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I've had a boyfriend for a couple of months but my ex instantly showed up and I couldn’t resist him. There are different things I like about each of two so I dont want to break up with either of them. Do you think it is possible for me to have two relationships?
As in Polygamy? I'd say ask them if they'd be interested in that dynamic. Don't try to go about this with deception, because you'll just end up shooting yourself in the foot. I would give them the opportunity to decide if they like you enough to consider sharing you, and if they do, you're golden. Just be sure you understand what the kind of relationship you're suggesting, actually entails. It is not easy to divide your attention between two people without one feeling neglected. So be upfront about what you want, and why, and DO NOT LIE. Lastly, know how to answer their questions, because they will have questions.
Honestly from what I've seen it's more difficult to juggle polygamous relationships than polyandrous.
Of course, the premise is that you're being honest with both of them. Also with some guys who are willing to be in polyandrous relationships willing to see both of them leave you for each other...
acording to me no in my eyes you can only love one person in your life and if you love them you wouldn't go behind there back love is a presious thing to me and i dont cheat its discusting i dont sleep about you can't love 2 people at the same time you can only have one choose ure one love from them both its gotta be done dont go making yourself look bad love one forever you can't love 2 people
People do this all the time, but usually, it comes down to a favorite and it's a tricky situation. Do they know about each other and is that OK? If it is, then I suppose it's fine. But if you're keeping this a secret from each of them, sounds pretty dicey and could lead to you losing BOTH of them.
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u The question is not just whether you are okay with dating both at the same time. The question is whether they know about it and agree. My guess is that Bob does not want to have you in bed on Saturday night when you were playing hide-the-sausage with Tom on Friday night.
you can, but it will not end well.
just reverse the rolls and how would you feel if the guy you were in a relationship with just rolled off of 1 girl and came over to be with you and you had no clue for a long time.
Maybe it wouldn't bother you, maybe it would.
If you haven't told them about each other then it is wrong.
If they both know about each other and are fine with sharing you then it is fine, but don't be surprised when 1 or both end up doing the same thing to you and then you won't have either one of them.
For your new boyfriend this is awful. I do not see how he could agree to it, and cheating is a real danger to your relationship.
The ex is probably ok, as it feels like a bonus to him, some extra sex in extension time. Also, it must make him feel bushy-tailed that you cannot resist him.
So it's not ok for all, I'm sure
That depends. Are you open and honest with both of them that you are dating 2 men? If so and they are both fine with it then carry on. If not, then no. It could get messy and someone is going to end up hurt if you're doing this in secret and you could end up losing them both.
Your ex is an ex for a reason. You have to explain to your ex that he is still your ex and that you're seeing someone else to make sure that he is ok with it before fucking him. The conversation will go easier with your panties off for him to be more agreeable dispite what he is agreeing too.
Anything is possible, as long as both guys are okay with it. I don't think I could do it because one person is often enough to be in a relationship with.
There is always the jealousy issue too, whether you are spending more time with one than the other, etc.
It just becomes too much of a clusterfluff to me.
Theoretically it's possible to have two or even more relationships. Some peoole have. Monogamy has its benefices and downsides, polygamy has other benefices and downsides. So some compromise is always necessary. I think it's just important to stay honest to your partners and not to cheat them. Maybe they could accept a polyandric triangle relationship, but probably they can't. Especially if they're conservative.
If you're a playgirl, sure
There's nothing "wrong" with it, per se. The only thing that would be wrong with it, is if you're hiding it from each of them. They have a right to decide if they then want to keep seeing you. But you need to tell them. Otherwise, it's what's known as, cheating
If you are riding two boats you will eventually sink so bad, there is nothing like two relationship at one time, you are just into infatuation or something, love is something else that counts loyalty.
Absolutely. Don't let the 'Moral Police' shame you, dear. I'm sure you're not planning on doing this forever; you're just trying to sort it all out.
There is no way that's going to go well.
Without any other context, I advise ditching the ex. He already had his chance, and that ended before for a reason.
When you say "you couldn't resist him" what you really mean is that you are an undisciplined slave to passion. You need to dump both of them and find a man who can teach you obedience.
No you'll end up losing then both if you don't make a choice but tbh you'll probably lose then both anyways once they realize you were dating them both at the same time so lose lose situation I guess
For you no. For guys yes, eventually your emotions aren't going to allow you to see both of them w/o being overly annoying to one. Guys can do this as our relationship goals have less emotional attraction.
It is possible to have way more than just two.
It is just not a good idea.
Exes are exes for a reason, but honestly you should just not be with anyone since you're still not over your ex and you'll be emotionally torturing this new guy
relationships? more like you are cheating. did you know that you're actively cheating? that's so wrong.
Everything is possible... but basically you are cheating with yourself... have a clear decision and make up your mind and select any one of them..
There is a snowflakes chance they would be ok with it if you told them. I would say it is immoral if you don't tell them.
just two gosh so borinh some people i know planned to make me a child bearer and then fuck around. i am not a child bearer lol excuse him
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