I refuse to date a white girl who has mixed children, am I a racist?

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I do not hate blacks or mixed people. But I avoid relating to white girls who already date a black or Muslim man.
I met a nice Swedish girl in Tinder, I even met her a few times, but I gave up on having some serious relationship with her after I found out she had already dated black guys before meeting me.

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Obviously I have nothing against black or mixed girls.
I just do not like white girls with mixed kids.

PancakeSenpai · Accepted Answer

You seem to be either highly insecure and/or very intolerant. I don't even think it's about the "size" thing at this point. Because if it is that's pretty silly considering that it's not always true. And you also mentioned Muslim men that don't have that stereotype. So it must be something about dark skinned individuals that's offputting to you when it comes to interracial partnerships. Maybe you're afraid that she'll prefer someone black or Muslim more if you're in a relationship together? Maybe you're afraid of your family judging you for dating a "tainted" white woman? Of course I don't know because you haven't provided much.

You need to provide a reason as to why you don't like white women with mixed kids or white women who've dated men of color. Because otherwise no one will understand you and we all know that people who often say "I'm not racist"... along with such statements as yours... LOL

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Had you have said "Am I wrong for not wanting to date a women with kids." I would say no but I am going to have to say yes. Like if they kids were too white Swedish children would you be okay with it then or... it doesn't matter either way no matter what color they are or who has fucked her? Maybe you're wondering if the dad is still around? I am not assuming he isn't because he probably is.

Afrochick · Accepted Answer

LOL

Completely understandable. It's an unspoken rule that white women are damaged goods once they have the black mans' seed. It's not that they don't go back, they CAN'T go back. Having kids as a single woman ruin dating prospects.

AND THIS IS WHY I DONT FEEL JEALOUS OR ANGRY WHEN BECKY DATES BLACK MEN.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

You are somewhat like my boyfriend. He is White but won't date White women who have dated Black and Muslim guys. I thought it was racist but he says he isn't, since I am non-White myself.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Absolutely not. You are just smart enough to not waste your time with a shitty relationship. People can curse you but they cannot convince you that why would be a great thing dating a coal burner. Those girls don't even like white men, why would dating them be a good idea?

RolandCuthbert · Accepted Answer

Well, I am not "Mixed". And after talking to the "Mixed" people here at GaG, I don't think most would consider you to be racist.

I don't know. I wonder what they would think.

As for "White" women, it would be interesting to listen to their views.

Goochbreaker · Answer

We are all racist to a degree, especially those of us who think we aren't, those are the most racist. I'd prefer a girl who hasn't dated anyone tbh, but a girl who's dated black guys would kind of worry me because typically when a girl is looking for black guys, she's under the impression they have big dicks, so all this girl cares about is a big dick lol. I don't want a girlfriend who's just looking for pleasure

JCT666 · Answer

Nothing wrong with that at all. You are smart enough as a man to not let women who have made terrible decisions manipulate you into paying child support for another man's responsibility. I would never date a woman with kids, let alone a white woman with Tyrone's mixed-race bastard offspring.

ADFSDF1996 · Answer

It’s not racist per se but it is intolerance and or it could be a unusual strict standard where you want your significant other to have a similar way of thinking.

Synttacks · Answer

I feel it depends on why. If it is because she had sex with someone not her race then yes. However statically mixed children will have more health problems and I personally don't want to deal with a kid at all at this point in my life...

WalterRadio · Answer

I wouldn't want to seriously date any girl with any children. Having a preference in dating isn't racist, even if that preference is a bit weird.

Sambivalent · Answer

Kinda weird, and definitely could come accross as rasict, you might not like the responses your gonna get on this question.

Bandit74 · Answer

If people say yes will that change your opinion? If not then you are better off keeping this to yourself. It's not like you need to tell girls the specific reason why you lost interest in them.

Red_Dragon · Answer

Yeah you racist bruh. I made sure to made my contribution to the cause lol. I've been with plenty of white girls and currently dating one.

Anonymous · Answer

its up to you , as to who you decide to date , obviously you feel these women have a preference for black men and so wouldn't be interested in you for the long term

Anonymous · Answer

You sound like you’re just intimidated or insecure about her being with a black guy before you and the stereotypes that come with that.

ovoxo_ · Answer

Why would you want to be with any woman that has any kids?

jackmaxim · Answer

Hahaha I've heard this shit before would you like to elaborate on your reasons

Kelly6 · Answer

Yes you are racist. Two people with different race is turn on for me.

Anonymous · Answer

I understand you. I already dated black girls, but I could not get involved with a white girl who had already dated a black man. This is not racism, maybe hypocrisy.

Anonymous · Answer

You're totally fine. No one would like some women who dates some piece of crap.

SirBarristanSelby · Answer

Yep, that's racist dude.

Kai02 · Answer

Yea you're racist

EarthyGirl · Answer

You have issues 😂

Anonymous · Answer

Yes, you're racist.

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