Listen to the pink users that say she should be able to tell him to fuck off herself. My guess she is still acting nice to him, either she likes the attention or she is just passive/docile and stupid. Many guys have fucked girls that have boyfriends so her saying that she has a boyfriend doesn't automatically keep him away.
Now talk about it with her but do not accuse her otherwise she thinks u are insecure. Just tell her if she stays friendly with him and if she doesn't tell him to fuck off, he will continue. Tell her u would confront him but u think she is not helpless and its up to her to make it stop if she wants him to stop.
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Tell Ur girlfriend that she should say yes, next time when he comes and ask her out for dinner. Then when they start with ordering drinks u come give her a kiss ( I would slap her ass or pee on her like dogs do with trees. That shows the most guys who she belongs too) and say hey baby sorry for being late. Then u spend a nice evening with him and ure girlfriend. In that evening u should be able to make it clear without telling him directly. But he will understand.
If he still doesn’t stop!!! Think about what dogs do with trees.
I would, thats just downright insulting and disrespectful, and as for your girlfriend she should either tell him that they can't be friends if he is going to act like that towards her as it's making her feel uncomfortable or again firmly tell him to stop or they won't be able to have a friendship, you should tell him in a non aggressive way but make your point clear. And let him know that you know EVERYTHING that is being said by him to her. Also talk to your girlfriend and tell her how it's upsetting, and ask her how she would feel in the situation should it be reversed. Good Luck, he sounds like a right asshole!
If your around when he does it then I would confront him but I wouldn't go out of my way to find him and tell him off.
What I would do is flirt more with your girl and talk to her about it. Ask if she wants to role play you hitting on her and her turning you down. It could get pretty fun and funny.
I'm sure you know this already but, women are not helpless so I would let her handle it unless he became aggressive. Being jealous is a huge waist of energy and is exhausting.
What about she stops talking to him. I can tell you from experience that, unless the guys is a sex offender, he only goes as far as the girl let's him.
If he's still bothering her, is because she leads him on.
How are you skills at complimenting your girl? Do you do it often?
Don’t get yourself in a fight. She needs to put him in his place and it should stop if it’s don’t right. I was in a similar situation once but I put my foot down and he stayed in his lane. She can’t be friendly with him after he’s crossed that line either... no mix signals. Good luck
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If she has exhausted all her effort and the dude is still not taking the hint and its bothering her then yeah I would say to confront the guy but after you talk to her and see how she feels on it. How has she put it to him? Maybe she wasn't clear possibly?
Are you f'n kidding? I just joined here and see you are younger. Is this a serious question? Or you being ridiculous to get ridiculous responses? If you close your eyes hard enough that bad man is sure to go away. (Your girlfriend with him by the way) Good Lord man! If you're serious, How can you allow her and yourself to be disrespected like that? More guys are gonna do it if by some miracle she stays with you. Its YOUR job not here to solve that fella.
1. No, because the more he forces it, the more she'll dislike him. She's not trying hard enough. Desperation absolutely disgusting and she will get sick of that shit.
2. Yes, if you think she's doesn't understand the psychology of males or she is too nice/weak.
3. Fun "joke" option: Gaslight her if you think she's pulling some triangulation jealousy bullshit to manipulate you.Well you could if you uhink he will back off because whatnif he doesn't.. he may get the message or he may be a nutcase... but these days what he is doing is considered harrassment maybe your girlfriend can inform of that and if he doesn't stop he will be reported.
Let me see if I can even write anything on this board.. seems everywhere I go somebody has either got me blocked and won't let me post. Dont you just hate it when things are going good and out of nowhere and you continue a conversation and they blocked you. I dont understand. Not even a little. No deceny to write you or at least explain. Ghosting is very much alive these days.
Absolutely men have 1 basic rule that everyman will take over anything else and thats family easiest way to get your ass kicked is to fuck with a mans family however if you guys aren't to serious i would ask her how she feels and if it makes her uncomfortable or not if so yes if not i wouldn't worry about it
He's going to take that as you being insecure. If he's really bothering her, she needs to assert herself and threaten legal action if he won't quit. That's harassment.
You could do that, but if he ignores you, carries on and you do nothing about it then you're just gonna look like a bitch to him. Really she should just stop talking to him at all if he tries again.
If you trust her, just leave it alone. Those guys take care of themselves eventually. he will get frustrated and make an ass of himself, or he will give up.
That would be the thing to do, im not saying like "yo thats my girl you pussy" type of shit, more like calmly say "_____ is my girlfriend and it seems disrespectful that she told you about me and you dont listen" you see what goes from there
No, tell her to put him in his place - unless of course she likes it, then it shouldn't be him you're mad at.
Are you sure he’s hitting on her and not just being nice?
If she did her part by turning him down, do yours if the guy is still hitting on her. BUT, do it with words first. If he doesn't listen and things get even worse, then... yeah..."eat him alive".
Yes! Don't let some guy steal your girlfriend... how ever If she disregards his actions and stays loyal to you.. you have no problem. If she attempts to advance.. you need to talk to her...
Confront him legally. Don't ever commit a street fight. He should regret it. It's a shame that you are seeking permission. But still it's a great thing you are seeking an advice. For me this looks like a fake question for girls from the karate kid.
Confront him in a good manner. Hopefully he'll be understanding.
If you trust your girlfriend then you shouldn’t have anything to worry about anyway, but make it know to the guy that you know what he’s doing and you’d like him to stop! If it continues have a more stern conversation with him
You should before he starts harassing her and things get out of hand
Trust me. That's not WHY he likes her.
She should be able to handle it by being very clear and drawing the boundary.
Make sure you have all the facts before you confront this guy.
And make sure he's not an MMA fighterIf she is allowing it to happen and not simply telling him to go away I would say she is enjoying it and you need to look harder at your relationship.
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