I can speak for many males saying this is more than perfectly okay, it even helps us as you give us a push in the right direction. Perhaps we wouldn't have thought about you actually liking us, too, or, shy guys may have not even tried it, expecting to not even get a reply. This is not just okay, it's a big help for us! :)
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Nowadays, it doesn't matter who texts first. If you text first, it just shows that you are interested it him and not just a tease. If he was to message you first, you would know he's interested in you. I say you should send it!
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It is perfectly fine and yes its a nice change of pace.
I think its ok.
We guys would love that.
Please spread the word lolI don't mind at all. The stereotype of men texting first should be updated. If you want to talk to someone, just do it. Don't wait around :)
Of course like. Don't understand why a guy has to move first. If you like him or attracted to him then text him
Of course it's ok. It's necessary! It shows interest. It can't be one sided or he'll assume you're NOT interested.
It's a nice change when girls put a hint of initiation. It makes guys feel appreciate that where not the only one's putting in effort
I get really upset and lose my shit if a girl texts me first. I text her back all sorts of emojis that would suggest things like "oh, hello" and "I acknowledge you but this isn't a heart, it's a smiley face, bitch."
It's fine as long as it's not like 90% her texting first and me initiating 10% of the time
Finally someone, I wish more girls would do that.
It is indeed perfectly okay.
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