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That’s a rather broad question and the answer will be different depending on that girls circumstances. If she’s 19 going to college on a scholarship and grants to help pay her living expenses, is focusing on her studies, involvement in a campus organization and activities, then that’s a lot different then the girl who’s 19 who jobless because they just want to party, screw around and have fun, and who’s been through three or four different jobs in the last year. It all depends on the person and what their priorities are. It’s all but certain the party kinda girl is going to expect a guy to pay for things and help fund her lifestyle.
I can understand certain circumstances.
I only ask that she isn't a slug. Not employed? Ok. Just make sure that the kids have full lunch boxes and that she picks them up at the school bus stop.
If she isn't working, I don't think that's asking too much.
Depends on why she doesn't. If its just laziness and she doesn't wanna do anything with her life, then yeaahhh nope. If she wants to be a stay at home mother or she's in school or she has been helping out family or whatever other legit reason then yea id be fine with it
I would tell a guy to fuck off if he judged me based on my unemployment! I have been dating guys when I didn't have a job and I paid for meals and drinks!
Fair enough! Are you a student?
For now yes, since I’m a jobless student myself. Later on though, when I want to start a family, I’d want someone who can support themselves financially.
Depends on the situation. I mean honestly I wouldn’t date if I had no job. I like to splurge on my honey and surprise them. It’s just how I am
Men don't care if you have a job, it also doesn't mean he's gonna care for you. He just doesn't for your ambitions.
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I am currently dating a girl without a job but only because she just graduated from Occupation Therapy school and is about to take her test to be out in the field. She recently graduated from Graduate School. Her potential income after she takes the test is around 60k to 90k.
Maybe... what if she is a student?
are you planning on dating an 18 year-old?
Women can be students in their 30s or even older.
When I was a young adult, I did sometimes date girls without jobs, but they were students.
I wouldn't date a girl with no job I don't want to have to take care of her. I work hard for my money and I feel she should do the same. The only way I would is if she earned her keep like cooking cleaning and running errands while in at work. But I'd have to trust her a lot
Girls aren't expected to be a financial provider, so yes. It's a good thing to have but it's not necessarily a deal-breaker if yiu don't
Yeah, I would probably date her... But she better not back demands on how much I spend on her for food, or that I don't buy her expensive stuff... She gets what she gets... I don't spoil women that don't want to contribute, I spoil them because I don't have drag them along financially.
Depends on why she doesn't have one. If she chose it to pursue other paths or help her family or something like that I'd be fine with it. If she doesn't have one because she's simply too lazy to do anything I'd definitely stay away from her
I'll say maybe because she should have 'willingness' for a relationship. I'll help her out if she is going through tough situations. But that's also where you are most vulnerable. Because I was in this situation but when she felt better, she left me for someone else. Really felt shit and used up fool. But that's me personally
I'm a girl, and I'm not lesbian, so I would say that I wouldn't want anyone to date me while I was jobless. Building a solid foundation to start a relationship is a first!
A good percent of the girls I date are still in school, so a job doesn't matter.
That girl in the picture above is cute. Have her PM me.
Are you dating girls in their 20s?
Yes, my girlfriend is now 21.
The average age of women I date is 23, and that hasn't changed since I was 25 myself.
I have questions. Message me?
Apparently, you only allow messages from those following you.
The surveys have been done and the data is clear: for men, the socioeconomic status of a woman makes little to no difference to how sexually attractive she is to him.
Why doesn't ahe have a job? Do I have a job? Where are we living? What's she like? Is she condescending and lazy? In which case.. no... does she want to work? Is she trying? I mean... I don't actually really care but.. I just want the whole story xD
LOL hell no my partner can earn her way in this life just like everybody else.
I don't have a job, but i am looking for part time work since i'm in University.
Its okay to be in between things. As long as she had money while in between I wouldn't have a problem with it.
Yeah. I don't have one myself. But even if I did that wouldn't be a problem for me. As long as I didn't have to pay for EVERYTHING. And it wouldn't be my business where she had money from.
I suppose I would. Not everyone can or wants to work. But I would assume if she's currently single, she's probably got a job right now to pay her bills.
It 100% depends on the reason why they don’t have a job.
Of course I would. Men don't value earning power in their mates like women do. Other things are far more important to most men.
Does it really matters?
I mean, it have nothing to do with love, havn't it?
I would if she were a student. But otherwise I don't think I would. I feel like by a certain age, people need to get their shit in order.
Depends. Most of the time, I'd say she shouldn't have time for dating and if she does, her motives are clear.
.. that is unless she inherited a trust fund and doesn't need to work
I don’t have one, so there’s no reason to look down on her. And even if I did, it’s just a natural career issue if she’s trying. No big deal.
May I ask why you're unemployed?
Epilepsy and the side effects caused by my medication. I literally can’t get out of the house by myself. (My dad’s too busy with his job and I have no friends for help.)
I'm sorry to hear about that!
The doctors are trying to reduce the side effects. It’s making progress, but taking so very many years...
I'd really not want to go through that again so, the answer is no.
Yes
As long as she's not a dumb lazy golddigger trophywife.
Fuck that right off
If there is a goal in mind that she's working at, trying to find work, studying, etc wouldn't bother me. Buy if she sits at home every day looking at YouTube videos , complaining she's bored... Sorry, um can't help you
If i work you need to work too. Im not going to pay for everything
I find it preferable, because it's easier that she can date me in my free time.
Of course - I'm a guy. It's women who "require" man to have a job, right?
It's not a deal-breaker, but where would I meet her? most of my contacts with women are through their jobs...
well it depends on her reason for not working but yes i would id just make her work another way😉
Depends if she is happily sitting at home (then its a no) or really tring to get a job (then yes)
As I said in the other thread, that would depend on whether it was a temporary situation or a lifestyle.
Yeah as long as she's hot/pretty, and also if she's actively looking. What's the problem?
@gigi7 Attraction is important. Duh much?
@gigi7 No one said it's *only* about looks, it's merely the first thing people notice about each other. And passion is necessary to couples staying happy with each other. Have you never experienced that for yourself, or something? And would I dump her for someone hotter... hmm. Dunno. It would depend on whether we were having problems or not. But really, people should just not assume that most relationships should be monogamous, because monogamy isn't natural, and then it wouldn't be a problem for people to have sex with other people. People would stay happier as a result.
@gigi7 I have definitely been in love. Indeed, it is what it is.
Gold digger? or just on hard times? if the latter yes.
If she was a student or going through some sort of other training, then that's fine.
She doesn't need a W2 in order to spread her legs. Just be careful she doesn't "OOPS" you into an 18 year annuity.
@wolfcat87 That's why it's best that you don't let her know your name or address.
It depends if she's trying to get one. I mean if she stays at home without foing anything to get a job I guess not but if she's trying to get one I'll probably date her yes
Yeah i will but would gitls date a guy (who is trying his hardest) with no job?
lol it depends on the age
I don't care if she works or not as long as we're into each other
Depends on the reasoning behind the lack of work, and it really just depends on how much u care for her
Yes, if she us fully capable of getting a job and has a career she has worked in for years. If she has no skills, then no.
Yes, my ex wife never had a job for the 8 years we were together.
Probably not if she was planning on not working forever. If she's in between jobs sure
For most of the guys it would be no problem. If it would have been the opposite i am not so sure
if she's hot ya lol
What about you; would you date a jobless guy?
I would :)
yeah no guy cares if a girl is working
Yeah, doesn't bother me all that much.
I would not date a guy without a job
oh noes
Would you feel guys should date you if you have no job?
@Armourdillo yeah
A little entitled aren't you?
@Armourdillo not at all.
"I expect men to work for me, but they should be fine with me being unemployed"
@Armourdillo indeed
What does she look like?
Yes, i would date and be with a girl with no job.
Would you date a guy with NO job?
I mean yes, but it would have to end after awhile
I need her, not her money
As long as she's hot and sucks my dick yeah
Are ww talking about students?
The girl in the picture struggling.. poor thing
Will you date a boy with no job?
Only if she's looking for one
Sure it's not like we're getting married
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