what we did, and he even begged to “clean me up” which was a delight!

[FootfetishistBoy]

I wanna try it. But I really have to trust her first. Cause lately I kinda have diffult time trusting people for obvious reasons. But when I find the right one I will hopefully submit to her. A woman that I can trust not to betray me or manipulate me.

[Loving_Husband]

I absolutely love that my wife is the head of marriage and the head of our house. I love being in a Female Led marriage and love submitting to her.

[AssSomelier]

Women who have weak partners are usually miserable. Usually.

[SabineTheHague]

I'm not talking about the take-anything-he-can-get kind of guy.
I'm talking about the guy that in genuinely concerned with a woman 'getting hers' too!

Women who have "strong, arrogant, self-centered alpha male" types are usually eve more miserable... Usually.

[AssSomelier]

Through all the variations, the female being the leader in a relationship is a bad long-term solution for the female.

[AssSomelier]

Generally speaking

[SabineTheHague]

That paradigm is changing fast! males aren't the "center" of the family any more. That level of female dependence on men has lessened drastically and the fact that women "need" men less and less changes that whole calculus.

[AssSomelier]

That doesn't change the fact that women are less happy in the new higher positions :)

[SabineTheHague]

Where do you get your "facts"

Next thing you'll be saying is that "women can't drive" or "women won't make good doctors or politicians because they can't handle the pressure"

Dude, I think your "facts" are outdated.

[Blake0048]

Women literally can't drive as well as men. They've proven they lack spatial intelligence. Fact.

[Blake0048]

Eeew. Wtf. What did I just read this has to be a troll post.

[SabineTheHague]

why would you respond to a "troll post"?

[SabineTheHague]

oh and btw: you're only 24 and kinda cute.

that's just the way I like my men

I bet that I make way more money than you. And would guess that it wouldn't be beneath you to be the stay at home partner and play video games all day.

that's fine. I'll pay the bills to keep a roof over out head but I expect diner on the table when I get home from a long day at work.

[Blake0048]

#1I probably make more than you #2 I don't think anyone needs to stay at home she works pary time I work full time #3 i dont play video games of thats what you're looking for it sounds like you're a pedophile and I suggest finding a boyfriend who's 14 try a highschool parking lot #4 I don't like bossy women huge turn off so your list of demands and ideas wouldn't fly either #5 Im not going to be in a relationship if blowjobs aren't given so thats also obviously an issue.

[SabineTheHague]

Yeah, pedophilia ends at 24..
You're so defensive. A big sign of insecurity.

*pats you on your head*

[Blake0048]

No you got the response you asked for what the hell else would you expect and don't touch my head.

[Batuthekhan]

We are in flr