If a girl text first but she says she isn't open for a relationship, honestly she freaked me out and lost my trust until i became not interested. I acted like a jerk to her and we stopped texting. Yes the same girl i asked about weeks ago. Did i do the right thing by moving on? Was she looking for more than friendship but because she texted first she didn't want to look thirsty?
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She is the one that gives mixed signals
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People who are judging me because i said: acted like a jerk, here i meant that i was dry with her, not interested... I'm not going to satisfy her attention seeking. when she give mixed signs
Maybe she honestly wasn't open to a relationship but something about you made her text you. Maybe she does want more than friendship with you but she's been so set on not going for a relationship that she's honestly confused on what to do. That's why there are probably so many mixed signals coming from her. Like you make her question her resolve not to have a relationship right now.
Yeah sure. But I think she must’ve freaked out when you said that you wanted something serious. Maybe it was the way your phrased your sentence or maybe she was just shy to make a move and you misinterpreted it and acted like a jerk? Your words not mine. Im not blaming anyone here. But it happened, you cannot go back to the past and change it. Maybe she just wanted friendship and nothing more. It can be anything. Loads of possibilities. I say, just leave it at that. Move on
Wait, I just saw the update. Anyway, I wasn’t judging him. He said he acted like a jerk when she texted him, I thought he was being rude, I didn’t know he was being dry, if the OP wants, he can clear it up with me, you don’t need to argue for him
Okay so because you guys are acting retarded, sorry not politically correct I know, you clearly are interested in each other so quit the games and just be honest. I'm so tired of this posturing.
I don't understand why people initiate with people and then when people reciprocate they freak out act weird and make the other person seem like some type of criminal for responding it in the way they made obvious any logical person would respond.
Maybe she's attention-seeking. Maybe she needs validation and that somebody else likes her cuz she may be bored and her current relationship. And then they just picked up on somebody who actually likes them and then they get themselves all twisted and turned upside down because they start things that they don't know how to finish.
There isn’t much context, but if she only wanted friendship and you wanted something more than that, then yes, it was good to move on. It wouldn’t have gotten further than that.
Outside of that, I have a female co-worker who would usually text me first more than 90% of time, and also a female friend who does the same, so yeah maybe it is just for friendship
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