If a guy cums in you does it mean they dont respect you?

[Anonymous]

[Lily_Pi]

That all depends on what you two have spoke about before the act. If you told them not to chm inside of you and he did it anyhow that's completely wrong, there is even debate about if this would be considered rape, as in you consented to sex but not to to be came inside. Once they do that they have broken the consent. However that's a whole other topic all together. But if you told him not to and he chosenly did it dispite what you asked then he definitely doesn't respect you. If you didn't talk about it and didn't object to it in any way than he simply didn't know it was an issue or that you didn't want it. Communication is key. Cumming inside is natural and I wouldn't call it disrespectful unless I specifically told them not to. So that's the real question here. Did they do it without your consent?

[MlleCake]

If neither of you has been STD tested, and he never even mentioned a condom, he doesn't respect himself, let alone not respecting you.

Ideally, you will always use condoms if either or both of you are not monogamous. Once you become monogamous, or agree to be, each of you gets STD tests done. Then use condoms for 3 more months if both of you are disease free, re-test and THEN stop using condoms if you want to.

[Anonymous]

Whaaaatttt? Considering the point of intercourse is for creating life, as it has always been, I would say it is respectful unless you asked him not to.

[BigGuy8]

Wow. Where to begin? You do know when you want to have a baby, you kinda need to cum in the woman, right? And why would you want to have kids with someone you don't respect? I'd say it's more like if he cums on your face and slaps you across the face with his dick, that is more disrespectful.

[Tuned]

Damn this is actually one of the dumbest questions i’ve seen in a while

[mrdump1]

Not always unless it a hooker or one night stand and even then that may not be the case. As a man I can speak on behalf of all males. A male gets so aroused his heart is beating so fast. The road to the climax is so intense he can not stop. If he is forced to he may leave all mad not understanding his biology is in control. The orgasm is so intense that he can't stop and cums in you. His biology is forcing him to do so. It has nothing to do with respect. I can imagine how that must feel as I have always masturbated to pleasure myself since females don't seem to have sex with my attractive self. So he is working hard because the harder he works the better he feels and that gets you aroused. Honesty if he only cares about satisfying himself. He keeps you aroused so you come back for more sex. That is breaking it down. If you are in a real relationship, then of course he respects you as a person. And you should always use protection either way.

[sammy1537]

If you communicated that to him prior and he didn't listen, give him the benefit of the doubt. If it happens the second time, drop his ass!

[redreddyred]

Apparently all men in history don’t respect women. This is the most ridiculous question I have ever heard.

[WalterRadio]

You are saying your father doesn't respect your mother?

[radrio]

It is only disrespect if you explicitly told them NOT to cum
inside you beforehand.

[MichaelN1991]

I'd do it with a condom. Unless we were serious and we talked about it before, I think it's weird that a guy ejaculates in a girl. I would only ejaculate in a girl that I was serious about marrying.

[snebuer]

If he has not been told it is okay then yeah, does not respect you

[Schnitzel]

If you asked him not to then yeah, he doesn't respect you.

[ceev31]

Not at all! Most guys just find it to be a major turn on. In my opinion, it would be a huge sign of trust and if anything respect

[luisma]

I don't see how you'd come to that conclusion. But from my point of view id only cum in a woman if i did respect her

[forbiddenphantom]

No, it just means he has no consideration of how you may feel though.

[Intraluminal]

You're absolutely right! That's what facials are for.

[WhoDatGuy]

If you said not to then how could you ever trust them?

[RandomGuitarGuy]

It means, that he can't control himself. Either the sex is too good or he's a moron

[SweetHomicidalQueen]

I don’t think so. I think it’s an intimate thing.

[Toronto92]

just means your a cum dumpster

[NotAnAverageGuy]

That's how babies happen. Did nobody tell you?

[yourdarksecretx]

Without ur permission yeah ceruainly

[Anonymous]

If they do it without asking first, yes.

[violentwalker]

U don't like cumming in u?

[Opinion Owner]

I like when he asks if I'm okay with it first.

[sammy1537]

Do you mean to say that it is man's responsibility to ask about all parameters of the intercourse? Surely, you mean BOTH partners need to communicate to each other what they consider inappropriate.

[Opinion Owner]

That's what I meant. If I want him to ask before he does it, I'm obviously trying to keep communication.

[sammy1537]

Or you could just say before what you prefer.

[Gedaria]

yes they should use a condom...

[Blake0048]

No just means he's a fool

[CrazyyChick]

lol wth no

[vamoyou]

Maybe he loves u and want to have a baby from you

[reptocarl]

Not at all

[Anonymous]

No it doesn't mean that

[Anonymous]

Yes, especially down her f*cking throat.

[Opinion Owner]

And my favorite of course - Up her nostrils.

[CT_CD]

Yep...

[young718]

No it doesn't