Do men really mean compliments during sex?

Question

He said “You’re so tight”, “oh baby” “God, baby” - Does he say those things to encourage me or does he really think I am tight?

Crimsyjo · Accepted Answer

Awww. From reading the comments I guess we are not gonna know the answer to this as it varies from man to man.

I'd like to think as the man is pretty occupied with the pleasure of sex that he isn't really thinking much outside of it. So the few thoughts that get through are indeed genuine. What he says before and after may be less so...

Do you (we/women) say oh your so big, ooh that's so good, your really turning me on just to encourage him? Or cos we mean it? I must admit I have said what I think they wanna hear 🙈 but in no way means I'm thinking the opposite.

Chevy1_kb · Accepted Answer

Well if he's really into it and saying it and he's feeling good a suggest he means it looks at his face see how much he's into it his eyes look at listen to the noises and how much he digging deeper as time passes am guessing if it wasn't that good he would say it wasn't good so sounds like he's enjoying it and it's just coming out his. Mouth because he likes it my ex done the same with me and still does

BikingTrail · Accepted Answer

I usually compliment during a blow job even if its just a mediocre one because I know she's trying her best and she has no way of knowing how it actually feels. Once I said "fuk, that feels good babe" after about a minute (her first time sucking me) and she said "mmm" while it was still in her mouth as if to say thanks I guess. if we kept going out I would have given her more hints of what i liked.

Another time was so intense I couldnt even say anything. Just watched her in disbelief at how unbelievably amazing it was. i couldnt even speak!

BetaBucks · Accepted Answer

99% of compliments are honest, 1% are encouragment. IME. I think girls are a bit more insecure on this topic because they're more likely to give words of encouragement that aren't true, than guys are. Girls are just nicer like that and understand personal insecurity much better than guys do.

DannyUk2017 · Answer

Depends how you make that man feel... If he is "really" devoted and enjoys to max the sex with you then Yes, he will say them things because he feels them, You should be worried when He Does Not say anything, or anything At all...

elizamichale1 · Answer

They will say wht they feel in the moment but then tht would be with every girl... they would definitely feel her tight so they would say n genuinely mean it but with next girl they would feel more tighter n would still say the same n if next girl felt a little less tight they would never tell her tht...

I hav had cluents telling me tht i m as tight as a virgin girl... i know i m not since i hav had hundreds of cocks... but looking at sum of them i felt they actually meant it but with some i could tell they r just saying it n not mean it...

So its just a mix of both true n fake compliments

Tamera952 · Answer

He doesn’t care two shits about what he’s saying, & more than likely isn’t giving much thought in the moment to providing you specific complements — he is literally thinking with his penis in that moment. His penis head is in charge.
He will say anything & his sole & only focus is on the physical pleasure he’s experiencing from his penis, with the singular goal of ejaculating. That’s just the reality of how males are wired. It’s not personal.

Skinhead-1979 · Answer

I can only think with only 1 head at a time... So when my 'downstairs' head has been activated, the 'upstairs' head has been largely deactivated; or the least its functions have been reduced to the bare minimum 🤣

RavVid · Answer

Sex is a team game and in any team game you boost your team mates right? So we do say things about what we are enjoying about you because 1. we are and 2. to make you feel good 3. encourage you.

If really like your tits I'll say so. If you are nice and tight I'll say so. If are good and wet I'll say so.

If I say Good Girl I really like what you just did.

DishLady · Answer

Yes and no... At some point the brain shuts off and the body takes over, so comments that come out in moments of genuine passion are sincere.

MrOracle · Answer

Things a man says to get you INTO bed may or may not be true, but once he has you there, he has no reason to lie. I would take him at his word.

KrisKris81 · Answer

Mean them as in a legitimate compliment, I'd say 50/50. Usually, it's for your benefit, but not necessarily as a legitimate compliment. Especially young studs, who don't have the experience to really notice, or who are so well endowd that every woman feels tight. Don't look into too much, though. It's not meant as a slight, if it's not a legitimate compliment.

on_my_knees · Answer

If I fell into her pussy like it's a glass of water, then no, I'm not going to say "Oh bb you're so tight." I'm going to focus my energy on being technical and competing with the big elephant cocks she's had there in the past.

Anonymous · Answer

Blood has left the head. He has no idea what he's talking about. Only focused on please not stopping.

HawkPerception · Answer

Not always. It's the best of the moment. Genuine guys will say it honestly. Players will say it regardless of what they think

Meisdipa · Answer

Mostly guys like to say those words on bed. But doesn't mean you can't take that as a compliment.😉

icedragoom · Answer

If he is saying it in bed as he is fuckin he means it he ain't just going to say some random as shit out of no where.

Nikki1989 · Answer

No, men will say that to just about anyone.

OhLongJohnsoning · Answer

If we're saying it, it's likely true

However, remember, you never know if we're saying the same things to other women, too.

I'm not sayin he's cheating buttttt, just keep that in mind, that, ACTIONS speak louder than words

Makeushiver · Answer

In the moment its pretty difficult to think of a lie and run with it. If he cums, it makes no difference what s/he says. a the proof is the climax.

Altheavas · Answer

No, it’s just the moment! Don’t think of it any further than the moment you’re enjoying!

paledreams · Answer

I do like some - and genuine compliments - before or after - during might seem fake 😉🤥

Dongie · Answer

Yes. They tell you what they've wanted to say. Now they are there and it comes spilling out as we ravish you.

Luckycharms12 · Answer

Say thing's to make you feel good and sexy. Same as you do to guys. When you feel comfortable and confident sex is better

TonyMetal___86 · Answer

Men say a lot of bullsh*t while making out, sometimes they might be real and sometimes no!

Pterodon · Answer

He can stick his dick in your pussy but you can’t ask him this?

petitedollbabee · Answer

Could be either or both.

Anonymous · Answer

Sounds like he is trying to hide the fact that he has a small penis.

SpeedAnswerDemon · Answer

"you have AMAZING toe dexterity!"

jahaims · Answer

That would depend on the guy

FrankWhite0317 · Answer

Can you dm me?

In_Trance · Answer

Did you talk to him about it after the fact?

Anonymous · Answer

Does it matter.😆

controlleddecent · Answer

well are you tight?

jjj101010 · Answer

At the time they do

kareka · Answer

Yesss its also turn girls on more

Alex_m25 · Answer

are you really tight?

Danny_dan92 · Answer

Who doesn’t?

sethtav · Answer

Sometimes

bluejeansblues · Answer

Sometimes i do

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