What do guys feel when a girl texts them first?

[Anonymous]

If a girl texts a guy first, does that make her to seem clingy/needy? Because all of my friends has told me that a girl should never text first, but I really like this guy and it feels a bit childish to just wait around for him.

How will he ever know that I like him if I never initiate?

[Anonymous]

Well, guess I'll die alone because I will NOT pursue a man.. EVER. He's a man? Can he Not handle the hard work? and needs a lady to do the hard work for him? ? ? Ew. That's disgusting to me. I can handle the work very easily but I don't want a man that wants that from me.. Not my type at all. I like men to be men, sorry.. NOT SORRY!

[cjennaa]

I can see where you're coming from, I appreciate the chase, I mean who doesn't like feeling wanted:) but I feel more on a sense of the old soul type of dudes who take time courting a girl. <3 if that makes sense lol

[Chanel1981]

I don't see a problem with texting first so long as you don't text a million times in a row! I agree, it's going to let him know you're interested :)

[kikisand]

Do it. It shows you have confidence and assertiveness. Some guys like that. Besides, you'll never know if he likes you if you don't ask.

[JSmuve]

All of your friends are idiots.
If I always have to text first then I begin to wonder if she's at all interested in me. If she texts first then I know she was thinking about me, which is always a positive thing.

[Being_a_good_Indian]

It depends on your guy and his nature, personality and liking. I really don't understand that in today's 21 St century why still some girls think that the girl should not take initiative.

[Wulfric]

I really don't know how it feels like to recive a text from a girl first but I would definitely want to experience it, and I think you should totally text don't waste your time you might regret it.

[justlikemike]

we need to know your in to us too send the text already

[DLTN1992]

If the girl doesn't text first, how the fuck can the guy know? If you don't text first and you like him, it's really your loss. And that's stupidity.

[BBLDjj]

I like when she texts first, makes me feel like she's really into me

[KittyBox]

It really doesn't matter who texts first if you're both passionate, your friends are misinformed.

[Justinaveragedude]

When women initiate, it is a wonderful enjoyable feeling. We like it, but it happens rarely.

[Fuentes]

Cool she's actually thinkiing of me i'd feel pretty special

[Reject]

The whole can't initiate contact first thing is bullshit, if you're into him just hit him up, your just wasting time waiting.

[shashank0925]

still it's like a dream for many boys.. as mostly girls have a fantasy that guy should text her first 😅😅

[OMNIQUAKE]

text him, no need to wait.

[lazermazer]

Do what you feel like

[king34]

I think she wants the D

[Nahid1234]

It is good and not clingy.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

It's a nice ego boost for me. 😛

[loveout]

happiness.

[Anonymous]

I'd question my sanity, quite literally

[Anonymous]

Nope I like if she texts first

[Danny_dan92]

"Ohhhh yess" 😉😊

[Danny_dan92]

#SheLikesMe

[TheSpartan]

I feel desired.

[georgecristian47]

So good

[georgecristian47]

that feels so fucking good