While in a relationship is it ok to give the opposite sex compliments?

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bigssslittleshow · Accepted Answer

That's something you should discuss with your s/o but I think that deep down inside as long as you you know when they aren't around you know how to behave yourself and you aren't embarrassing them, you still hold respect to the realtionship as you would when they are around. I think you can compliment someone else because whatever you say to that person you can say in front of your s/o. But it really cool depends on your trust in the realtionship if you cheated your you don't make them feel wanted or your messing up some how those compliments and paid attention to the opposite sex can ruin their confidence.

KatMGW · Accepted Answer

Yes, of course, it is ok to compliment friends and say nice things to people. Everyone appreciates a sincere compliment and if your partner is so insecure that you can't say "oh so and so you look nice today [more mindless conversation about things like weather/work/whatever]" then they are not ready to be in a relationship. It is not ok to say "yo I would totally fuck the shit out of you" to a complete stranger regardless of whether or not you're in a relationship.

XRabbitHeartX · Accepted Answer

Depends on what really. I think it is innaproprite to for example tell another guy or girl how hot or attractive they are. This seems out of place and a strange thing to even want to say someone else (why notice enough to care about telling them). But if it is like on their academics or work related or in general then I dont see the issue.

coachTanthony · Accepted Answer

Look the only difference in the spirit of your question is INTENT. What is your intent when giving the compliment? If it's just a compliment then fine but if you have an intent on the compliment going somewhere else well then the answer would be A BIG FAT FUCKING NO. Don't be a creep. Hope this helps.

Bas96 · Accepted Answer

Why shouldn't it be? I know it's 2018 and some people are going crazy about these things, but it is absolutely fine. Compliments are always good, depending on how you say it to them. Why wouldn't someone want compliments? Everyone wants to be appreciated by the other people.

Some_Goof · Answer

It's more than okay I guess. I mean it's alright, you should compliment each other here and there

pure7 · Answer

Ofcourse you can ! Its all about what words you use and the context. Say a girl got a new haircut you can say things like: it suits you or it looks great/better than before. Using words like cute and hot however are more likey making you look like a flirt.

Paztelcat · Answer

No not really, depending on what kind of compliment and to whom. Compliments are initiators of relationships, and with the opposite sex it may make your partner feel as though you are trying to hook in another partner, or feel unsafe someone may start liking you.

Tokentexas · Answer

I see most answers revert to how you think about it or meant by it. But must take into consideration who you are complementing & how the see & feel about it. Its a slippery slope to openly feel okay about complementing the opposite sex when you're already committed. Many emotional affairs start from innocent words & friendly interactions with no intent. But compliments start, each hears things the others likes, and it can snowball. Also if your partner is not comfortable with it, I'd respect their feelings first over mine just wanting to compliment the opposite sex. I can think it & not HAVE to tell someone, small concession if you're in Love. Respect them, compliment them.

whattothink · Answer

I think it depends on the compliment. Like I have several married coworkers that are guys. If they get a new haircut/glasses/tie and it looks good I'm going to tell them. Not in a I'm going to report you way, but in a hey changed up your look and it works kinda way

Anonymous · Answer

Who are you giving compliments to? Your partner or others of the opposite sex? If you're giving compliments to your partner of the opposite sex, that's awesome. If your giving compliments to somebody else opposite your sex, you might end up having a quarrel with your partner.

Laura276 · Answer

It depends on the context and how the comments are worded. If my partner said to me something like, "Babe, those jeans really suit that chick's figure. They'd look awesome on you". My reaction would also depend on how secure I was in the relationship and on how my partner made me feel and his thoughts and comments about my body. If I were rarely complimented and felt my man thought my body was flawed and yet he complimented other women, I would feel insecure and hurt.

Xoxocutekitty · Answer

Yeah it's fine. It's almost easier to give compliments because it is more objective and doesn't automatically mean you're romantically in to them. You can just be like nice eyes, you're kind, you're really funny and it means just that

dragonfly6516 · Answer

Yes, so long as it's tasteful and "safe for work". I personally don't care if my man flirts with others, so long as it's known that it's just in fun and not to be taken seriously.

scrubluv84 · Answer

Depends on how it's done. For instance "nice shirt or I like your hair" I think is ok. Pretty much anything beyond that I don't. Also depends on how your spouse feels about it. If my girl doesn't like me complimenting other women I think it would be wrong to do so. You should always keep your spouse's feeling into consideration that is if you care for them. That is just my opinion

chetanic78 · Answer

Yes. I absolutely believe so. I am married, and happily so. But that being said, I'll make comments about an attractive girl, and she'll make a statement about an attractive guy... it keeps things fresh... and it honestly makes you pay more attention when the relationship may begin to get stale. If you don't care what he says, ... or he doesn't care what you say... one of y'all will end up cumming on another person.

nbriannem · Answer

Honestly I think it is a lot of unnecessary stress added on your partner you dont need to compliment any other girls if your with your girl there is just no point in it throw yourself into the relationship and dont add the drama or the stress on your lady

oftheHowl · Answer

Talk to your partner of what compliments they consider okay or not okay. Usually the limit is "nice" or "good", don't use cute, hot, sexy, etc.

ocho8x4life · Answer

Yes! When is it every wrong to tell the person that you are with that they look stunning, beautiful, amazing, etc. Even if you are with someone for 10 years, you still remind them of how beautiful they are to you. You never stop giving compliments to a person you are with. Remember if you are going to say it, then you better mean it.

sophiealice · Answer

Hell yes. We kinda appreciate being appreciated by our partner. But you know them better than anyone else so use your best judgement to gage how many compliments are too many. But there is no harm in letting someone know that you care and that they are important to you!! 😁

PinkMichae · Answer

I don't have any issues with my so complimenting another woman. I'm secure with his love and attraction for me.

Malita55 · Answer

As long as it’s just about their personality, achievements or maybe their makeup/outfit but never directly shout their body or face because that’s disrespectful

cheapstickfreak · Answer

usually, if the woman is immature about this kind of topic, and mostly envious girls are, don't fking do it. a mature woman would understand it, but don't count on that too much. you need to asses her character before speaking.

TypsyGypsy · Answer

Just because your in a relationship don't mean that has to kill your personality! Compliment them but don't mean it in a sexual, low key tryna hit on em type of shit you know? It's called having a good personality

zulfiqarali · Answer

I think there is a thin line between compliment and flurting... it should be avoided when in relationship

fauchelevent · Answer

Of course, it’s just being nice. I mean, unless it’s like ‘damn, you’re so sexy’ or something 😂

BuchitaBuchys · Answer

A genuine, harmless compliment is ok. Like "hey, nice haircut". But anything that suggests romantic or sexual interest is not, like

FinalVow · Answer

yes as long as you there is no intent other to show simple kindness. everyone could do with a hug or a compliment generally both

TinaSP · Answer

why not? relationship is one thing and being honest another. being honest: why are you posting this shit anonymously? I guess you wanna see if its ok to text other girls

siddhu33 · Answer

Yup actually that's really very very essential. Make urself clear before giving a word make sure it's doesn't resemble in a flirty manner

tnboy · Answer

To a degree I think it's ok. Man I tell ya young folks sure worry about a lot of stuff that didn't seem to matter

ChristianBateman · Answer

Of course. But it’s the intent behind it that determines whether it’s OK or not. If you give someone a genuine compliment just to be nice, as opposed to saying it as a way of flirting, there’s absolutely nothing wrong with it.

ravedave · Answer

Yeah I'm perfectly okay with that. Unless you're insecure and don't trust your partner, I see no reason to have a problem with this.

Caaarl · Answer

I don't believe they should be completely off-limits. Are some compliments more inappropriate to say in a relationship? Yes. But intentions matter.

i_am_me_you_see · Answer

Yes, nothing wrong there as long as your not gawking over them, is my opinion on it

Sha84 · Answer

of course, you are not a slave because in a monogamous relationship still be sociable and frisky. @TinaSp Anonymous Questions should be eliminated to reduce trolling

Anonymous · Answer

It's never ok to give the opposite sex compliments... their egos are big enough already. I suggest you adopt a ZERO compliments policy period.

Steve37 · Answer

Within reason, yes. Telling a woman she looks pretty or that you like the way she styled her hair is OK. Telling her she has nice tits or a hot ass isn't.

Silwer · Answer

Absolutly! I think it's important to tell your partner what you like about him or her! It makes the person more confident and you got yourself a sexier partner!

MightAsWell10 · Answer

Yes just make sure to give then to your partner as well

ghostofadog89 · Answer

Complimenting something is a thin line for most... best to play safe and keep it professional but be mindful... why are you in this position from the get go... it's one thing to look... it's another to act

mr762cm · Answer

It depends on how strong the trust is between the two.

Lovethecountry · Answer

I think it is fine, sometimes someone may be having a bad day and a nice compliment may be all they need to make their day better

OfDeath · Answer

Like "hey baby sweet arse you're towing there!" "I want to squeeze your arse and give you a rim job!" Sure. Perfectly fine.

Anonymous · Answer

Only if she finds you attractive otherwise it's sexual harrassment

Evkaxy · Answer

Well I think that while in a relationship giving any and every kind of compliments is desired

nutshell234 · Answer

Yes if the other person gets jealous it just shows their insecure

TrinityD · Answer

Your compliments shouldn't sound like you are flirting with the person

dawnm902 · Answer

Of course. Complimenting people is a truly nice gesture.

TRD2177 · Answer

Absolutely. Cutting that off can lead to a super mentally abusive relationship. Beware

Love_yourself · Answer

Don't ever do it in front of your partner.. My mom always yells at my dad whenever he compliments other woman even though it's a nice compliment..

LordVarys · Answer

Yes, if your partner gets jealous just reassure them that your there's, girls get jealous its apart of life.

yolie4 · Answer

Providing its innocently spoken without malise and it's truly to boost morale and not flirt or imply one's self

HimanshuYadav · Answer

It is very necessary to give compliments to opposite sex while in a relationship or not, it simply makes their day! And they'll love it when they here this from their partner. 😊
Hope this would help!

Anonymous · Answer

Yes but stay in with boundaries. any compliments you give the opposite sex should be so that you can give the in ftont of your partner

bigbootyrick · Answer

Hell yeah it is! Maybe don't go overboard but a complement can go a long way! People do almost everything for a reason. Having those things appreciated is a great feeling for anyone

larbear2058 · Answer

Yes. Absolutely. You're not dead when you're in a relationship nor is the opposite sex your enemy now. A relationship is all about trust not about turning off everyone in the world.

big-ginger98 · Answer

Yes, but don't give too many, it makes you seem desperate and clingy

Calebm88 · Answer

Absolutely your makeing her feel comfortable and flattered.

Wiki7470 · Answer

Are there any rules and regulations when your in relationship? I don't know.. I always like to compliment cz thats make them happy

name_is_eric · Answer

No. You have to remain mute while in a relationship.

Shanti85 · Answer

Depends on how open-minded or liberal your partner is! Personally I'm married and wish I weren't.. but I have a beautiful daughter giving me hope

grinchnasty · Answer

Yes just don't get disrespectful and don't cross that line. But complements are good self-esteem and confidence builder's

JustaGeorge · Answer

Of course. Maybe just dont do it around whoever you're dating if it makes them uncomfortable or jealous

Dark_Angel4780 · Answer

Yes and if my significant other dosn't think so then I wouldn't stay because I'm a very flirty person

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