Shirtless photos - hot or not?

[ITLSTL]

I'm wondering what the ladies think, are shirtless photos on a site like Facebook considered hot or just really lame and tool-ish?

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+1 y

Well try to think of it this way... If an artist spends time drawing or painting and they have a good result they may display there work on the internet or an art gallery, so if a guy spends hours in the gym, sculpting his body per say, how is that any different?

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+1 y

I just find it humorous when guys who have pics of things other than themselves as their profile pic and try to say that its insecure... irony?


I can admit I'm overly confident, and I like the way I look, if you don't feel free to cry about it

[Snow123]

To be brutally honest, if you want to attract girls who TaLk LiKe diS or girls who say "Like OMG, that is like, so last season! *insert high pitched giggle*" then go for it. It'll work.

Otherwise, the majority of girls will probably think the guy is a:

A. douchebag

B. cocky

C. immature

D. self-centered / egotistical

E. the type of guy who wears sunglasses on his face indoors 24/7, where there is no sun, just because he thinks it makes him look cool while saying "Cool story bro" all the time.

^ Or a combination of those.

I know they're harsh words but they're honest words. Like one user said, 1-2 shirtless pictures is just whatever - neither here nor there sort of thing, but profile pic after profile pic and albums full of those pictures will not be reigning in the females any time soon for any guy who does it.

[FierceMegan2]

Best Answer.

[JustChris]

I liked this answer.

[Snow123]

@FierceMegan2 and JustChris: thanks :)

@QA update: it's different because art is an extension of one's self through a creative outlet that conveys the expression of the artist without actually placing them at the center-fold of the attention, whereas posting shirtless pictures is the epitome of self-indulgence; it's entirely "me" focused, and it neither conveys a mood or perspective, instead it's broadcasting to the world the "me" aspect of a person in the most superficial manner: looks.

[ITLSTL]

I'm not saying your wrong, but I'm going to play devils advocate regardless, If posting shirtless pics is the epitome of self-indulgence then what is posting nudes? isn't the point of a profile picture to show "you" off? its saying hi this is me, and I've always taken shirtless pictures as saying "hi I'm me I'm confident" as for the A-E, A has nothing to do with shirtlessness, a guy with spiky hair can a fake tan can look 10x as douchebaggish could he not?

[ITLSTL]

B- I can definitely, but one could easily see confident just as much I think... C- I think the phrase "dont judge a book by its cover" kinda negates that one because imo maturity has nothing to do with the way you dress.. or don't dress lol, D- That kinda goes along with cockiness I think, but I guess is probably the one I agree with the most, E - is just lolzy, because there are people that do that and its sad, but a select few can pull it off I think, minus the cool story bro of course lol

[Snow123]

Thanks for BA :), and I can understand. It's just the sad fact of the matter is this is kind of the case where a few ruined it for the majority; a lot of actual douchebags and jerks post shirtless pics all the time and because of that, they give the rest of the nice guys who do the same (and aren't actually cocky but just content with how they look) a bad rep. So it's just safer for a nice guy to not do it, since then he won't run the likely risk of being associated with douchebag/cocky status.

[Tamikaze]

The point of a profile picture is not to show you off. It is to just simply show your face, that is all. Now if you are using the profile to try and date, well most girls don't need to see your naked upper body to make up their minds whether they would be interested in you. If you really needed your pecs or your abs to seal the deal with a girl, well that would be sad.

[ExplosiveBananna]

But the cocky douches always get le girl. Except in movies...

[hmhmmcaitlin]

Like a lot of the ladies have said, it is generally tool-ish to post shirtless pictures (unless you're at the pool or beach). The dedication to beauty in sculpture/painting and your body are very similar. I see your point. To spend time and effort on your body to reach perfection is wonderful. But artists don't generally advertise their work. Most artists I know or have spoken to are very humble with their work. Posting shirtless pictures of yourself is more like flaunting what you have to your social circle. I think an equal comparison between art and body building would be a gallery compared to professionally modeling or entering competitions. Posting shirtless pictures can be just as tacky as posting your art on a social network site. I think it isn't about the fact that you're showing your body, but where you're choosing to advertise it.

[Tamikaze]

I vote for lame. It makes a guy look like he is way too into himself and/or that he needs attention from others to feel good.

It's kind of like anyone posting non-stop updated photos of themselves. I have a relative like that and I know she her self-esteem is low. She is always taking pictures of her face and posting them for no good reason. I post pics that tell a story, like vacation photos or holiday pics.

I also had an ex who was narcissistic and he constantly wanted pictures taken of him, shirtless or clothed. He needed a lot of attention from others to feel good. So, it is better to post a simple pic of you than one that screams "I need attention."

[TheDigitalSaint]

Consensus says (just from judging all the complaints I've seen about it before), that it is tool-ish. I think some girls are going to disagree, but most just shake their head, even if you have a nice body. It seems to be "try hard-ish".

[LoveBambi]

It really is try hard-ish.

[TheDigitalSaint]

Judging by the amount of votes I received, that seems to be the rule.

[DamieWamie]

As a guy, its more annoying than anything... because we wonder if you realized that half the people that would see it are guys anyways.

[Lights]

Having one or two max, it's whatever.. but every single picture you flexing and with a shirt off.. tool-ish to say the least.

[Lights]

@update; because it's basically bragging, *certain* works are put in a gallery to be appreciated by the individuals who enjoy art.. not everywhere wants to see a dozen shirtless pictures and have it shoved in their faces. If you want people to appreciate the "time you spend at the gym" do it on ratemybody.com.. not an advice site.

[ITLSTL]

I mentioned Facebook not this site, if you don't want to see them then don't look

[Lights]

Fair enough, you asked the question so I'm giving my opinion ;)

[CestLolaVie]

I agree with all the girls on here who said, this is very cheesy. Its a totally turn off to have pics like these on your profile. Its the same as girls who put pictures of themselves half naked, its cheap. I don't like it. It just a desperate cry for attention.

[rusiesq]

I'm gonna have to say lame.. to me it says cocky and makes you seem cliche and boring. Plus, it will most likely make you seem like the kind of guy that doesn't want a girlfriend, just a hookup (unless of course, that's what you're going for. And even then, it's unattractive)

[rachiee]

Not hot. Its good that you're confident in yourself and in your body but putting a pic of it up on Facebook makes it seem like you're just trying to show off which is never a good thing. I have guy friends who have amazing bodies but never flash it around to everyone. So when you do see their bodies, its a lot sexier since its a surprise and they're being "modest" about it.

[rachiee]

@ your update; I had a feeling you would say that. Its great to show off your body on the beach/where its appropriate. But on Facebook? Not so much. It just comes off as cocky.

[hbruce]

It depends. First of all, you have to have a nice enough body to pull it off. If you do have a nice body, then you have two situations to consider.

If it's a photo that you've taken of yourself posing in the mirror, then more than likely you will come off as douchy or full of yourself. However, there are some instances when they're fine and can even be sexy. If someone else took a photo of you while you're at the beach for example.

Basically, if it's a photo of you in some situation where NOT having a shirt on is totally normal and accepted, then they're great. If it's a photo you're taken of yourself deliberately trying to show off, you come across as a tool and/or douche.

[emmablunt1993]

When people have pictures like that, I think that he's cocky, boastful and it's also kind of cheesy, like someone else said.

[emmablunt1993]

To your update-Displaying pictures of your own personal appearance is a LOT different from posting something that is a unique skill, like a drawing or something, because when your profile picture is a shirtless one, it gives off the impression that you want to show yourself off, you want people to know how buff you are, whereas if a drawing was your profile picture, you'd want people to see your alternative skills, you want people to admire your work, that's not self-centred now, is it?

[ITLSTL]

I disagree, when I draw or photoshop something and upload it on Facebook or if I were to make it my profile pic id be going for the idea of "hey this is my drawing, I worked hard on it, everybody check it out" how is that any different from "hey this is my body, I worked hard on it, check it out"?

[emmablunt1993]

Because it's completely different, a drawing is a work of art, your body may be that too, in your opinion, but can't you see how broadcasting your body on Facebook makes you come across as fishing for compliments, huge ego, and very conceited about your appearance?It's fine that you like how you look, but you can express that by putting up a cute picture of you in a nice shirt or jumper, why would you feel the need to show your body off to everyone?It makes it obvious that you want compliments.

[iXenomorph]

lol. I think you girls just crushed his delicate sense of manliness. It's always the case that the most insecure of men spend hours in the gym then post pictures of themselves in order to feel less worthless.

[ITLSTL]

Your right, truly secure men talk crap on the internet and have anime characters as there profile pic, wth was I thinking...

[iXenomorph]

Hey buddy. I'm not the one asking for validation about myself with a pathetic topless photo. I'm not the only one here that thinks it's retarded. I mean how insecure do you have to be?

[ITLSTL]

It has nothing to do with validation, it has to do with the fact that I bust my ass 4 days a week at the gym and I'm proud to show it off, I could give a f*** less what people think, I was just curious as to whether or not women liked it or not, does it mean I won't post them anyway? hell naw

[iXenomorph]

If you bust your ass in the gym and couldn't care less what people think then why are you asking this question?

[ITLSTL]

Curiosity, if I asked whether gays preferred black or white d*** would it make me a homosexual?

[iXenomorph]

No, because that question relates to gay. You may not be gay. But your question directly relates to your own body because they're pictures of you, therefore yes, you are insecure.

[ITLSTL]

Thats funny because I never post any links of pics to me, I also never said "I, me, or my" so how exactly do you figure it relates to me?

[iXenomorph]

For one, you have a shirtless photo on your GaG profile so obviously the question relates to you.

Secondly, I do not believe that you are so intellectually curious as to ask a question that does not relate to you. Are you intellectually inclined to probing the behavioral nuances of men on Facebook? I think not. Thirdly, if this was really an en passant curiosity, I doubt you would have attempted to defend yourself so vigorously by telling me about your workout habits.

[kereru]

not a good idea... when I see pics like that I instantly think "douchbag " no matter how hot the guy is.

[Blackhairedbaroness]

Hahaha! Me too. Exact word.

[anony84]

If they are shirtless for a legit reason (e.g. the pictures were taken at a beach, pool or BBQ) then sure no problem. But if it's just a random shirtless photo then yes it is a bit silly.

[Shinygirl]

If it's a hot guy it's a hot photo hands down. And casual at the beach or chillin' in the sun pictures are fine. But if you have a lot of them or one that you took of your self just to show off your abbs or something like that, it's tool-ish

[freudette]

im sure if that's the case you'll impress some people, but just consider the message that's being given off to others and prepare to be judged in that way...

[Yriuqni]

Nah don't do it ..

an ugly guy with his shirt on is more attractive than a hot one showing off .. total turn off!

[Zimbo113]

I like shirtless photos. Too bad no women do that :c

[freudette]

just think of the connotations if a girl puts a photo of herself in her bra/ topless on Facebook... it works the other way too...

[ivarei]

unimpressive

turnoff

unimaginative

it says all sorts of bad things about you and nothing positive.

[sammy_31]

Hey I say a couple okay but more than that just makes it looks like that's all that matters. It may be hot but then too much at a certain point.

[Heeheehee]

Not hot... Hate it when guys do that. That's a turn off for me, I mean really? Leave something to the imagination, lol. xD

[aliciaxx]

The only thing that could make shirtless photos more tacky is adding the caption

"I'm SO ugly!"

[_lightness_]

if it's like a candid one of you at the beach= OK

posing/mirror shot: toolkit

[handsomejackk]

lol Okay so I'm guilty of this too. I'll just say one thing in my defense, shirtless photos aren't even a tenth as toolish as d*** pics!

[Xx_DRE_xX]

HAHAHAHA Get EM BRO!