Most Helpful Guy
The majority of them won't, but that's not exclusive to high school. That's just how it is. There are ways to avoid it, however:
- Raise your standards. Don't let anyone convince you that you're standards are "too high". There are about 3.8 billion males on earth, and all you need to do is find ONE suitable partner. You're standards are never "too high", as long as you're willing to wait long enough.
- Make your boundaries clear from the start. If he doesn't agree with them, he's free to leave. The sooner you tell him, the less time you waste, and the faster you filter out guys you aren't compatible with.
- Don't be naive. Just because he has stuck around for 3 months, doesn't mean he's "the one". Believe it or not, there are guys persistent (or desperate) enough to stick it out for a long ass time, just for one night of ecstasy.
Most Helpful Girl
My first boyfriend & I made a pact in high school to "preserve our virginities" until we got married. We resisted penetration during the pressures of 2 proms (junior & senior), homecomings, etc. We finally "caved in" in college.