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Haha I had the same question about guys about a second ago... I guess both our questions are answered?! Haha. I've decided to stop initiating after a while, to give the guy a chance to message me first. Or else I'll send a Facebook message while he's offline, which will prompt him to write me back.0
If I was in that situation yes, after a while I would definitely start conversations, but I wouldn't want it to start going the other way and always have to start it! you know?0
OMG I know the feeling!
I've had this happen before. They didn't have a problem with me, and they were interested in me for sure. But they NEVER started a conversation.
It made it feel as though they preferred NOT to talk to me, but would answer if I started anyway.1
I usually won't initiate more than a few times in a row before I let it go. If she's really into me she'll initiate. If it's bothering me that much ill tease her about it and it usually fixes it0
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I think it would be good to have a back and forth kinda thing, it should be balanced and then you know both people are interested.0
agh.. depends on the girl. in my case, even if I really like a guy I tend to be lazy enough to wait for him to text me, but if I want to talk to him and he hasn't contacted me then I will do it. most girls are this way.1
I generally start texting first eventually. Unless I'm not interested.0
If I like a guy I usually respond back to him right away.. sometimes I will text first but not all the time0
uhmm guys first and then us :)0
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well it really does depend if the girl is shy or not. it might feel awkward for a girl to text first if she is like that. also if the girl isn't sure if you like her then she might text you if she gets a chance maybe like asking something important for school or work. but if the girl isn't shy I don't see why she wouldn't text you. of course if she is very busy that is something different: she might not wanna get too close and have to deny possible dates later on. you should also know that girls are more emotional than boys and think about other peoples feelings. she might think you think it is weird that she messaged first or something like you are too busy or again maybe not interested.