Would you date a girl with no job?

Would you date a girl with no job?
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  • Absolutely not
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  • I can understand certain circumstances.

    I only ask that she isn't a slug. Not employed? Ok. Just make sure that the kids have full lunch boxes and that she picks them up at the school bus stop.

    If she isn't working, I don't think that's asking too much.

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Most Helpful Girl

  • I would tell a guy to fuck off if he judged me based on my unemployment! I have been dating guys when I didn't have a job and I paid for meals and drinks!

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What Guys Said 79

  • Maybe... what if she is a student?

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    • are you planning on dating an 18 year-old?

    • Women can be students in their 30s or even older.

      When I was a young adult, I did sometimes date girls without jobs, but they were students.

  • I wouldn't date a girl with no job I don't want to have to take care of her. I work hard for my money and I feel she should do the same. The only way I would is if she earned her keep like cooking cleaning and running errands while in at work. But I'd have to trust her a lot

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  • I am currently dating a girl without a job but only because she just graduated from Occupation Therapy school and is about to take her test to be out in the field. She recently graduated from Graduate School. Her potential income after she takes the test is around 60k to 90k.

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  • Girls aren't expected to be a financial provider, so yes. It's a good thing to have but it's not necessarily a deal-breaker if yiu don't

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  • Yeah, I would probably date her... But she better not back demands on how much I spend on her for food, or that I don't buy her expensive stuff... She gets what she gets... I don't spoil women that don't want to contribute, I spoil them because I don't have drag them along financially.

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  • Depends on why she doesn't have one. If she chose it to pursue other paths or help her family or something like that I'd be fine with it. If she doesn't have one because she's simply too lazy to do anything I'd definitely stay away from her

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  • I'll say maybe because she should have 'willingness' for a relationship. I'll help her out if she is going through tough situations. But that's also where you are most vulnerable. Because I was in this situation but when she felt better, she left me for someone else. Really felt shit and used up fool. But that's me personally

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  • The surveys have been done and the data is clear: for men, the socioeconomic status of a woman makes little to no difference to how sexually attractive she is to him.

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  • If there is a goal in mind that she's working at, trying to find work, studying, etc wouldn't bother me. Buy if she sits at home every day looking at YouTube videos , complaining she's bored... Sorry, um can't help you

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  • Why doesn't ahe have a job? Do I have a job? Where are we living? What's she like? Is she condescending and lazy? In which case.. no... does she want to work? Is she trying? I mean... I don't actually really care but.. I just want the whole story xD

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  • It 100% depends on the reason why they don’t have a job.

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  • I suppose I would. Not everyone can or wants to work. But I would assume if she's currently single, she's probably got a job right now to pay her bills.

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  • Yeah. I don't have one myself. But even if I did that wouldn't be a problem for me. As long as I didn't have to pay for EVERYTHING. And it wouldn't be my business where she had money from.

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  • Does it really matters?
    I mean, it have nothing to do with love, havn't it?

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  • Depends. Most of the time, I'd say she shouldn't have time for dating and if she does, her motives are clear.

    .. that is unless she inherited a trust fund and doesn't need to work

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  • Its okay to be in between things. As long as she had money while in between I wouldn't have a problem with it.

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  • As I said in the other thread, that would depend on whether it was a temporary situation or a lifestyle.

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  • I would if she were a student. But otherwise I don't think I would. I feel like by a certain age, people need to get their shit in order.

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  • That’s a rather broad question and the answer will be different depending on that girls circumstances. If she’s 19 going to college on a scholarship and grants to help pay her living expenses, is focusing on her studies, involvement in a campus organization and activities, then that’s a lot different then the girl who’s 19 who jobless because they just want to party, screw around and have fun, and who’s been through three or four different jobs in the last year. It all depends on the person and what their priorities are. It’s all but certain the party kinda girl is going to expect a guy to pay for things and help fund her lifestyle.

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  • It depends if she's trying to get one. I mean if she stays at home without foing anything to get a job I guess not but if she's trying to get one I'll probably date her yes

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What Girls Said 10

  • Depends on why she doesn't. If its just laziness and she doesn't wanna do anything with her life, then yeaahhh nope. If she wants to be a stay at home mother or she's in school or she has been helping out family or whatever other legit reason then yea id be fine with it

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  • For now yes, since I’m a jobless student myself. Later on though, when I want to start a family, I’d want someone who can support themselves financially.

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  • I'm a girl, and I'm not lesbian, so I would say that I wouldn't want anyone to date me while I was jobless. Building a solid foundation to start a relationship is a first!

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  • Depends on the situation. I mean honestly I wouldn’t date if I had no job. I like to splurge on my honey and surprise them. It’s just how I am

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  • Men don't care if you have a job, it also doesn't mean he's gonna care for you. He just doesn't for your ambitions.

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  • I don't have a job, but i am looking for part time work since i'm in University.

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  • Depends on the reasoning behind the lack of work, and it really just depends on how much u care for her

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  • If i work you need to work too. Im not going to pay for everything

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  • I would not date a guy without a job

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  • The girl in the picture struggling.. poor thing

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