Girls, Shirtless pics on tinder?

[osc92]

I am not ripped or anything but wanted to experiment to see what kind of matches i would get. What do you think about shirtless pics and what would you think of this one? Be honest it won't hurt my feelings lol.

[ChronicThinker]

This is not to body shame, but if you're not ripped, it's kind of fucking pointless to have a shirtless pic on tinder. It's like: ... okay, that was a very average experience.

[osc92]

i get what you are saying. I appreciate the honesty. Some girls might like my body even if its not super sculpted so i was thinking of giving it a try anyway. Just to experiment.

[ChronicThinker]

Well yeah, I'm not saying you have a bad body, but overall, it's douchy when ripped guys do it, and it's just kinda awkward when average guys do it because it looks try-hardish.

[osc92]

So the unfit guy is automatically awkward, pointless and average experience. But your not body shaming... ok.

[ChronicThinker]

It's the same for girls, if it makes you feel better. But if you're that keen on showing off your half-naked body it's your choice man.

[snowangle]

I don't recommend it. Even for guys who are ripped, it makes them look like a tool bag.

[osc92]

thats what i hear. but since im not ripped I've always wondered what responses a skinny guy like me would get. I have some super ripped friends and they don't get many women in general in real life. I don't know if they use tinder.

[CurvyPryde]

Im not a fan of shirtless pics on tinder. But you still look good.

[Pamina]

No, shirtless pics come across as very douchy. Trust me, most women will agree with me on this.

[thottiana]

Double standards

[Pamina]

@thottiana How many accounts do you have? And could you make it any more obvious that you're actually a guy? lol

[winniethepoah]

When I see shirtless pics I instantly swipe left. Attractive or unattractive it gives off a douchbag vibe

[MsMusic]

I automatically ignore guys who have shirtless pics, and guys with no bios

[veronicalynn]

Nope, no, not a good idea.. Nothin wrong with you it's just come on they don't even know your name yet.. Put a shirt on and take a picture

[thottiana]

I am 100% female and born that way @Pamina and I have Only one account. I don’t understand why you blocked me

[RedPillGirl]

No, you're an ectomorph. This simply isn't your best side. You're attractive, but don't do this.

[osc92]

You're right. It isn't my best side. I'm aware of that, but it was a general question for all body types, not just mine.

[RedPillGirl]

Women aren't as physically attracted to men as men are to women. Women kind of require a man to have a certain amount of physical fitness. That's just what helps us see you as a man. It's not exquisite, in the way the male mind is.

[osc92]

You contradicted yourself.
"Women aren't as physically attracted to men as men are to women. Women kind of require a man to have a certain amount of physical fitness."
They aren't as physically attracted but yet there's a requirement for physical fitness? If there's a requirement then its obviously important.

[RedPillGirl]

"not as important"

wanting to bicker like a female is your biggest hurdle.

[RedPillGirl]

no woman's going to want to be with a guy who seems easily rattled

[osc92]

not even mad, just try to make some sense next time

[RedPillGirl]

ok, women are exactly like men. that's probably what you're hoping to hear, tbh.

[osc92]

so they do like seeing our titties then lol. No i just feel like most of the replies on here weren't genuine. Like they are just saying what society wants them to say, not what they actually think.

[RedPillGirl]

Women have no clue what triggers attraction. I only wasted a long team reading about it. Usually a woman knows she likes a guy, and that's about it.

[osc92]

thats simple but actually very informative. Thanks. Probably why many of them go back to guys who treat them like shit. They are just attracted to them for whatever reason thats implanted in their head.

[RedPillGirl]

Exactly.

Yes, girls are wired who like men with certain attractiveness triggers.

The thing the jerk-guy is doing right is demonstrating a dominant frame. The male-female relationship/ sex is essentially about the guy dominating the girl. It doesn't make sense, because it's almost the animal side of a person.

There's more to this too. Like, women are attracted to sociopaths, psychopaths, and narcissists. No one knows why. But not every woman is going to act on that attraction, and most guys see greater value in being sane than attractive, in that sense.

[Anonymous]

To me come off as desperate I do a little cleavage but not to much.

[2wbillsbillsbills]

*Cough* Fuckboy *Cough*

[2wbillsbillsbills]

^^I didn't mean to be harsh on you.

[osc92]

its ok most of the shirtless guys on tinder probably are fuckboys. I am not, I just like doing social experiments on tinder. I find it interesting how a simple picture makes such a difference in whether they swipe or not. Don't know if i will do a shirtless pic but i might just to see the matches/responses i get or don't get.