Do you get jealous when your ex moves on?

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Marethyu · Accepted Answer

No. If the relationship ended on good terms, I'd be happy for her.
We broke up in order to move on and find a partner that suits us better after all.
If it ended on bad terms, I'd not care enough about her to even find out that she's moving on.. If I did however "good for her", I suppose.. I wouldn't see a reason to be mad still.
That's the point of a break up after all.

PatrickJames · Accepted Answer

I did for a short period of time the you have to realise the world doesn't revolve around one person, there's always someone better round the corner if your willing to look. Once I fully understood this there was no looking back

Pink934 · Accepted Answer

Only if he completely broke my heart I guess. Like if he had promised marriage or kids then decided to throw it all in the bin and move on... I'd probably initially be really upset.

Although with all my other exes, I was practically holding the door open for them to leave any ways 🐝

StellaGreenEyes · Accepted Answer

Depends on the ex. With the most recent one, he just told me he’s in love with someone else and it was like a knife in my heart. With the one before him, when he told me he met someone I was happy he was happy, until she treated him like crap and now I hate her because he deserves better.

pingiluv · Answer

No I wouldn’t, they are exes for reasons lol

mrs-turner97 · Answer

90% of mine haven’t moved on and or still single or their relationship failed so no I don’t lol plus married so no need to be but is it kinda bad I find it satisfying that the douch bags haven’t dated anyone as good as me lol or still randomly texts me saying how they wish it was different and they would of acted right and been better for me. Yea I’m petty if that is what petty Is 😂😂

idrilcarnesir19 · Answer

Did I get jealous? ... yes, because he cheated on me. He has moved on already before and after my heart was broken. Not jealous cuz he has a new girl I guess? But more of Im suffering and he isn't.. I could care less about the girl. Wish he'd give it time cuz seriously that is just disrespectful, it feels like what we used to have never mattered at all.

whatthehellwasthat · Answer

I dont care whats going on in my exs life. Im focused on my own relationship, and how much better im doing without him.

Anonymous · Answer

Personally, I'd be relieved if my ex finally moved on. Years after I broke up with him, he was still bitter and a jerk. I won't bore anyone with details. But it would be nice if he finally moved on, not just bc he was a nightmare to deal with post-break up when I ran into him but so he can be happy

Jisoo_lover5683 · Answer

I don’t know cause I haven’t broken up with my first boyfriend but I would say HELL YES. I’m in love with him and those feelings can’t just go away so quickly. Even if it was a while after we broke up, it would still hit me pretty hard. The important thing though would be he’s happy, and that would make me happy even though I wouldn’t be apart of that happiness.

Bukhuni · Answer

Yea I do.. I'd be hurt if she dated another guy after me, but that's only natural so I have to live with it.. I guess this feeling comes from the urge to be everything for the person u love or think that u love :/ I don't know tho

lostgirl_searching · Answer

No, I would be actually happy for him. He had a hard time finding someone before he met me and when he broke up with me he's having a hard time again. Everyone deserves to be with someone that will feel happy and loved.

NesrineNess · Answer

Yes lol not jealous but i just hate to see him move on without me

PoliceLivesMatter · Answer

If she’s my ex, then I already forgot about her the day we broke up. It’s just my personality. I don’t dwell on stuff like this for too long

Jermaniac · Answer

Wish I could say no but it does.
Met both at a party last week but I dislike the personality of her new fling and the way she goes with it so I threw her of my FB and blocked her number.
Can't say I feel good about it

0xCandyGurlx0 · Answer

Nope! I got cheated on by one, and the others didn't feel it anymore, not did I. At least the guys. My ex-gf didn't want me anymore, but we're still best friends, the way we were in the beginning.

loveslongnails · Answer

No... we're ex's for a reason. If she dumped me, she wasn't happy. If it was mutual, we would both be glad if either of us found someone more compatible. If I dumped her, I'd be ecstatic if she found someone else !!

TacosRAwesome · Answer

Well I got jealous after the first boyfriend moved on especially since I was single for years after and he moved on within a month. When my ex started posting stuff on Facebook about a new girl I found it annoying.

acooke-13 · Answer

Yes if you've not moved on. I was jealous, not because id not moved on, but because I didn't think he deserved it

teylorR · Answer

yeah, I think its just natural though. You want to be desired and it boasts confidence knowing that someone is still into you.

Sawyerblu · Answer

Why would I be jealous of the girl who’s now with my shitty ex boyfriend lmao

SmoMan71 · Answer

I don’t pay attention to an Ex long enough to see them move on because I am gone by then anyways.

EmHenz · Answer

If you do then you have not moved on. Happens to me at the beginning of break ups when I'm still not over it. But after I get over it, I could care less.

Twat_Twig · Answer

No. I'm with the man that makes me the happiest and I hope my exes find their happiness.

opurba · Answer

My ex been married it's been 5 years probably... i was busy didn't even bother to count coz he wasn't such person that I was missing.

millesimeame · Answer

only sometimes. if i ended it or i’ve moved on since then i’m okay. (or if i have someone better by then lol)

therainman · Answer

I did at first to all 3 of them (mostly the last one 'cause she gave up on me to be with another guy she had liked before). Now, I couldn't give a shit about any of them...

DiegoO · Answer

Not really. I have no fear of what she choose. As long as she is happy I will be happy, it doesn't have to be with me. When I started thinking like that I let go that fear I had.

007James007 · Answer

Yes and no. It heartbreaking if you still love them and you see her with a new guy.

And no because you realise what a bitch/slut/cheating/liar/etc she was to you and you'll be happy you're not with her anymore.

loveshorro · Answer

A little but it depends on what happened in the relationship

Anonymous · Answer

Well me and my ex broke up over 1 month ago We're still "friends" We talk regularly and hang out regularly But deep down, if he's seeing other girls or find another girl, I would be jealous.

BroncoBill · Answer

My ex moved on, didn't know that. Trash was picked up the other day, didn't know that either. Jealous? Never.

Myplace22 · Answer

Nope. I wouldn’t want/expect them to get hung up/depressed about what happened. In the end, it’s the right thing to do to wish someone well even after a breakup

memeqweenn · Answer

no because I block them on anything so I never know what they're doing lol. It's better that way.

pinkyshirt · Answer

Depends. I do when my baby moma runs off with a new guy every 3 months but I'm getting over it. Now the other exs i have I'm not jealous of. Depends on the extent of feelings i have for which ever ex.

Giggletr0n · Answer

Hell no! I would welcome someone to have her so she stops bugging me!

TheBaard · Answer

Kind of especially if it happens real fast or I have kids with her

rahul_24 · Answer

It's a natural response like. But you got to be mature and move on and let your ex do whatever she wants to do. None of my business anymore

rednecklover_88 · Answer

I wouldn't really call it jealous more like its a gut wrecking feeling of betrayal if y'all was together for a long time and they was supposed to have loved you. Ion see how its so easy to move on

dbk1488 · Answer

Absolutely. Id just soon not even know about it. Up to a certain time like my baby mama im happy for her when it looks she might of found a good partner.

up_64 · Answer

o haven't got a girl to "ex" starts crying and eating icecream

Mrblueballs42 · Answer

well yes I haven't been with anyone else. Really hard to find nice ladies anymore.

Nahid1234 · Answer

No my ex is a hoe and lives on hoe street on east London

prakharr19 · Answer

Yes even in ine sided relationship or one sided love we get jealous.

PAWSTTG · Answer

Why worry about someone who doesn't give a shit about me?

Barrydekmar · Answer

That's her option because if she's my ex I'm going to move on to why wait for somebody who don't want me

junglis7 · Answer

Yes. But because I feel like I should have, not because I wish they are. I am jealous of the moving on, not of being left.

1thiccboi · Answer

Oh, yeah, of course, all the time, but you can't let it make you bitter. Don't let a bad experience ruin you for yourself or others.

MrCarter3 · Answer

I think everyone would try to deny or hide their true feelings and show something different in how they socially express it

lonly3187 · Answer

Depending how quickly they do  Like my one ex was with someone with in 2wks not just hooking up but full on out changed relation ship status to bf/gf

Anonymous · Answer

I like a long haired, thick redbone Open up her legs, then filet mignon that pussy I'mma get in and on that pussy If she let me in, I'mma own that pussy

Jazz007 · Answer

Sometimes but when I see my ex with a wrong guy I love it😂

Slim57 · Answer

I never have up until this last one cause I caught feelings pretty hard

BareTruth · Answer

Hard to get jealous when they downgrade and gift wrap you into a sea of horny women

CrazyLegs41 · Answer

Yes, but I'm still happy for them even more so if we split on good terms.

GoldenBrown · Answer

If you haven't completely moved on yet sure. But it's natural just don't let it consume you.

buckleyj167 · Answer

Yes but at the same time i dont want them back, its weird

Ronlbaam · Answer

Very. I think its natural though. It doesn't last long for me, so im lucky I guess.

jaithecraybaeslay · Answer

Depends on which ex it is , I got jealous when my first love moved on

dodomir · Answer

Not jealous maybe irritated... deoending if i know the dude or not

bloodangel1 · Answer

No I'd feel good for her At least she found someone worth it

ChronicThinker · Answer

I haven't to date.

FýrdracaDócincel · Answer

Yeah it's something I really need to work on.

pinayfit · Answer

Nope , i mean he's an ex for a reason

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